What do others think is wrong, but you have always insisted on?

I myself turned out to be one of the many workers, life is also relatively stable, see the friends around me have their own career, in vanity trouble, the idea of starting their own business has been in my mind over and over, when I first proposed to start my own business with my family, the family is, very opposed, I have no experience in entrepreneurship, I am afraid that I will fail or something, and then at my repeated insistence, the family still compromised, the big deal is to start all over again, I have no worries, Devote yourself to your career. Facts have proved that as long as you are willing to endure hardships and work hard, your efforts will eventually be rewarded, and now your career is becoming more and more stable, and you have been recognized by everyone, and your career is getting better day by day.

Buy flowers every week. As long as I'm not on business this week, I will buy flowers. There is a flower shop downstairs, but unfortunately they are all ordinary flowers, and I am not interested in buying too much.

Ride to a 15-minute drive to buy it, put the flowers in the basket, ride back, the wind blows me up and down the hill, the flowers are in the front basket, thinking that I am participating in the people's congress in the 50s. I once met a ghost guy in that flower shop, and the ghost guy complained about why his wife liked these useless flowers. I smiled and told him that it was these useless things that we women were able to survive.

There's no excuse to explore the city on foot without the help of transport. I know the subway and bus are in **, and I know how far I'm going to go, but I just love walking. "Shopping" is literal to me.

I've done this in Chongqing, Beijing, Shanghai, New York, and San Francisco, and the peak was walking along Fifth Avenue from the Metropolitan Museum to Times Square during a thunderstorm one night at the end of March.

On the plane, under the stars, on the top of the mountain, in the field, at the gate, I love to see all kinds of clouds. I always imagined myself sleeping on a cloud, and suddenly the cloud broke through a hole and I fell, and another cloud caught me. I just jumped and jumped and jumped on the clouds, like jumping on a trampoline, but it was more beautiful and pleasant.

The clouds change like cartoons, one moment it's a dragon and the other it's a dog, but it's all so beautiful. I remember reading an article when I was a child, the teacher asked everyone to write a travelogue, the children of rich families went to the Grand Canyon to see the waterfalls, and the people who had no money watched the clouds at home. I feel very happy to be able to watch the clouds quietly.

Watching ** should be the thing I've been holding on to for the longest time. Everyone around me thought it was a meaningless thing, but it had become a habit in my life, and I always wanted to watch it for a while whenever I had time. Whether it makes sense or not, I don't really care, it's just a hobby of mine, and it's already integrated into life, sometimes I don't have to think about it at all, and my hands will react naturally.

Does reading "idle books" count? I'm talking about idle books, not ** or anything like that. I studied financial engineering in college, and I often like to go to the library, which has a lot of books from other majors.

When I was reading those books, my classmates who were studying with me were holding various financial qualification exam books and said, "You are wasting time by reading idle books again." "But I've learned a lot from what they think of as idle books.

Make a handbook. I'm talking about a broad handbook, or rather: whether it's a trip, a drama, a lecture, or a small surprise in life, I want to record it in my own way of cutting, drawing, and writing. It took a lot of work, but when it was done, there was a great sense of satisfaction.

I especially like to take a car, a car, a taxi, a bus, a coach, and when I'm not in a hurry, I sit in the car with a vague hope that I won't be so quick to the end. Sitting alone, sitting with friends, chatting, being in a daze, thinking about life, listening, playing games, reading books, I enjoy all kinds of forms.

First of all, I would like to say that people who can always stand up for themselves are people who are very courageous. There are two types of self-persistence:

1. It is the insistence of blind self regardless of right or wrong.

If this is the case, you need to calm down and consider the voices coming from the outside world to help you become a better version of yourself.

2. Reasonable and legal, not only will not hurt others, but also can achieve their own wishes.

If that's the case, tell yourself to hold on a little longer! Sometimes the world needs retrogrades, and retrogrades will also be the most beautiful!

You can listen to other people's opinions to see if you are too persistent, and if you still feel okay after thinking about it, then stick to your own.

It's very difficult for everyone to understand, and it's enough for a person to know a confidant for a lifetime.

I think you should stick to it, if you still think you're right, then you have to keep going, and the new manager is in the hands of a few.

The strong live for their goals, the weak are swayed by the people around them, and if they do the right thing after careful consideration, don't care about the understanding of others.

The premise is that you confirm that you are right, then you should insist, others do not understand because they do not understand, this is normal, when Ma Yun founded Alibaba, many people did not even understand, and directly regarded him as **.

I think if it's a matter of principle, we have to stick to it. Otherwise, there is no need to argue with everyone. As long as you are right, the facts will prove for you in the future.

As long as your intentions are good and well-intentioned. Or if you think you did the right thing, don't think so much, don't care about other people's eyes, even if you are crazy once, it is good, although they don't understand it for the time being, they will slowly understand it later. You can't satisfy everyone, you just have to be right.

Since you are right, you should insist on yourself, but at the same time, you should also listen to the opinions of others, try to understand what others think, and then see if there is a better way according to the actual situation.

As long as you are right, it is normal for others not to understand, persevere, and use time to convince others that what you are doing is right.

According to the textbook, I should insist, but personally, I will choose to give up, too many doubts around me, will cause a lot of blows to the individual, I don't want to see these in my heart, even if I insist, the possibility of me giving up in the later stage is also very large.

If you are right, you still have to be firm in your choice, don't care what others think, good opinions are acceptable, but be yourself.

Since I was a child, my dad said that I, you are a donkey, I also discovered my character trait, what I decided, 8 horses can't pull back, a road for you to run to the black, hit the south wall and don't look back, as long as I think it's right, I think it's necessary to persevere, don't you have to have this bit of courage in life, you can't listen to the command of others, we live our own life, the will of our parents we should look at it dialectically, sometimes they are also wrong.

For example, when I first learned excavators, at this time I said that I would not go to college, I went to learn a skill, learned an excavator, and will come to the construction site to work to earn more money, and then honor your two elders, at that time my parents 100 disagreed, and even said that if I don't go to school, I will cut off the father-son relationship with me, this matter is big, but I know what kind of person I am, I have to go, if I don't do it, I can't sleep at night.

I still didn't go to college, I went somewhere to learn what is the strongest excavator, and then I was mixed up on the construction site, even the boss of the construction site respected me for three points of thin noodles, more than 20 years into more than 10,000 people are actually not many, I think I succeeded, I got a lot of satisfaction in my heart, this decision is completely correct.

In fact, I'm not blind, I know myself, going to school is not my strength at all, it's not that material at all, in addition to wasting time is a waste of money, why bother, it's not easy for parents to earn money, I get out of school early and let them work less, isn't it good? I am responsible for my life, no matter what I decide, I have to be responsible for my own life in the end, and I should be able to bear it when I grow up.

I will insist on doing it, but I will not get into the horns, I can't say that I don't listen to other people's opinions, and I ignore everything other people say. I'm a person who can take other people's opinions, after all, what you think is right may not be really right. When I've listened to all the people's opinions, and I still think it's right, then I'll stick to it.

If it's not right, I'll stop immediately and won't do anything senseless.

I'm a bit paranoid, so I think I'm going to stick to things all the time, regardless of whether anyone disagrees with it or not, whether it's right or not. As long as I believe in something, I will continue to do it, and I will generally do things with a mentality of not looking back until I reach the south wall. So for me, decisions are not easily changed, and this is also my life credo.

For what I think is right, I go back and insist, no matter what others think, I believe that hard-working people, the sky is not worth it, and three thousand Yuejia can swallow Wu. As long as I stick to my right direction and succeed in the end, there is nothing more for their opponents to say. Sometimes you feel right, but others don't think so, and it will become an obstacle to your progress, you need to stick to your heart and do your best.

For this problem, my opinion is that I will continue to do it, but I must bear the consequences of it, because sometimes what I insist on is not necessarily completely correct, but if we don't insist on it, we don't know if it can be done well, and sometimes you can still believe in your first feeling, and you must believe that you can complete it.

I will calmly think about why they are opposed, if it is really their problem I will not reason with them, just silently insist on doing it, I believe that the rainbow after the success, let them see the results, prove themselves with the results, it is useless to say with words, speak with facts, no matter how good the words are, they will not believe it. If I was my own fault, I wouldn't insist and listen to them.

Yes, there is a saying that never believe in anything else, you can only think about yourself, you will not lie to yourself, even if you do something wrong, you will not make excuses for yourself, life is your own business, it has nothing to do with others, how to spend every day, decide in your own hands, you will always stick to what you think is right, you don't listen to things outside the window, and only read the sages and sages.

I think that since it is your own decision, you must have thought a lot in your mind before making the decision, thinking about the consequences, and thinking about what your actions will bring; Of course, it is undeniable that when you make this decision, you should think about what makes so many people deny you, ask them why, communicate with them, and when you feel that these reasons are not a problem, it is not too late to implement them.

Since it is the path I have chosen, I will definitely stick to it. Many things are not the beginning of the results can be seen, on the road to success will be associated with a lot of setbacks, tribulations, may be self-doubt, whether you have done wrong, but, people are more than persevering. If you don't experience wind and rain ** and you can see the rainbow, no one will succeed casually.

Sometimes the truth is in the hands of a few, if you have a high opinion and thinking about a thing and get a conclusion that others can't understand, then you should follow your inner thoughts, persevere, and believe that the truth will not be broken, even if it is questioned by others, but you must know that this is the path you have chosen, even if it is bumpy, you must finish it.

In fact, I think the right thing I will always insist on doing, after all, I am more persistent, and more persistent, as long as I recognize something, then I will persevere to complete it, I don't like to be the kind of person who gives up halfway, I don't like to stop halfway, I will let this thing have an explanation.

If it were me, I would seriously think about whether what I insisted on was right or wrong, whether I could achieve the effect I wanted if I kept persevering, or whether there would be other unexpected situations, or whether I thought about all the possibilities, and if I found that what I insisted on was wrong, I would choose to give up.

If it's right, I'll continue to persevere, if I can't judge, I'll give myself a deadline, and if the time doesn't achieve the expected effect, it means that my insistence is wrong, and then I will choose to give up. Sometimes sticking to one thing may or may not have results, and when others have been denying, we should all reflect on me.

At that time, I was convinced that I was right, and I told my mother that I wanted to go out and do things, and I didn't want to study, and everyone in my family was telling me about the dangers of society, but I didn't listen to anything, and I still stuck to my ideas, until I told my girlfriends what I thought, and they told me how they calculated.

There are mistakes in my calculation method, many emergencies are not estimated in it, and some of them are not comprehensive, but it is enough to overturn my previous thoughts, sometimes there will always be surprises in life, some are surprised, some are happy, no one has a smooth sailing in his life, so the future does not depend on his own calculations.

I also knew that I was wrong, so I gave up, and although I am not studying at a good university now, it is clear that I will take the road in the future, and I can fulfill my dream. Therefore, if others oppose what you insist on, either there is something wrong with what you insist on, or others do not understand what you insist on.

Just rely on their own ideas and experience to evaluate your persistence, in this case maybe your persistence is not a mistake, just like if we want to insist on entrepreneurship, as long as we have our own ideas, I think we can go to break through, take advantage of the current youth, we should work hard, so that we have no regrets, such persistence I think you can continue, at least let yourself try, and then decide whether to give up.

If it is a more difficult thing to complete, you have persisted for a long time, and there is still no result, at this time others have denied you, you should give yourself a deadline, don't waste all your good time in this one persistence, you should also know how to give up, but also understand that not all of them can have results, people's lives are very short, there are many things that should be insisted on, and things that have no results should be given up as soon as possible.