Why do you feel like you re worthless the more you grow?

Because people are at different ages, each of them has different ideas and ideas. In my youth, the world we live in is actually very small, and the friends around us are all people from the nearby area, and everyone is actually about the same in terms of ability and economic level, so that everyone's contrast psychology is not very large, and everyone is very confident in themselves. But when you are young, especially when you go to college, you will find that the world is completely different, and the friends around you are no longer similar to your ability, and some may be very successful people in their careers, but they are far away from themselves, which will make your psychological variance bigger.

When you graduate from college, the distance between everyone becomes larger, which produces the psychology that people are more useless the older they get, which is actually a very normal phenomenon.

On the one hand, the mind has matured and knows that many things are not as simple as they were imagined before; On the one hand, the ability cannot keep up with the ambition, and if there is an appropriate goal and the corresponding ability, then this situation will not occur. Goals are higher than abilities, and of course there will be disappointments; Everyone feels useless when they feel because the world is not as good as we imagined, but it is also fair. When you feel like you're useless, it's time for you to work on change.

This sense of uselessness is actually just a clear view of society, just a mature mind, and an objective recognition of one's own limitations. Therefore, the more I grow up, the more I feel useless, which is not a bad thing, it is a correct attitude, and it is a return to the reality of cognition. So, the next thing to do is not to sigh about your uselessness, but to find the one-third of an acre of land that does not have much effect on the society, but is enough to settle down and work silently.

Acknowledging and accepting your ordinary.

Only children will feel that they are very useful, the parents of children due to better family conditions, always a domineering attitude in daily life, often show disdain for others, children are exposed to it, coupled with the richness of family material life, so that children form a vain and arrogant psychology, at the same time, excessive praise by parents, will also make children think too highly of themselves, resulting in children resting on their laurels, losing their due aggressiveness, and increasing children's vanity. Therefore, children often feel that they are superior, forming a lack of awareness at home that they are absolutely not good, and they feel that they are very useful. Of course, it is the education of parents that causes the little ones to feel that they are useful.

After graduating and entering the society, you will find that the real world is completely different from what you imagined, not everyone will spoil you, not everyone will respect you, not everyone will accommodate you, and the world will not revolve around you. Entering the work unit, all kinds of deception, all kinds of human feelings, will inevitably encounter all kinds of blows, at this time you will find that the unit is less of you to turn, the world is less of you to turn, and gradually there will be a sense of uselessness, we are almost ordinary people, and 99% of ordinary people, how much contribution and role can they have to the society. We have gone from being full of ideals to being ordinary people who bend over for five buckets of rice, doing jobs we don't like every day, day after day.

Here's how I see it: At an age of ignorance, we may be carefree; In the age of the flowering and rainy season, we may be full of pride. That's because in both phases, we don't need to think about life and all sorts of social issues.

As we continue to grow older, a series of things such as employment, buying a house, marriage and so on come one after another, which inevitably makes us more stressed. At this time, we often feel that our heart is higher than the sky and our strength is thinner than paper. I feel more and more useless.

When faced with choices, when it is difficult, when it is under financial pressure, when it is self-blaming and guilty, when it is sophisticated...will sprout a sense of powerlessness and make people feel very useless. But the days still pass, the earth still turns, it will not stand still because of one person, it will not change because of one person, so the only thing we can do is to try to make ourselves strong, not afraid of difficulties, not afraid of pressure, and indomitable.

When you are a teenager, you will be full of ambition and ideals, and you will only dream of the world in the ivory tower every day, and you will have a little understanding of the real society, and you will also have the idea that you will be useful in the future, of course, this kind of thinking also has a positive meaning, at least, it can evolve into the motivation for learning and progress in your teenage years.

Any normal person will overestimate their own strength, but depressed patients can evaluate themselves objectively. It's good to know your own shortcomings, but if you focus on complaining and blaming yourself, then you will only make yourself more helpless. Treat yourself with a holding attitude, and tolerate yourself when you make mistakes; Encourage yourself when you get it right.

When I was a child, I thought that I was still young and had to be managed, and when I grew up, I could do whatever I wanted, unrestrained. As everyone knows, as time and years slowly lengthen, I really feel that when I grow up, I can do less and less, and I will face more and more powerlessness...

Life is an accident.

Death is an inevitability!

The process of being alive.

That's life!

Don't ask yourself to make every step you take is right.

I just hope that every step I take is without regrets.

Life is enough!

Find the value of your existence while you are alive!

Make your life a little fuller!

Since you have come to this world to take it with you, you can live with him for a while!

To live, you must have your own "goals" and "dreams", and paint a few colors on your life!

If you can't find the value of your own existence.

Just think about it. Myself.

Give yourself an account.

To parents. Friend.

The one I love the most in my heart is explained to her!

Then enjoy the beauty of the sunset.

Smirk. Draw a perfect picture of your life...

The meaning of being alive is to find the meaning of being alive:

1) Everyone has their own meaning in life. Man, live for yourself.

Meaning is working towards one's own goals. Success takes sweat. Success, failure, laughter, crying, every link to the fullest, enjoy.

On the contrary, if a person does not have an ideal, what is done is to show others, what can they experience, people can not even regret these in their own lives, enjoy, 2) look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you walked, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, It's a day to be unhappy, so why not be happy every day."

3) Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take your life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

There are so many people and so many things in the world. There is no you will do, I don't believe it, a person must have confidence to be strong, don't be afraid, you really do it, you feel that this thing is just so, really have confidence in the silver chain, you must believe in yourself first, you don't believe in yourself, others will still believe in you, then it is impossible, there are a lot of troubles in life, a lot of things depend on how we deal with how to think, I often encounter this group like a problem, every time I argue with myself to be strong, there is nothing that can't be done, There is only something you don't want to do, there is nothing you can't do, I believe you can too, I wish you success, come on (o) Oh.