What are some things that are scary to think about in the countryside?

Rural people are also suffering because of their living conditions, and people in the cities complain that they are obviously useless, and their thinking has been formed. Rural people can only squat in the corner of the wall to bask in the sun when they are old, Lala is homely, and a large group of people communicate together about farming, they live a hard life and have little knowledge, but this can blame them? This is the course of history.

You say that some rural people are very vicious and do things illogically, which is also the result of the oppression of hard life. There are both good and bad. I think there are some people in the countryside who are very simple, reasonable, and smart.

Rural people are stubborn, but also for the survival of their children's families, even if all kinds of stubbornness and bias can be understood, or persuaded, there are still things in the world that cannot be convinced? The women in the city take the rural objects, and many of them have prejudices against their parents-in-law, and I am talking about trying to understand them, and if you can't live together, you can send them to a nursing home, and don't give up the money.

It is easy for people in the city to earn money, they can sit in the office, they are not bitter or tired, one person is enlightened, and the whole family is full. Reading and reading out to manage the old lady is a matter of course, but you have to manage your brother and sister and nephew, you don't have any money, your nephew will give a bride price, and your nephew's mortgage will pay him back (you need to say that the down payment is still needed?). In this case, what job introduction is small, and it is more concerned than his own girl, because it is someone's incense.

Clan-style family, the interests of the original family and the big family are supreme, the interests of the small family can be sacrificed, and even in the case of the need of the big family, it must be sacrificed.

Patriarchy, boys are incense, girls marry out of other people's families, for other people's families, marry out to serve people, if you don't serve, you don't know the rules, and the family has no face.

As a young man from a rural background, he came uninvited. I grew up in the countryside, and later I achieved class leapfrogging by studying, if I had been living in the countryside, maybe I was accustomed to many ideas, people were afraid of contrasts, after jumping out of the countryside, I found that some rural ideas are really terrible. I am weak, I am reasonable, if you don't help me, I am unkind, unjust, disloyal and unfilial.

Why do girls read so many books, there are parents all over the world.

Relatives at home have a basket, come from far and near to the family to lead, saying that going out to eat is not close enough, to the home hospitality must be particularly warm, a little slack is not to give face.

There are a lot of rules, and it's completely unacceptable to go shopping or travel in the city during the New Year's holidays, and I feel that it's meaningless not to string relatives in this life, and the key relatives are basically meeting and don't know what to call them.

In their view, a person with a very wide network can use his connections (whether real or not) through him. Therefore, everyone is trying their best to show their wide connections, so as to obtain high status and benefits, that is, to assimilate their own network circle.

Requires you to follow his rules exactly, feudal conservative and traditional... In terms of personal experience, these contradictions are big and small, and they have caused me a lot of trouble in the process of growing up (although there is also a little exercise. Sometimes it's also very sad that individuals will never repeat the same mistakes when they start a family in the future.

When it comes to rural singles, I think of a TV series, the TV series "Fugui" adapted from Mr. Yu Hua's "Alive", there is also such a bachelor in the play, named Erleng. The reason why Erleng became a single has a great relationship with himself, not that Erleng is poor, there are many poor people who are poorer than Erleng, but why didn't you find a wife? There are many reasons for this, so let's talk about it below.

Idle, no fixed job.

This is basically a common problem of rural singles, that is, idleness, even his family introduced him to a job, he is too lazy to go, just want to lie at home every day to sleep, and when there is really no money to spend, go to the construction site to do a few days of small work, earn a little money and then spend all the money for spending all the time, and then go to work after spending the money, so the vicious circle continues. Therefore, many families scoff at such singles, no matter what they say, they are not willing to marry their daughters to them, people can be poor in a short time, it may be that people's fortune has not yet arrived, but people must work hard during this time, and it is very important to let other people see their determination to change. Therefore, many people say that singles are mostly because women nowadays hate the poor and love the rich, but can they see a trace of desire for a better life from the singles, they have been avoiding, feeling that as long as they don't face the problem, there will be nothing, they are like ostriches who stuff their heads into the sand, such people are weak people in life.

Therefore, it is normal for many women to be reluctant to choose this kind of man as a partner, which is responsible for the rest of their lives.

There is no one skill.

Everyone has their own choice, and they may have a strong learning ability, so they will come to the end on the road of learning, so that they will have a very bright future. But there are also many people who are not gifted in learning, and this kind of people also account for the majority of our lives, are they failures? No, everyone has the right to live a wonderful life, and if the road doesn't work, you can learn a skill.

As the saying goes, a skilled skill may become a later life**. But there are many people who are too lazy, they just want to use their time too much for pleasure, and they don't have a clear plan for their lives, and they waste their lives in fun. Therefore, when you are young, you must choose to work hard, not to be comfortable.

The level of education is low.

This is a very common phenomenon, the cultural quality of rural singles is generally not high, and they have a very strong self-esteem, so he will not accept the advice given to him by others. In fact, in the countryside, as long as the young man is willing to endure hardships, he will be favored by the people around him, and families with daughters are also willing to marry their daughters to hard-working and capable young men, so ordinary people are not worried about not finding a wife. Therefore, there are also problems in the thinking of many singles, thinking that women hate the poor and love the rich, but they never want to change themselves at the root, which is a common problem of many rural singles.