What it s like to have a grumpy person in the dormitory

See for yourself. There are 5 people in the dormitory, there has always been a person full of foul language, very similar to a certain spiritual guy, every time the tension in the dormitory is basically caused by him, it is recommended to change the dormitory or the dormitory management suggests that he change the dormitory. Let me tell you about my experience:

Once, after a night of self-study, he invited a few friends to come to our dormitory to smoke and jump, very noisy, until 12 o'clock, the most important thing is that our school requires morning exercises, very early need to get up to run, until 1 o'clock in the evening I did not fall asleep. This is already very excessive, and what is even more excessive is that no matter how small the voice is during his nap at noon, he will spray you with a dirty word and ask us to lower our voices, and he will never think about other people's feelings.

Another time he came back to the dormitory close to 11 o'clock, and he was rude when he entered the door, slamming the door in and out, and so did a group of his fox friends and dogs, who would run to our dormitory to smoke without saying a word, making the whole dormitory smell of smoke and pulling away. He returned to the dormitory at 11 o'clock and closed all the windows in our dormitory, because our dormitory was not well ventilated, I asked him to open the windows a little, he directly lost his temper and sprayed me with a dirty word and began to smash the windows, and said that Lao Tzu did not sleep here and left. This is excessive, after all, we are a dormitory, we need to respect each other, if there are such people in the landlord's dormitory, it is recommended to change the dormitory quickly, don't let the uneducated people disgust themselves.

Then maybe I will feel uncomfortable, I will always be entangled in my own bad temper, and I am afraid that my roommate will isolate me in the future. Then you have to learn to control your temper.

There is a passage in the Buddhist scripture "Dharma Sutra" to the effect that "emotions are like carriages, and it is the person who holds the reins." People who can't control their emotions and can only live with their feelings are just holding the reins in their hands, not the victors in life. ”

We can compare emotions to a horse-drawn carriage and reason to a man holding the reins. Suppose the carriage is governed by emotions and runs, and it is in a good mood and in good condition.

If something terrible happens, they may immediately stop and run in other directions in anger.

If the weather conditions or the horse's physical condition is not good, or if the horse is in a state of dissatisfaction, it will be restless, unenergetic, and will not even want to move. Even if the horse is forced to run, it will resist and neigh.

But this does not mean that we should completely give up the reins and let the carriage of "emotions" be arranged, so that we will not be able to get where we want to go. At this time, "rationality", the specialty of the carriage driver, should be staged.

Babies or animals may lose their temper because they can't control themselves, but an adult's emotions reflect the person's way of thinking and values.

pessimism or optimism", or behavioral habits such as "how to react in a crisis situation" can reveal a person's temperament.

Emotions are our intimate counterparts. It can be both our accelerator and the brake pedal. If we are full of love, we will be able to get along with him smoothly.

If you think, "This is me, I can't help it", "Emotions, of course I have to vent". Ignoring emotions like this or letting yourself go too far can lead to a serious situation where you can't suppress negative emotions.

A skilled driver knows how to calm his emotions, soothe it, please it, and enjoy his life journey with pleasure while giving it courage.

I was speechless myself, and I was willing to do everything for the dorm people, but I could hear my roommates saying that I had a bad temper behind my back.

If my roommate says I'm bad-tempered, I'm going to be very bad. After all, no one likes to be told they are bad.

If my roommate thinks I'm bad-tempered, then I won't talk to him! Who doesn't have a bad temper day! It really is!

It's good, at least he doesn't dare to mess with me, and he can be free every day without worrying about other people's opposition, so don't be too happy.

Probably there will be a sense of distance between me and me, sometimes I can't speak a few words in a dormitory together, and there is no tacit understanding when we need to do something together.

My roommates thought I had a bad temper, and they didn't dare to talk to me for fear of angering me, which made me feel very uncomfortable.

Then I ask, do you have a good temper? It's just that everyone's point is different, and it's not like losing your temper every day.

It's a very bad experience, because if you meet a roommate with a bad temper, it's especially easy to speak ill of each other when you encounter some dormitory conflicts.

It's a terrible feeling because it's going to be hard for you and him to communicate, and it's also going to be a lot of conflicts.

I felt that the dormitory was very uncomfortable, and as long as he came back, the air pressure could be lowered by one degree. No one dared to be friends with him.

I feel that after living for 4 years, my temper has become a lot more irritable, and the subtle effect is still quite big.

With this kind of person, it feels like the whole dormitory becomes very irritable, and when you go out, others will feel scared.

Fortunately, my roommate is very short-tempered, but he knows how to measure himself, and he only sulks when he gets angry.

That's a very unpleasant one, he's very short-tempered, but you already know his character, you can't just quarrel with him.

I feel that I don't dare to say anything, for fear that the other party will suddenly blow up, and I don't know how to deal with it.

I feel like I'm living in dire straits every day, and staying with this kind of person makes me feel like I don't have any desire to speak.

It's very bad.,On weekdays, he is always there to destroy the atmosphere in the group life.,The living environment of the whole dormitory is not good.。

Of course, it's just that you can't be in a hurry? Or if you are angry and speak very badly, it is also a particularly painful thing for such roommates to encounter.

It's really annoying.,Always with roommates.,Conflicts.,It's unpleasant to make a dormitory.,It's really annoying him.。

In fact, I think the life in the dormitory is the most exciting in college, because we spend a large part of our time in the dormitory, there will be five or six people living in a dormitory, we all come from all over the world, everyone's personality and behavior habits are different, but we all humble each other Most of us can still get along harmoniously, but there are also some roommates whose behavior or personality is very annoying. Let me tell you about it.

The first one is too egoistic and self-righteous in everything.

In fact, a dormitory is so big, each of us has different living habits, we want to get along well together and spend these four years together, I think the most important thing is to be humble, not to be like in your own home, you can do whatever you want, this is fair to others, and you can't stand it. It's like if you want to dress up your bedroom beautifully, but you can change the public space at will without the consent of others, which is comfortable for you, but it is possible that others will not be used to it. This is too self-righteous, and that is not to take into account the feelings of others, and ask others not to have a sound when they sleep, and there is a little voice that keeps complaining, when others sleep at night, he is very high, listening to ** with a voice, and the sound of playing ** is also very loud.

I don't care about other people's feelings at all. Such people are very annoying. Day by day, he thinks of himself.

The second is that he doesn't do it himself, and is always willing to command others.

The dormitory is everyone's bedroom, the environment and health need to be maintained by all of us, some people are not like this, when the cleaning and cleaning of the dormitory, he will have something to leave or say that the health is not good, and there is more annoying, that is, he has been there blind command, he does not do it, he commands others to let others do it, he sits there and plays with his mobile phone, ** does not do well, he will say, but never do it, what dirty and tired work will hide away. What dust allergies. Such people are really very annoying.

There is a lot of behavior in the third dormitory.

For example, if you don't pay attention to your personal hygiene, although you say that you do your own things, no one else can take care of anything, but sometimes if you don't pay attention to your personal hygiene, it will also bring trouble to others, first of all, smoking in the bedroom, I think this is the most annoying, second-hand smoke is very bad for other people's health, the bedroom is full of smoke smell can't stand it at all, and that is not paying attention to personal hygiene, don't wash your feet every day, and take off your shoes The smell of your feet can't stand it at all. These are very annoying.

Roommates play ** in the dormitory every night, and they don't want to get up during the day, and they don't let others talk, this kind of character is particularly annoying.

1. Selfishness, occupying public territory, openly and secretly wanting to take advantage of small advantages;

2. Personal hygiene, including littering, etc.;

3. Narrow-minded, don't like to talk, but secretly compete;

4. Disrespecting others, touching others at will. Nuclear reed.