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If this phenomenon really occurs in the relationship, it is very distressing, and it is very distressing to let your love not be truly released.
When you really encounter your own emotions, you can obviously love each other, but you may miss many opportunities and let yourself not get real love feelings.
And this kind of relationship completely adds a lot of distress to yourself in life, obviously the other party has her own love, but she still has to choose to blindly pursue this kind of love, which puts you in a dilemma.
It's a feeling, in fact, it's not true love, but a spirit of worship, which makes oneself just an emotional sustenance, and this sustenance makes oneself mistakenly pinned on emotion.
Let yourself have this real wrong love in your relationship, fall in love with someone you shouldn't love, make yourself worry every day, really want to give love, but there is no real return, so you can't choose.
And this kind of love will add a lot of trouble to your life, make yourself lose real hope in life, let yourself lose your self-motivation at work, consume your time every day, and let yourself be cranky and make yourself very troubled.
This is a person who falls in love with a person who can't be loved, completely breaks the laws of his life, and makes himself unable to find his true happiness in love, and this kind of love is only a one-sided effort, which always makes him feel very painful.
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When the heart is in extreme conflict, it is difficult for anyone to bear this kind of torture. "Falling in love with someone you can't love" is a kind of self-contradiction.
Falling in love with someone you can't love" is also divided into several situations.
First, you love him, he doesn't love you.
This kind of "can't love" refers to the inability to be happy with each other, unrequited love or secret love, not getting a response from the other party, bitter is better than sweet. I have stood at one end of the scale, looking up at the person I admire, reluctant to let go, unable to touch, dare not go forward, unwilling to retreat, hiding in temporary love, blindfolded, anxious and panicked.
Second, you love him, and he doesn't want to be with you.
Maybe the other person also likes you and loves you, but he is not with you. Maybe it's a spare tire, maybe it's a different place, maybe the other party has a marriage, maybe it's touching a major interest, maybe it's not a ...... that can be marriedThere are thousands of reasons why you can't be together, but in the final analysis, they don't love you enough. Instead of indulging your feelings, it is better to decisively end the silent giving.
Third, you love him, but he can't be with you.
Maybe your love has touched the boundary of ethics and morality, and the "can't love" here is really a veritable "can't love". In short, think clearly about what you are doing, who you are, what results you want, and be responsible for yourself, whether it is a moth to a fire or a broken relationship, it is all up to you.
Fourth, you love ta, and he's scum.
He may be very attractive and make you obsessed with him, but his character is properly scum, and he will even make you physically threatened and harmed, and reason tells you to stay away from him to protect himself, but his body is honestly and constantly approaching. What compensation do you want in this relationship? Even if it's a traumatic childhood, let's change people, if you're not strong enough to save someone, then tidy up your world first.
Fifth, you love him, but you are not in the same world.
Give you a hug and believe that love will not hold people back, but will only make people move forward. If they have been your beacon, then they must hope that your life will shine.
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Only love in the relationship can be together for a long time, if it is only when the level of love for him, but he does not feel for you, when it is cold and hot, then I will not get happiness, no matter how much you pay is useless. When she gives up on you, you will realize how humble you used to be. You wanted to impress him, but then he ruthlessly abandoned him.
So what does it feel like to fall in love with someone you shouldn't love?
If you fall in love with someone you shouldn't love, then whether you feel or live, it's just that you blindly give, and you can hardly see him taking the initiative to court, actively caring for you, and caring about you. When two people dine together, you always pay for it, and when you quarrel, you always make compromises and concessions first. Experience what is certain, you always listen to him.
You're always scared, afraid that you'll make him angry and unhappy somewhere. You've always been used to him.
In his eyes, you come when you are called, and you go when you call. You feel like you're an object to him in his eyes. He never cared about you.
He never cares about your joys and sorrows, and your affairs are not important to him at all. When you are unhappy, it will perfunctory say a few words to make you happy, and even sometimes annoy you, saying that you are unreasonable. When you want to share happiness with him, he won't celebrate with you, saying that you are too easily satisfied and that the joke is too low.
You don't have any intimacy with him, like a stranger you know best.
If you fall in love with someone you shouldn't love, you only think about how to make him happy. And never care if you are happy or not. Everything you do, everything you say, is for Him.
He is the whole of your life. Have you forgotten who you really are? You've lost yourself.
Lose your outlook on life, your values. Forgot how you got it, and remembered to go? You have truly fallen into its "trap".
Perfect love will make both parties better and better, instead of hurting themselves all over their bodies for the sake of love as they are now.
If you fall in love with someone you shouldn't love, you won't get true happiness. Because she doesn't love you at all, you'll never be able to feel the happiness he brings you. You'll be happy at times, but it's more appropriate to use the word fulfillment.
It was you who did something for him to make him happy. You feel like your efforts have not been in vain. Seeing him happy because of what you do, you will have a great sense of accomplishment and accomplishment.
But that's not really joy.
If you feel that you are in such a state in your relationship, then confirm that he is not worthy of your love, and let go as soon as possible. If you are looking for the perfect love, a person who is very worthy of your liking, you will find that you have been in love until it is so hard and so humble. Sometimes we don't really love him, it's more of an unwillingness, you think it's unreasonable, you put so much into him that he should love you?
You don't really love him. When you are truly aware, you will never be stubborn again.
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I feel that my feelings are very overflowing, but I must refrain from suppressing them, which will make the whole person feel unable to concentrate, very uncomfortable, painful and happy.
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I think it's very painful, this kind of love should be love, and only I am suffering this pain.
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First of all, it will be very painful. Because I know that this person can't be with me, but I can't control my love, I feel very sad, but I am very helpless.
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Since the other party doesn't like you, don't force it, just like it silently, and work hard to improve yourself.
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I think if you like someone who doesn't like you, it's better to let go of it, because I feel that this is too tiring, and you pay a lot, and you may not be able to get a reward after you finish it.
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Life is worse than death, the pain is unbearable, there is no hope, and the days are like years.
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Whether you're a man or a woman, I wonder why you just want someone who "loves yourself"? "Love" is not something that can be obtained by looking for one person. As far as love is concerned, love is a matter of two people, and it requires the cooperation of both parties and the giving of both parties.
In this way, you can feel the feeling of loving and being loved. If you don't give love, you won't feel loved. It's actually not that hard to find someone who loves you!
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Love is a floating cloud, always floating, coming and going freely, unpredictable, one will dress the sky up gorgeous, the sky is clear, and the other will be dark clouds pressing the city, wind and rain full of buildings. When the sky is clear, there are few clouds, and people see the brightness of the clouds, but when the sky is cloudy, there are many clouds, and people see the dimness of the clouds. There are always many clouds floating in the sky, very brilliant and beautiful, dazzling and dizzying, but only one of them is truly yours.
But the sky is not always clear and cloudless. When the clouds of love begin to change their color, that's when the weather and mood change. Whether you have a cold or a relaxed heart depends on whether you can understand and grasp it.
Even if you can't feel me, love makes me still love you.
I asked if there was a stop sign for love, I asked when the encounter would come, and was there any clue to guess? Maybe there are no princesses in fairy tales, and perfection is just an extravagant thought.
In a word, you're a fool, and you hold back your feelings in your heart?? Torture yourself, it's better to say it, it's good for yourself, it's good for that girl, if you don't say it, it's never possible, you say you don't dare to love, you can't love, you will position yourself, and let us help you, you don't say now that you dare not love, you can't love, it's that you don't dare to admit that you have loved, if you don't love, you won't ask questions here, let go and chase it, even if you don't chase, tell him what you think, so that what you are waiting for is a result, I am a few years older than you, I am a person from the past, I've made your mistakes too, because of your timidity, you lost the girl you loved for several years, don't you feel sorry for yourself?? The girl I used to like, but now I have a boyfriend, and now I talk to my friends, and I know that the girl used to like me too, but I buried my feelings deeply, so don't make such a mistake, good luck.
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This is understandable, you always want him to know your suffering, but also know your helplessness, fortunately, one day, under the osmanthus tree, beside the road, on the corner, you show him so many years of suffering, you hug your head and cry, but in most reality, you don't have this opportunity, you just watch him She got married, gave birth to children, and posted ** in the circle of friends, that's all.
Give up decisively and avoid getting hurt in the future