Ask for the flood control wall construction plan, and add 50 points if you are satisfied

Let's go to Zhulong.com or Tiangong.com.

Well, what answer do you want?

It's like my wife. It is suggested that if the funds allow, you can open a small store for her and sell some fine trinkets or something. You can also make some small crafts by yourself and put them in the storefront.

Or it is more appropriate to open a small clothing store.

A person with such a personality is not suitable to work for others, because she is not suitable for being controlled by others, let alone restricted by many systems, and is not suitable for socializing in outside companies and enterprises.

She is suitable for herself to do what she likes quietly, and likes to see the results of her own production.

May it help you.

You can try the advertising aspect, you can design it, you usually do it yourself, the work is not too heavy, if you usually run the business, go back to many places.

Librarians.

Flowers are sold in the flower shop.

Hello this friend;

I understand your mood at this time. It is inevitable that the human body will grow; The psychological growth of a person is not inevitable. We are already adults in terms of biological age, however, our mental age may still be very young.

You can be satisfied with what you pursue, and others must follow their own ideas and practices, and they cannot withstand the criticism and accusations of others. What's the difference between this and a child? Five-year-old children ask for candy, and if parents don't give it, the child will make trouble.

Now you don't want candy, you want others to do what you want, and if others don't do what you want, you make trouble and get angry. This is a behavioral manifestation of no psychological growth.

How to solve this problem? First of all, build confidence, and psychological growth can be very fast. It can grow a lot in a year. Believe in yourself and be able to change if you want to.

secondly, whenever you want something that others don't give you (such as spiritual, emotional); Whenever someone criticizes you and you can't accept it; Whenever you don't take into account other people's feelings and impose your own will on others; You just want to; This is a sign of my mental immaturity. This is a manifestation of the psychology of young children, isn't it like this at what age children? Whatever you want, your mother must give it, and if you don't give it, you will cry, make trouble, and be unhappy.

Again, when these problems arise, you think further; Now that I've grown up and I've received so much love, it's time for me to give back to society, to my parents, to my friends. I haven't grown up psychologically, I can grow, and professional psychologists have told me that mental growth can grow up very quickly, much faster than physical growth.

Finally, when you remind yourself from time to time; It's a behavioral manifestation of my mental immaturity, and now that I'm older, I can become mature and match my psychology to my age. I can totally do it. Not once, twice; One month doesn't work, two months.

As long as I improve a little bit every day, I will be able to overcome myself step by step and become a happy and strong person.

I wish you to come out soon.

I'm guessing you're a bit of a sissy.

I've read your question and the answers of many people in front of me, and I think it's very rewarding. Actually, I used to be so sensitive and irritable. I often can't control myself, and a senior said that I am a flower in a greenhouse, and I have not experienced the cruelty and storms of society at all.

In retrospect, it really was.

However, I would like to give you a little reference from my experience, I am 35 years old this year. I've basically changed my irritable personality and I'm not too emotional when I get along with people.

First of all, I think you shouldn't think too much of the problem, you are still just a little bit of a bad sign, you will definitely be able to correct your habits like me in the future and get along with others peacefully. Your problem is not that you don't think about other people's feelings, you don't know how to be polite and humble, your fault lies in your habits, I think you should be a smart and quick person, plus you are an only child, and you have long formed a mentality of protecting your own opinions and behaviors. As long as it is related to you, your first thought is that others will accept you, if others do not accept and raise objections, it will conflict with your desires, and the key thing at this time is that your habitual reaction is anger.

In fact, you will go back and think about whether that opinion will also be correct, but at the moment you can't think, and your behavior habits have developed a pattern of protecting everything you want to do first. As long as you change this habit pattern, it can make a big difference.

The specific method is to learn to avoid the person who makes you angry immediately when you are angry (find a private toilet), and then take a deep breath and deliberately deepen your breathing to calm yourself down quickly. The other thing is to try to keep our attention on things, whether other people are right about things or people, we are only right about things and not people. If we make sense, then we put our own reason, if someone else's is reasonable, it's nothing, we should change it, everyone will make mistakes.

When you purely aim to get things done, you will let go of your perspective and figure, and you will look at things objectively. Finally, be sure to change your hands-on habits. It's not right to hit someone, but hitting someone will be addictive, it will form a habit, and the most important thing is that hitting someone can't solve the problem, why do it if it's harmful and unprofitable, and if you live with your girlfriend in the future, you are likely to beat her too, do you really want to.

Changing habits is easy to say, difficult to say, as long as you work hard, you can succeed. As for life experience, dealing with people, expressing expressions, pushing oneself and others, etc., these can be learned slowly, not a few words can be understood, but it should be more urgent for you to change your habits, because if you don't change it, it will continue to grow on its own.

Read some of the books that entered the WTO: The Analects, Carnegie, Celebrity Speeches, Tolstoy

You know the crux of the problem, and what you need to do is change the personality that you have clearly led you to. Nothing else. Change or let yourself perish.

Now apply for leave without pay, turn off your mobile phone, leave a note for your parents, bring 500 yuan, and survive for 3 months in a strange municipality to exercise your ability to survive independently.

First of all, you have to know yourself objectively, understand your own strengths and weaknesses, so that you can learn to deridicule and decompress yourself, don't take yourself too seriously, the heavier the fall, the worse the fall, and the person who looks down on himself is actually a wise man. There is no hurdle in life that cannot be passed, I believe you will be able to carry it, participate in more outdoor activities, exercise life No one is perfect, everyone has their own inferiority complex, you may be very inferior in some aspect of your heart, then strengthen that aspect, may God give you a brave heart, change what you can change, may God give you a calm heart, accept what you can't accept. I'm sure you'll be able to go out, like me, you're a lone ranger, but you feel very 'special' and charismatic to the people around you.

I actually feel that I am very lonely, because I obviously yearn for the character of the crowd but it is difficult to fit in, but others seem to think that I am very attractive, have my own personality, and have a good impression of me, should I be inferior or not? Don't compare others with yourself, compare yourself with yourself, be the best version of yourself, crown if you have it, change it if you don't, look back at the road you have traveled, and check whether you have a good attitude.

It is recommended that you go to the countryside to live for two years, and then return to society when you have learned to interact with people.

rome wasn't built in a day.

You know the above sentence, you can't change it all at once, you realize that your behavior is a necessary condition for you to change, it's the foundation, but there's a foundation, there's a foundation, and there's action.

If you just stay in the thinking stage all day long, then you can't change how many "geniuses" because they have good talents, and if you don't work hard, you end up being wasted.

If you really love your girlfriend, then show some manly look, don't hesitate to pay attention, I'm talking about love, not like.

First of all, surrender your own heart, do more things that are mentally difficult and physically exertional, to dredge the blocked inner emotions, to eliminate the edges and corners and strengthen your confidence in yourself. Then, make a big desire to do great things. Then,

Hello this friend; Hopefully, the following answers will help you. I'm an only child, but I don't have a girlfriend yet, hehe.

Man, a product of the universe, everyone has their own troubles, their own joys, and their own character. To sum up, I feel that you are a person who is very delicate and sensitive to life, but you should not forget that people can change, people should be happy, and don't suppress yourself if you want to do everything. Not everyone is their own parents, you may be angry when you say this, but only your own parents will obey themselves and pity the hearts of parents in the world.

Think, try to empathize, fantasize about yourself as someone else, and slowly you will understand that you are the one who dominates yourself, to be tolerant of everyone, but also to thank those who were not good to us, it is they who teach us what it means to change what is called a strong and happy life! I used to have the same irritable personality as you, and slowly understand life, and realize that life is the most beautiful painting, and you will be good! Suggestion, listen to ** after work, go shopping with your girlfriend or something, always think that every day is a new beginning is a new starting point Why not be happy and happy Slowly you will find that in fact, a beautiful and happy life needs to be developed by yourself.

In fact, this life is very short, let yourself be busy, hey, how many decades are there in life!! At least I envy you, at least you have a girlfriend who loves you and cherishes her. Come on, you're going to be happy!

In the end, I wish you and your girlfriend a final marriage! Hopefully it can be adopted.

Easy to do: to give you a suggestion to get out of the situation quickly:

1. First of all, I would love to make friends with you: you call it a typical one-child psychological syndrome: it is also called environmental discomfort, which is not a bad problem.

People are all products of their environment, growing up in different eras and different family environments, so their personalities will be very different. Again: there is no distinction between good and bad personalities per se:

There are only their own characteristics and various types of advantages and shortcomings: there is no need to correct (only pay attention to the advantages and overcome the shortcomings to promote the strengths and avoid the weaknesses), self-confidence is an advantage, not a disadvantage: shallow life experience, less experience is not a disadvantage, it is a deficiency.

These will change over time.

2. You like to read: it has been proven that you will achieve a great career: being misunderstood, being left out by others, and even being abandoned by others are normal life experiences:

Everybody has experienced it, you just don't know it. Everyone wants to be valued by everyone in this world; Often no one can do it at all, and even if it does, it doesn't make any sense, you are still you, should you wash your face or wash your own face; He is still him, should he brush his teeth or brush his teeth; I'm still me, I should care more about myself, and there's nothing wrong with me.

3. You are educated, cultivated, and good at showing the best side to others, which is your kindness! At the same time, you also want others to be as kind as you. That's you, right? If I'm not right, then here's the next piece of advice: you don't have to care, just make small talk.

4. Improve your reality: Just remember one principle: be tolerant of other people's shortcomings, learn to be humorous to yourself or play stupid.

You will have the potential to become an amazing big shot. (You're a quick-witted person: the ideal career would be medicine:.)

There will be achievements. The second is: as a detective or a professional journalist, you will have successMany celebrities in the world have your kind of personality:

Don't jump to conclusions about yourself, be responsible for yourself, and don't be unprincipled. Mass life is not for you, you have to challenge to succeed! Self-employed.

Good luck!

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The text is in italics, small four, dark blue. Select the word you want to change, right-click - Font, set it inside.

I'll do it, but how can I send it to you!

What version are you using?

Hello 2497300

First of all, clarify your job search intentions, what career do you want to pursue?

Secondly, go online to look at the recruitment requirements of these professions, compare yourself, and list your strengths on a piece of paper.

Ask your friends to help you and say as much as you can about them, and be careful not to be empty words with such and such abilities, but to have specific examples and experiences to show that you have such and such abilities.

Then, link your strengths into a paragraph, and it's a good self-evaluation.

Finally, I wish you success in your application and find the right job as soon as possible!