How to quickly understand what kind of person the other person is when going on a blind date?

Nowadays, many people will have the experience of blind dates, but after all, blind dates are only through a contact to determine whether this person meets your expectations, and the blind date objects are also varied, and there will be a headache when contacting, how can I know what kind of person he is through this contact? I believe that many people will want to have a quick way to judge, I have two suggestions.

First, his attitude towards life can be seen through his dress. For example, he wore sloppy clothes when he went on a blind date with you, which obviously shows that he doesn't attach importance to this blind date, and he thinks that he will get by with other things in life, at least he will not be a rigorous person in his attitude, and he will not pay attention to the neatness of his clothes, and he may also live a very sloppy life; For example, he wears casual clothes, at least it can be seen that he is specially prepared, and it can be speculated that he is a person who likes to be relaxed in life, loves life, and does not like a rigorous atmosphere; If he is wearing formal clothes, then this person must be a meticulous and rigorous person in dealing with things and in life. There are two places you can observe, one is the watch, look at the type of watch he wears to know whether he is more casual or more rigorous, the other is shoes, for men, shoes are very important, because it is easy to forget when taking care of them, if his shoes are very clean and tidy, it means that he has a reasonable care of himself in life, because clothes can be deliberately prepared, shoes some people may ignore.

Second, look at his speech and demeanor. Whether a person is cultivated or not depends not on whether he is a high-level intellectual or an ordinary person, but on whether he can say the right thing on the right occasion, so observing his communication with you during the blind date and the communication with the waiter can see his character. I once saw such an example, the daughter took her boyfriend to see her father, the three of them ate together, after the meal, the daughter asked the father what he thought of this person, the father said that he hoped that his daughter would break up with him, the daughter was very puzzled, so he asked why, the father said that when we sat down, he did not ask for our opinion and ordered the food alone, indicating that he was dismissive of your opinion, when the meal was delayed, he spoke in a very bad tone to the waiter, and even spoke with accusations, it can be seen that he is a person who does not respect others, and he does not respect your opinion at this time, If you don't respect others, you won't necessarily respect you when you get married in the future, and you can see his way of dealing with the world from a meal.

Although this is not a blind date process, the father can see this boy's way of dealing with the world from a meal, can it also be slightly changed and applied to the blind date process?

Although there are two suggestions, they are not absolute, and sometimes it is better to improvise according to the situation you encounter.

Summary. Hello dear, I'm glad to answer your 30 questions about a blind date to quickly understand each other: 1. Ask how old the other party is and how old he is with himself.

2. How tall are you? 3. Ask the other party about their academic qualifications, and Zui should at least be on the same level. 4. Understand what the other party does.

5. How much is the monthly salary? 6. Understand what the other parent's do? 7. Are you an only child?

8. Ask the other party if they plan to get married. 9. Ask questions about hobbies and interests to see if two people have the same or similar hobbies. 10. What kind of boy do you mind, and what requirements do you have for the future half.

11. What are your plans for the future? 12. Understand the other party's economic situation and whether they have the strength to develop into marriage with you. 13. What is your impression of me?

14. How do you think about the issue of love and marriage? 15. Do you usually do housework and cleaning? 16. Is there something you really want to do but haven't done?

17. Do you like to travel? Where do you want to travel?

30 questions about the blind date to quickly understand each other.

Hello dear, I'm glad to answer your 30 questions about a blind date to quickly understand each other: 1. Ask how old the other party is and how old he is with himself. 2. How tall are you?

3. Ask the other party about their academic qualifications, and Zui should at least be on the same level. 4. Understand what the other party does. 5. How much is the monthly salary?

6. Understand what the other parent's do? 7. Are you an only child? 8. Ask the other party if they plan to get married.

9. Ask questions about hobbies and interests to see if two people have the same or similar hobbies. 10. What kind of boy do you mind, and what requirements do you have for the future half. 11. What are your plans for the future?

12. Understand the other party's economic situation and whether they have the strength to develop into marriage with you. 13. What is your impression of me? 14. How do you think about the issue of love and marriage?

15. Do you usually do housework and cleaning? 16. Is there something you really want to do but haven't done? 17. Do you like to travel?

Where do you want to travel?

Kiss, you can also ask: What do you think is important in your life? Do you have a house and a car?

Do you live with your parents after you get married? What do you like to do? Do you like sports?

How many boyfriends have you talked about before girlfriends? Do you still contact your ex after a breakup? What are your criteria for choosing a mate?

What do you think are your shortcomings? Do you think you're more extroverted or introverted? What do you like to eat?

1. You must understand his or her outlook on life, values and consumption sufficiently.

The three views of two people are different, and it will be a great tragedy if they have to be together. Maybe you think that your parents don't know what the three views are all their lives, and they didn't give birth to us and raise us? For example, you think that a group of friends are comfortable eating farmhouse meals in a small courtyard in the country, and she thinks that the steak and red wine in the western restaurant are still emotional; Do you think you're in the village for a new era?'The new farmer is also very good, but he yearns for the crowd and hustle and bustle of the big city to be a white-collar worker.

When you feel that a family is together for four lifetimes, it is happy, and he (she) is advocating a two-person world. What you are talking about is what she is talking about, and then there will be times when you are unhappy.

Second, understand the other person's way of thinking.

After encountering problems, do both parties start from their own perspectives to think about whether they are not doing well, communicate well with the other half, and resolve the conflict? or simply avoid it, the cold war to the end; is still publicized to the end, the teacher is mobilized, and the battle is ruthless. If the other party has been shirking responsibility, then no matter how good the conditions are, don't think about it again.

Third, it is necessary to understand the other party's attitude towards work and his ability.

Some boys are very good at sweet-talking and tricking girls. When you hear these words, don't fantasize about it first, but first observe whether he is just talking empty words and whether he has the ability to give you a good future. There is no skill, but you are allowed to yacht in the future, fancy clothes, you can travel around the world, you can be distinguished in front of people, and you will be honored for a lifetime, forget it!

Fourth, understand his family and his ability to withstand pressure in the face of difficulties, as well as the details of how to treat you.

What kind of family, what kind of children will be raised, the atmosphere of the family, and the behavior of parents will all have an impact on children. Domestic violence is frequent, and the family atmosphere is not respectful to women, and you can foresee what will happen to you in the future. If her family doesn't pay attention to environmental hygiene, children's education, and likes to play cards and mahjong, then you should be able to foresee what most of the future home will look like.

Fifth, it is also necessary to understand what hobbies he has and his circle of friends.

If one party likes to play mahjong in his leisure time, and the other party likes to hold a scroll and read silently; One party loves the things in the cup and is not drunk, and the other party is drunk when he smells the wine. If you have the same interests, you are like-minded. What's more, if you are addicted to pornography, gambling and drugs, don't blame yourself for making friends carelessly.

It depends on how he handles your relationship with his family, and if he has been on his parents' side, then you should consider whether you want to go on. After all, marriage is a matter involving two families, and it needs two people to face it together, not after getting married, leaving you alone.

Love, sometimes is a sinking thing, all the inspiration and determination is nothing but a self-comfort.

Marriage has always been a bondage, and the pursuit of love is not the same as the pursuit of freedom, because if you love someone, you will go to marriage with him (her), knowing that you will lose your freedom, and you are willing to do so.

When you know all this, ask yourself if you want to be with this person.