How to reject him? Boys, please come in!!

Updated on psychology 2024-05-09
55 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The most straightforward refusal. Tell him you don't like him! Maybe you think it will hurt his heart, maybe you want to be friends with him in the future, and there are many, many questions that make you hesitate.

    But I'm going to tell you, none of this is a problem. A friend of mine told me – "Boys don't grow up if they're not sad." This statement is true, I tried, and it is useful!!

    If he can't stand this little blow, then he is still a little hairy boy, and if he will ignore you for this little thing, then his strength is too small. Maybe he will be a little sad and embarrassed at first. But it will be fine after a while.

    When you reject him, you can root him and say, "I believe you can bear it, because you are a man!!

    Sugar-coated cannonballs Ever heard of it? It's the same thing!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Can be subtle. It can also be blunt.

    But you have to know what kind of person he is.

    Then which method to use.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Just remember to save face for him, because be careful that he retaliates.

    1 You are too good for me to deserve you.

    2 I love***

    3 My mom and dad don't agree.

    4 I'm not a woman (this, sometimes I need to change my tricks to reject others, it's too boring to always use a sentence pattern...) I can only say it to people who will never see each other again)

    5 We have no future.

    6 I'm going abroad.

    7 My former boyfriend is back looking for me.

    8 I love you too, will you wait for me for 5 years? (This is to scare him into playing.,If you're idle to death, you can be an appetizer for life.。。。

    There are so many creative answers in your head.

    However, the key is to save face, and we must save enough face for men!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you like him, it's best not to refuse. If you don't like it or hate it, it's best not to refuse or accept it. If it's someone who annoys you, it's best to say no directly.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You say, I'd love to be with you. But your current career has not yet succeeded, how can you make me happy in the future, you should do a good job in your career first. I'll talk about that later.

    By the time he does a good job, he has already found out that you are doing this for his good. I won't force anything anymore. If you don't do it well, you will also feel unqualified to love you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You should have put it mildly.

    Because I don't want to hurt him, tell him why, that's the best.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Be resolute and don't leave anything behind. Just say it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Why?

    That's what I came across that time.

    But it didn't seem like she was rejecting me.

    Instead, she wanted me to give her roses.

    I don't realize it now.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Tell him that you like someone else.

    He'll definitely ask him who he is, and you just won't tell him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If he was sincere. I think it's useless how you refuse, the best way to refuse. You can say.

    I already have a boyfriend. Or rather. I'm married!

    I am particularly disgusted by the behavior of parents on blind dates for their children! Because of this, I lost a girl I loved deeply and loved me deeply Strong BS blind date behavior! Unless you really reach a certain age and can't find a partner! "

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The usual way for girls to reject boys is "I have a boyfriend".

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You have to be clear, in fact, when he speaks, his heart is also uneasy, how can you bear it? Alas,,, be more serious and tell him what you really think in your heart, no matter what the result is, it is a relief for you, but why not for him? It's just that the trauma has always needed time to heal.,,Can't help him...

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't want to be in a relationship just yet.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's best to say that you don't want to be in a relationship right now.

    Or say you like someone else

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Just say it straight Don't save his face, because we boys can withstand the blow.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I'm still young, so if I can't do it, I'll say I'm sick.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Wait until you get into Harvard, and then come back to me.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Tell him you don't like him!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    He's better at you than he was before, which means he doesn't care about you anymore. Let's be a pot friend.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I have a crush on you and make him pay more attention to you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Make a bet that if you win you take him out, and if you lose you go out with him.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    How are the guys interested in you? If the guy is interested in you, you can make any excuses, and if the guy doesn't like you, don't waste your time.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Check it out! Win you invite him! Didn't win and asked him to invite you!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You ask him: Have you seen Journey to the West? If I call you, do you dare to say yes? Then call him: husband.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Make a lot of coincidences and let him know that you have a boyfriend.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Your charm may be too great, otherwise how could that guy like you for so long? Since you told him, as long as he doesn't stalk, you don't like him, but you can't stop him from caring about you, right? Don't try to deprive a person of their right to like someone else.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    This man is very infatuated with you, he is a good man, you have to think clearly that people are beautiful not externally but internally. Seize the opportunity to cherish the present, and don't wait until you lose it to know how to cherish it. If you really want to get rid of him, let him know about your relationship with other men, tell you that you have a boyfriend, and pretend to be intimate with other boys in front of him, and after a long time, I think he should die,

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Yes, but probably not, for another reason.

    From a normal point of view, falling out of love will indeed cause great damage to his heart, "ask what the world is like, and make life and death promise" I believe you are familiar with this sentence, and you also say that he is "fragile in his heart", then this recovery period may be a little long.

    If he fell out of love two years ago when he was a freshman, then after two years, he is still in the pain of falling out of love, which is obviously unreasonable, and may be rejecting you euphemistically; Of course, if not, it is true that he and his girlfriend have just broken up, then you should be considerate of him, at this time he will be in a bad mood, and if it were you, it would be impossible to quickly devote himself to a new relationship, which will take time for him to downplay this matter. I think the time period of their breakup has an important hint for his statement, and you can learn about this from him.

    Of course, there is another possibility, that is, he said that he had just broken up, but in fact he was not, that is, to cover up the reality, this is also an excuse for refusal, but to understand the details, it will take time, I believe that paper can't hold the fire, as long as you have patience, there will be a bright day.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's possible, but there are also very infatuated boys, who have been in grief and can't extricate themselves, and his feelings make him feel very unreliable, so he doesn't dare to try feelings. Everything is not necessarily, everyone's situation is different, if you really love him more than yourself, then continue to work hard and don't give up, take out your sincerity, let him see, I think one day he will be moved by you, come on!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Let me tell you this, if he really doesn't like you, he will definitely reject you! I hope you let him calm down now, and after a while, he knows that the relationship is no longer possible, and he gives up completely. Maybe he'll pay attention to you!

    During this period, don't talk to him about anything else, be sure to talk to him like a friend, talk to him, and care more about him. I believe that one day he will find you and pay attention to you until he falls in love with you!

    Good luck!!!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    In fact, it is obviously not enough to judge by what you say. But according to common sense, his reason is obviously that he doesn't want to associate with you, or it's an excuse. But I think it's more to judge by his attitude and tone towards you.

    No one can help you with love, so I'll give you a word: people are planning things, and success is in heaven. If you do your best, what is not yours is not yours after all.

    Your supplementary question: The pain of falling out of love should be based on the degree and the characteristics of his own temperament, experiencing the same pain, and different people have different attitudes. Some people will commit suicide, and some people will look for new love, judging by what you know about him.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Generally speaking, it is actually your luck to meet this kind of boy. Because he values feelings, but now he needs more understanding and good emotions, you can imagine if you like someone very much, but fall out of love for various reasons, at this time someone else confesses to you! Will you say yes?

    Therefore, I hope that the landlord will not confess too early, talk to him more, chat, let him have a good impression of you, give him time to relax, and then ask him! The result should be very different!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's really sad that you fail in a relationship! I think if you are really a person who is cold and fragile in her heart, and you are not sociable person, you will really be lonely for the rest of your life! I think she really rejected you because of the failure of her first love!

    Now, the best thing is to help her get rid of the hurt she suffered when she first fell in love! In this way, he will love someone again! I remember I was just like that boy!

    I don't love girls anymore! But I got rid of it!! Try to help him get rid of it!!

    Good luck!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I just want to say that no matter what kind of rejection, what kind of reason is used, as long as it is a refusal, it is a reason not to love you If you love, then even if there are many obstacles, he will think of a breakthrough.

    Not loving is not loving, no matter what the reason is, it is because of not loving.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Excuse, to be honest, he didn't take a fancy to you. If you want me to say the same, if Ruby Lin comes, I will definitely accept it, not to mention losing the object, and my dead mother will also accept it.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Telling you the truth is not wanting to hurt you. Or maybe it really doesn't like you, so find a reason.

    If you like him, keep waiting. You confess to him that he should be happy.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I just fell out of love, maybe he doesn't believe in feelings anymore, to be honest you women are really ruthless sometimes. If you get along with him now, tell you that it is only a short-term happiness and a lifetime of regret

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Possibly, I don't like you and I don't want to embarrass you.

    But it could also be that he was telling the truth.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I think first love is really important.

    But too will pass.

    You can wait, or you can fall in love for a long time, and you don't give up.

    In the end, success must be yours.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I don't think about anyone else when I haven't forgotten about someone.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    At least you like the right people.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    You are really in a hurry, sometimes you like it and it is not so obvious, if you come up and say that you like you, then how can you agree, you can only say that your manager is sincere, he has regarded you as his girlfriend, and does not tolerate others trying to chase you, men are like this, especially when they really like someone. He's just too self-esteem, give him a chance. Belle!

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Maybe he is afraid of follow-up problems, which will lead to the loss of customers.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    It's normal to have feelings about your confession.,It's the same for men.,Vanity.,At least from the previous performance.,He doesn't have any feelings about love for you.,But feelings are cultivated.,When you feel it, you have to desperately grab it.,You just slowly accompany him to cultivate feelings first.,Over time, it's very simple.。。

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It's not optimistic.

    Spare tire: You know, the word

    I'm very depressed, I found you as a carrier to release my feelings, although you can have love over time, but you are not the kind of love he fell in love with at first sight, and when his crush appears, he will find his own her without hesitation, instead of you, the landlord decisively gave up, this kind of relationship is unreliable.

    It's not good, but it's the heartfelt words of a fellow man.

    Forget to adopt I wish you happiness.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    If you like it, go boldly - or you will regret that you will not find anyone later. I'd rather miss it than let it go.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    You can go out to dinner with him as usual, go out to play, send text messages and chat with ** or something. After a long time, if he finds that you are good or thinks that he can continue to find out or confess to you! Then you can ask him:

    But what I want to say is don't take too long, don't wait a few years, it's not good to be stupid.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    You think too much, you can't reach it quickly, since he said he has a feel, then you can pinch him, see his performance, when the time comes, you know whether it is true or false, don't be too blind, good luck!!

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    You can talk to him about something nice and make him feel that you are important in his life and continue to develop little by little.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    I generally like it, but there is actually a person in the psychology of others.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    You are lucky, but you are lost.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    This is going to divide people The first question is that if you refuse, you will refuse, and the manly husband can't stand this little frustration, but what can I do The second question is whether she refuses or not, of course, we don't know it depends on her thoughts. Third, they usually continue to associate as friends.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    This depends on the girl's personality, if he is a very decisive person who doesn't like ambiguity, then he will directly refuse the person he doesn't like, and then there will be no ambiguous relationship, he may be friends, but he may not be in contact.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    If you don't like it, you will refuse it directly, because you don't like it, so don't give any hope, so as not to trouble your own heart in the future.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    If you are rejected, ask her the reason.,If the girl doesn't like you, she will refuse directly.,As for whether you will continue to be in a relationship with a boy, if you say that you are friends, it depends on personal reasons.。

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