How do I manage this relationship? How do you manage your feelings?

In fact, emotional matters really cannot be said clearly in a few words, it depends on the environment you may be in in the past, present and even in the future.

There are many factors that factor for a person, she, and him to decide to fall in love with the opposite sex, but in fact, these initial factors determine to some extent whether they can go to the end, thoughtful or not? Is it an impulse to decide to be together? Did you even want to play it in the first place?

I believe in you, you are definitely a smart woman.

Men sometimes don't want their current partner to know about his past, you see, you know, there is a knot in your heart, but sometimes don't wander in the self-set "siege", you might as well open the skylight and say something, or you care a lot about his past, then ask clearly, communicate well, open the knot, talk to his ex-partner if necessary, don't guess, it will be very tiring; Or if you think about whether she2 is already good to you now, and you look at him with your own judgment, that is, you know that he doesn't like to talk about the past, and you believe that he will be good to you, and you forget his past and live happily.

We will have a lot of problems when we are in love, and solving it will make your heart feel relieved, don't put it off again and again, as the days go by, there will be "traces".

That's it, I hope it helps.

I'm just like you, my boyfriend broke up completely with him for 7 years in advance.

The three of us have fought each other, but I can't forget it.

I know that anyone can say anything, and a woman shouldn't care about anything anymore, but she can't do it when she does it, and I keep reminding myself that since he chose me, I have to believe it, but I can't control the woman's jumping out and affecting the mood.

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now, and he is very nice to me.

But I just can't forget, we talked about it once, and it was a little better.

But when it was time to remember, I remembered. I think it's something I'll never forget.

Whether it's him or me. So if you want to get married, I advise you to think about it.

If you really love him very much, go on like this, there's really no way.

I've been suffering for I don't know how long, but then again, who was born to wait for this, people in their 20s, who hasn't passed.

It's just that women are more pitiful, and they have to endure at both ends.

chenjie403 That's a good point.

I now gradually understand that sometimes two people who love each other may not be able to grow old together.

So now you can't say because you know his ex-girlfriend and have also met, and your boyfriend broke up with her. I can't accept him.

Alas! There are so many troubles in life.

Managing feelings, just like business is the same, you must work hard to manage, otherwise you will go bankrupt if you don't manage well, family is a part of life, it should be a big part of it, a small family is good, your business will be thriving,

1. Share your daily life with each other often Two people can care about each other, share their daily life with each other, and let each other know your daily experience, which will give each other a certain sense of security. 2. Take more time to understand each other's needs If you want to manage this relationship well, you must take the time to get to know each other, know each other's preferences, and enter each other's lives, so that the other party will feel that you are indispensable. 3. Be tolerant of each other There are no perfect people in the world, no one can be flawless, and each has its own advantages and disadvantages.

The most real feelings are plain and warm, and I feel the fragmented love in my daily life. In fact, we just want to find someone who can talk, have a good temperament, be comfortable together, miss to relieve after being separated for a long time, want to make a fuss after being quiet for a long time, and will immediately regret admitting defeat after quarrelling, love is like this, friendship is the same. The best relationship is not to be on call and talk every day, but I send a message, you will naturally reply when you see it, I will not be suspicious because you did not reply, and you will not feel sorry for not responding in time, it is enough to trust each other and care about each other.

People live in the world, they will go through a lot of things, and you want to be able to get to the bottom of it, but it is a mistake, and it is a kind of relaxation to not see clearly. There are too many things that I can't get used to in life, and it is a confusion, an entanglement, and an annoyance to see clearly. Seeing clearly is a kind of art of life, a kind of wisdom of life, and a kind of harvest of life.

Life is originally a blur, it is better to be confused, and it is easy to end up.

Many relationships can't be recovered when they reach the end, and we don't always hope to be able to turn back, because the emotions of turning back are often not perfect. Don't blame yourself, he is not the only one who treats you well in this life, you are so good that you deserve to be owned by better people. But first of all, don't lose yourself, only those who love themselves are worthy of being loved by others, if you only care about looking back at the scenery in front of you all day long, then you will definitely miss the good one around you.

The world is very big, the scenery is very beautiful, instead of looking at the world with a resentful heart, it is better to experience the filial piety of people with a happy heart; Instead of looking at the world with a cursed heart, it is better to live with an appreciative heart.

If you really fall in love with someone, he will be your weakness, your priceless treasure, and you will treat him sincerely and give him everything. With him, sometimes it is also full of hopelessness and grievances. But psychologically, I am very cautious about this feeling of dependence, and all the retreats are closed by this feeling.

The only thing you can do is to love him without expecting anything in return, as if you were drinking water and eating, you know that he is not good enough, but you just love him, hopelessly.

1. Often share your daily life with each other Two people can care about each other, share their daily life with each other, and let each other know your daily experience, which will give each other a certain sense of security. 2. Take more time to understand each other's needs If you want to manage this relationship well, you must take the time to understand each other, know each other's preferences, and enter each other's lives, so that the other party will feel that you are indispensable. 3. We must know how to tolerate each other There is no perfect person in the world, no one can be flawless, and each has its own advantages and shortcomings.

1. Common progress, two people want to manage their feelings well, they must have the consciousness of common progress, if two people do not progress together, then the party that makes rapid progress will get rid of the other party who is standing still, one person is moving forward, the other party is not moving, the gap between the two people is getting bigger and bigger, and the distance will become farther and farther, which is not conducive to the development of feelings.

2. Don't rely too much on each other, even if you love that person again, you are an independent person first, love yourself first, and then love each other. Have your own independent personality, no matter how much you can handle all aspects of your life, you can handle it well.

3. Mutual trust and learn to give yourself a sense of security. There are many things to do, and if you give the choice to the other party, you will have unexpected gains. If you restrain the other person in everything and let the other person do what you want, so that you can feel at ease, it is a big mistake.

Some things can never be controlled, and they will only add unnecessary contradictions to the two of you.

Establishing a relationship too quickly will reduce the value of the relationship of one of the previous partners. Two people do not know each other deeply enough, which will lead to crossing the adaptation period and directly entering the love period, and the conflict outbreak of the later breakup contradiction will also come extremely quickly, burying a deep hidden danger for the breakup or the breakdown of the relationship, at this time, we must make a careful decision based on the actual situation of the other party. Therefore, it is generally recommended to take your time in the process of establishing a romantic relationship and not to rush too much.

First, he doesn't want others to know that you are his girlfriend.

Second, he was still very shy and felt a little embarrassed to hold hands in public.

Thirdly, you should not have ml, if this one is correct, please read on, if you are wrong, then don't look at the following.

How do you manage this relationship?

First, if you love him and want to improve your current situation and further enhance your direct relationship, it is recommended to find an appropriate time to give him some sweetness. As for what's good, I don't need to say anything about it.

Second, you talk to him and ask why he doesn't hold your hand when there are many people. Look at what he says, if he says something he is not used to, then he is lying, because it has been said above, you have already passed the xx, and you are still shy to say it.

Third, I don't want to hold your hand when there are many people, and I love to lose my temper with you, so I don't like you very much. Be careful.

In fact, how to really operate, there is no one-size-fits-all method, the relationship depends on the feeling of two people together, the feeling is right, and it is a pair. I don't feel it anymore, everything else is empty words.

Good luck.