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Anonymous users2024-02-08Everyone has their own values, as long as their own values are correct, don't care about your mother saying that your values are deformed, because she has her own opinions, she will see other people's incorrectness, so don't care too much about what others think of you.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07This may be the mother's fault, or it may be the child's own fault. Because some of today's parents are still stuck in their minds, they are not able to understand the trend of the development of the times. So the values of the child will feel deformed.
The other is the reason why the child is himself. It may be that his mind is really deformed.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06If I think there is a problem, I will make corrections accordingly, and if there is no problem with my values, I will choose to stick to myself, but I will not contradict my mother and my mother will not do it.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05Everyone has their own values, first of all, they are criticized by others, and they are their own mothers, so I think maybe there may be a certain deviation in your values, at this time you should calm down and think about whether there is indeed a problem with your values.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04If even your parents say that, it must be a big problem, think about your own value, ask for your own values, shortcomings, evaluation thinking, ask your parents for advice, find a way to find their value, pregnancy, if you are sure that the problem is right, can it just be my parents' views are ambiguous, then you don't need to worry too much.
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Anonymous users2024-02-03I'll talk to my mother and understand why she said that. My mother's evaluation of herself may be some objective evaluation, I will ask her some reasons, why my values are deformed, I will communicate with her, she may have misunderstood my behavior.
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Anonymous users2024-02-02Do you want to change her? Or yourself? I think it's almost impossible for her to change, now that you have realized the problem, you can use your rational and correct values to correct your mistakes, and as for your attitude towards your mother, you can decide for yourself.
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Anonymous users2024-02-01I feel that everyone has their own ideas, and everyone's concepts are different, so I will communicate with my mother well, exchange ideas between two people, and understand each other.
When I was a child, my family was very difficult, my parents were frail, and I needed to pay tuition, and my parents couldn't come up with the money to let me go to my uncle's house to borrow, which was 50 yuan, but I didn't borrow it, and I secretly swore that I must work hard!
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Values are people's awareness of the existence of everything in the world and the attitude they hold towards everything. The natural and social environment in which people live, including their social status and material living conditions, determine people's values. People in the same natural and social environment will produce basically the same values, and each society has some common and universal value standards, so as to find universal or mostly consistent behavior patterns, or social behavior patterns. >>>More
If there is a big conflict, choose to keep your distance. In my opinion, once people have their own fixed value system, they tend to reject people who have different views from their own, so when you encounter people with huge conflicts of values, please choose to keep your distance. Therefore, I would like to warn everyone, do not choose people with very different values to spend their lives with, so it is inevitable that no one is wrong, but they can't get along well.
First of all, you must know what your worldview is, and after you know, you should ask yourself whether your worldview and values are different from your own society. The so-called change is to see that one is better than oneself and immediately learn a new one. This kind of thinking is correct, but it is a bit difficult, it takes knowledge and perseverance to transform the mind, and your mind must absorb many examples of correct worldview and values, and if you think about it a little more, you will slowly transform the mind.