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Far away from the children and grandchildren, close to the body", this is said to be karma.
The ancestors did good deeds and accumulated virtues, and the children and grandchildren were often developed; When the ancestors do evil and bad things, they tend to reach their children and grandchildren.
This seems to be the karma of the ancestors on the children and grandchildren. But in reality, karma will always be borne by oneself and will not be replaced by others.
Jizo Sutra. Yun: "Father and son.
The divergent paths are different, even if they meet, they are not willing to accept it. ”
Amitayus Sutra cloud: "Between heaven and earth, the five paths are distinct. Good and evil are retributed, good and bad are inherited, and the body deserves it, and there is no one who replaces. ”
So what's going on here? Parents who do good or bad deeds will indeed cause their children and grandchildren to receive corresponding good or evil retribution. But this is the karma of the children and grandchildren themselves.
It is only because the ancestors did evil and advanced the karmic retribution of their descendants, that is to say, the descendants also have corresponding cause and effect, and they will receive corresponding retribution.
So why do children and grandchildren have to be connected to the cause and effect of their ancestors? This is "collective karma". "Common karma" means that sentient beings are closely connected, and their karmic karma is also closely linked.
Why do children and grandchildren have unconditional access to their parents' possessions, houses, and so on? It's also a reason.
In fact, this is a manifestation of karma.
When our ancestors did good deeds, they were inspired by good fortune and great karma.
shallow offspring to be reincarnated;
When the ancestors did evil, they were inspired to reincarnate by the children and grandchildren of good fortune and small karma.
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Because no matter how wicked the wicked. He also has a sore spot. Children and grandchildren are his weakness, and it is his children and grandchildren who are rewarded, but it hurts in his heart. Therefore, retribution on the children and grandchildren is retribution for him. Being a good person is not only a kind of morality, but also a blessing for one's children and grandchildren.
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Because parents do evil, if they don't report it at that time, they will be the children and grandchildren. There is a saying that grandparents are grandchildren, parents are children's role models, you can only do good deeds to the children in order to get good retribution, strict teaching is not as good as teaching by example, parents are the best teachers.
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If his parents do evil, he will be disgusted by his neighbors in the township, everyone hates him, and his interpersonal relationship is strained. When their children grow up, others think that adults are like this, and the children are not much better, so they will not introduce their children to blind dates.
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Many things in today's society show this view, such as the negative impact of not paying back, which will cause problems in the life and work of future generations.
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Because of the evil done by the parents, there is no retribution, and only the children and grandchildren can be harmed.
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Causally speaking, parents and children are a combination of cause and effect. When children come to their parents to be reincarnated, there are those who repay their kindness, and those who repay their grievances are obedient, hardworking, and filial, so that their parents can worry about it, and bring joy and happiness to their parents, so as to complete the karma of this life. Those who repay grievances will disobey their parents, cause trouble, lose their family and money, and make their parents miserable.
On the surface, these seem to be karmic karma. Jing Hui, however, the problem is that the parents are able to give birth and raise the child, and the mother is pregnant in October, which is to repay the great karma. The indicators of life already have infinite merit!
The children's resentment is difficult to get rid of, and the viciousness is not remorseful, which violates and breaks the calamity of cause and effect. Therefore, unfilial parents will be punished. In fact, we are ordinary people, and the common people's lives at home are peaceful!
People who don't honor their parents, among the people I know, are living a very unhappy life at home now!
I may be old, and sometimes I wonder: why do they always have such and such things in their family, and sometimes they are still in a hurry!
We don't have the right to accuse anyone of being unfilial, my sister-in-law hates my mother, and sometimes she has to complain. We don't care about her, she ends up getting sick, oppressing her speech and swallowing functions! All of us also treated her in time, but she couldn't save her life!
Now everyone doesn't talk about superstition, and I don't believe in superstition either!
What the old man said makes sense, people should accumulate virtue for their children and grandchildren!
Scolding: A few lifetimes of lack of virtue will be retributed in this life!
Filial piety to one's parents is something everyone must do!
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Of course, it will bring disaster to future generations! Because of the talk of "ancestors accumulate virtue" and "shade and descendants", your family industry is also the blessing of ancestors who do good deeds and suffer and descendants; In the same way, parents create a business, "they owe people money and pay three cents of interest every day, and their children and grandchildren cannot pay it back."
You are a reasonable person, you have clearly discerned good and evil, as a child can persuade each other with good words is commendable, and it is also your merit to have more patience to help them abandon evil and follow good from a different angle, I really can't persuade you, you try not to use ill-gotten gains!!
Wishing you and your family a bright future!!
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Start with yourself and subtly influence them. If you can't do it yourself, how can you have the wisdom to influence the people around you?
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