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Your life goals can only be determined by yourself according to your own abilities and interests, and in the end, you are the one who knows you best. Customer service inertia must first have a very clear executable goal for what you want to do, and what you usually need to do is to clarify the workload and limit the completion time, and the executable thing is not to set the goal difficulty too high, but to experiment a few times to see your own execution to grasp the planning of the goal difficulty. It's hard to explain this kind of thing in one or two sentences, and you'd better check out the book "Be the Best Self", which is very detailed.
In addition, watch more positive and uplifting movies of struggle so that the mind can also slowly change inertia Anyone will have more or less inertia, as long as you are aware of it, you can change: first, you have realized your own problems, and you want to change at this stage, which is a good start; Second, prove your thinking with your actions, and don't be limited by just thoughts, so that you can change your inertia. Find something that interests you to do, try to find joy in life, change your mind, and set clear goals at this stage.
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In fact, each of us has a certain amount of self-control, and you are certainly no exception. Of course, to have a strong control ability, you need to go through a certain amount of training to achieve.
Every night, plan the tasks to be studied tomorrow, and complete these tasks the next day no matter what, don't set too many tasks at the beginning, and slowly increase them, so that you will have a sense of accomplishment after completing the tasks every day, and gradually the motivation will be there, and the tasks of each day will be completed, and the final success will definitely come. jarn
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Inertia is more or less common to everyone, as long as you are aware of it, you can change: first, you have realized your own problems, and you want to change them at this stage, which is a good start; Second, prove your thinking with your actions, and don't be limited by just thoughts, so that you can change your inertia.
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First find your purpose, and then, when you're lazy, think about your dreams. My goal is Nanjing University, and as soon as I relax, I will look at Nanjing University** to overcome my laziness. After a long time, no matter how lazy a person is, he will be diligent.
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The more you try to be lazy, the more you force yourself to do something on your own.
Also, watch more positive and uplifting movies of struggle, so that your thoughts can slowly change.
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Find something that interests you to do and try to find joy in life.
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Change your mindset and set clear goals for this stage.
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It's just a good eye, it's easy to overcome.
In fact, it's not this that is more serious, but your cognition.
Yes, you have to learn too much, you should find your own strengths to strengthen, focus on strengthening one advantage first, and wait until you have achieved something, and you will naturally be motivated to do other plans.
Take it one step at a time, one bite at a time.
In addition, what you lack is action, action is the ability to force yourself to move, you only can force yourself, in addition, no matter how much others say, it is also a fart.
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There is often a big difference between reality and ideals. Everyone wants to succeed and will try to work hard, but if they don't see the effect, they will have negative thoughts of slacking off.
How to say it, the landlord, you and I are similar, I will be confused in life for a long time, but I am unwilling to fall like this, so I will make a plan for my life, prepare to work hard, and do a great job. But he couldn't overcome the inertia he had cultivated for a long time and continued to be negative.
1.So I advise the landlord to find your own interests first, because you will only go further if you are on what you like.
2.The second is to recognize that whether it is an ideal or a career, there is a process of starting, don't want to eat a fat man, that is, to persevere.
3.I think career is inseparable from life, since you want to overcome your inertia, then you have to start small, such as developing a good habit of going to bed early and waking up early.
Well, that's all for my advice, I hope you succeed.
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Laziness can be changed completely, but it is not a matter of one or two days, it requires firm perseverance. Overcoming laziness is not an overnight effort, but a battle of endurance. It used to take me about a month to correct this problem, and the method was to do the same thing at the same time every day, never stopping, and not giving myself a day off for a "holiday".
After persisting like this for more than a month, my laziness changed completely. The benefits of change are not what you can imagine, it is equivalent to a turning point in a person's destiny. After overcoming laziness, the habit of diligence will enter your subconscious, and it will be difficult for you to be lazy at that time, because your subconscious diligence will always oppress you forward, and you will always choose diligence because you can't stand the inner rebuke, which is the benefit of change.
When I was in high school, I was very decadent, I never did the homework assigned by the teacher, and I was still surfing the Internet in the Internet café during the last summer vacation before the college entrance examination. Originally, my life was going to be ruined like this, but it was this more than a month of diligence that changed my life, friend, I believe you can do it too. The process of change is very painful, and without hardship and patience, you will not be able to change any problem, and you can only stand still forever.
That's my experience, you don't need to do much in a day, the key is to keep doing it, even if it's small, and don't make excuses for yourself. I did just that, and it was a success after just one month. Anyone can do it, as long as they are persistent!
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Do you really want to get rid of your shortcomings? Am I really up to it? First of all, you have to ask yourself this.
The second thing you have to do is set yourself a plan and a task. First of all, it is annual, then it is reduced to 3 months, then 1 month, 1 week, 1 day, 1 morning, and even within that hour, what you have accomplished.
Sometimes push yourself and you'll find success and miracles.
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Normally, if everyone can achieve all their goals, there will be no more great people in this world, because even the most ordinary people will have goals and aspirations that are far beyond reality.
Knowing that you are lazy can be saved, I will give you a suggestion, not to mention anything else, you first ensure that you can go to bed early and get up early.
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I think that your phenomenon must be related to family education and living environment factors, mainly because life is too comfortable, it is recommended that you set some small short-term goals and gradually enlarge them, so that you will exercise your sense of commitment and motivation will be strong. Hope it helps.
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Hard work does not necessarily pay off, if you don't work hard, you will fail, you make a choice.
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You can make an appointment with someone you care about and let him remind you, or you can push yourself into a corner, and most importantly, improve your execution.
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Hello, are you okay now?
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First, do things in a planned way. Sometimes people's laziness is caused by not having a plan, because without a plan will make things a mess, and a mess will make people confused, and in the end they will have to give up. If you have a plan, you will force yourself to complete it step by step, so that the efficiency of doing things will increase, and the possibility of success will increase.
Second, create a sense of urgency. This is one of the most effective ways to combat laziness. If you have a sense of urgency, it will be easy for you to get out of bed and do what you need to do. One of the ways to create a sense of urgency is to set deadlines.
Third, keep a daily record of your progress. Sometimes we are lazy because we don't know what we do every day, and if we record our daily work, and when the day is over, you go and look at your own records, and you will be ashamed that you have only done so much in a day, then you will give yourself a motivation to get rid of laziness.
Fourth, divide the tasks into smaller ones. We are lazy because we always don't taste the feeling of success, and when we can't succeed, sometimes the task is too difficult or too difficult, but if you divide the task into small and small aspects, you can easily solve it. Then you will always be able to taste the feeling of success.
Fifth, consider the problem from the opposite side. We often wonder what happens when we don't want to do something. Is it pro? Or is it a con? Once you think that if you don't do it, you will only bring harm to yourself, so will you still be lazy?
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