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<> different people have different views on life, different outlooks on life, and different perceptions of life. There's a riddle: if you smile at it, it will smile at you.
You cry to it, it cries to you - what is it? People guess: it's a mirror!
But there is one person who quietly replied: This is life, so it is better to look at life with a sad face than to look at life with a hearty and optimistic face.
It's definitely sunny to live like this! Everyone wants life to be good, to be smooth sailing, without quarrels, but in fact, this kind of thing is impossible to happen. When two people are together, like teeth and lips, there will always be bumps.
Noise is inevitable. Mom and Dad have a good relationship, but since I was a child, they have quarreled many times when I saw them. Sometimes my mother would ask my father to come over and help wash the vegetables, but my father would always not wash them, and my mother would have to talk to my father to death.
The most serious one was last year, once, my mother was not at home, I went shopping, my father was at home alone, but my father also went out, and there was no one at home at this time, but my mother came back and found that the door of the house was open, and my mother was simply angry at this time, although I checked that there was no loss at home, but it was still annoying, and when my father came back, he was scolded for being bloody. But the matter has passed, and now their relationship is still very good, which shows that two people who have a good relationship will quarrel, and maybe noisy and noisy are also part of life. Life is not perfect, as long as most of the time is happy.
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It's good to be a quiet person, I don't like to fight, I believe that I can't run away, it's not that I can't grab it. A group of noisy people I am responsible for smiling, not too happy and not too sad, this is the only time in the world, so calmly and calmly with the encounter, not disrupted by others. You can listen to the ideas of others and think about your own life.
Appreciating others, you are very good, I am not bad, you have a big world, I have a small life. It's a very good place, and it's easy to walk around. Is this kind of life not noisy or noisy?
I'm fine, not noisy, not showing off. Quietly have a little world of your own. A few days ago, I saw such a passage "Marriage does not mean happiness, and being single does not mean unhappiness, because we were born alone, and it is impossible to leave at the same time, and living alone, as long as the mentality is good, it is a kind of happiness, and it is as simple as living for yourself", as long as the mentality is good, it is a kind of happiness.
To live is to live as a state of mind. Someone who understands you will love you the way you need to. Someone who doesn't understand you will love you the way he needs to.
Therefore, the person who understands you often gets twice the result with half the effort, he loves freely, and you are happy. I don't understand you, ordinary people do half the work, he loves hard, and you have to endure hardship. In the world of two people, understanding is more difficult to do than love.
I don't think that living alone is a kind of sadness, but living alone, you can be more free, you don't have to think about the feelings of so many others, and you don't have to make compromises. You are already an adult, you should know how to distinguish the relationship between life and love, life is not born for love, but love is based on life dependence. You can have a bad love, but you can't indulge yourself in a rotten life.
It's not noisy, it's not noisy, in my opinion, it's probably a good state of mind. <>
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<> life is impossible not to quarrel, because everyone has a different personality, and it is inevitable that they will quarrel because of different views.
Quarrels in the family are inevitable, and our parents sometimes quarrel in front of us. Because the economic situation is not good, they will be noisy when the family is tight; Because my grades dropped, they would blame each other for not paying attention to their children's studies and making noise; Because when I go to my grandfather's house or my grandfather's house for New Year's dinner, they will be noisy ......There was so much noise that I felt that it was a matter of family reason. But it is also because of the noisy existence that the family will appear lively and popular.
Friends can also be noisy with each other. Because you are too close to someone I don't like, I advise you to stay away from him, and you will think that I am sick, and then we will start arguing; Because I told you to bring me some cookies when I went to the supermarket, and you forgot it, but I finished my list beautifully, and then I felt that you didn't reassure me, and we would be noisy; Because you always have ideas, and every time you arrange the itinerary, as if your words are orders, and I can only accept them, I will start to resist, and then we will quarrel.
Loud and noisy in life will also come up a lot, someone on the bus accidentally stepped on your foot, you will get angry and yell, make someone apologize, and then you will be noisy. You accidentally spill something on the child's body, but it doesn't cause harm, and the child's parents will come to you out of a protective instinct to make noise. Too much noise in life is inevitable for us.
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