On the issue of wedding bride price, do you think you can think about it from a different angle?

Yes. That is, the woman pays the bride price, and the man brings the dowry. Just ask the men if they're happy or not.

Not happy? Oh, that must be disgusted that the woman's family is poor. What the?

Men still want a bride price? It must have been the man's family who sold his son. What the?

Men don't want a bride price? How incompetent is this man! The woman must have unique means and charm, can she recruit a door-to-door son-in-law without spending money What?

The child still has a male surname? Is there a mistake, a woman spends a lot of money, but the child does not have a woman's surname? ......In fact, if you think about it from another angle, you will find that some accusations are really unreasonable.

Those who mess up their marriages due to the bride price issue are basically the woman's family who don't understand the reason. When a man marries a daughter-in-law, he hopes to make the happy event lively and lively, and hopes that the relatives of both parties will be satisfied. If the man in the family is not poor in money, there is no such problem at all, and it is strange that the father-in-law does not do a lot of things!

It's a matter of face. Since you have an opinion on the bride price, basically the family situation is average, if you don't sell the house and don't give up, I think your daughter won't be happy when she marries.

Each other's parents give red envelopes, and the amount is almost the same, and the difference will not be too big according to family conditions. I think it's better to have some things clearly, after marriage has a baby, both parties are jointly responsible, my colleagues are almost all, grandma with the baby, grandma gave a part of the financial compensation to express gratitude. Trolls may say, why doesn't grandma compensate for the baby, this is to be emphasized, the child's surname is very important!

I haven't heard about the bride price for a long time. In the past, when I was in the countryside, I often heard that the neighbor's family or a certain family married a girl to marry a daughter-in-law asked for a bride price, basically hoping that the girl would marry into the man's family to enjoy more happiness and be less angry, but they were all watching the food and eating, that is, depending on the economic situation of the other party's family to discuss it, try not to quarrel and hurt the harmony, otherwise, how could the girl not be angry when she married in the past, and she was more likely to break up. Of course, there are also people who make happy events yellow because of the bride price issue, but it is a very rare phenomenon.

I remember an uncle in my backyard, when he married his daughter-in-law, he just brought a cow over and brought her back! In fact, his family's conditions are also the richest man in our village, and he is not bad for money, so taking the lead is a formality. Later, the young couple lived a very happy life, and rarely heard of quarrels.

Therefore, the bride price should not be an obstacle to the pursuit of a happy life for the two.

Yes, I bought a house for my daughter in full, the bride price is not more than 100,000, the man brings your dowry, and the child follows my family name. Mid-Autumn Festival, the New Year has to be spent here!

You definitely need to think about it from a different angle, but this kind of thing can't be changed by individuals, and you can only make compromises. ‍‍

We are getting married here to buy a house and a car, as for the question of whether to add a name, I see it this way, whether it is a man or a woman, if it is a full house before marriage, you can not add the other party's name. If it is a loan house, add the name of the other party according to the outstanding part of the loan, as for the decoration of household appliances and cars, they are all one and a half, and there is no dispute.

I don't think we women are goods, we can't buy and sell, there is no need to count the bride price as a catty, I myself will not have this kind of request, and my family does not have such a custom, and it is very embarrassing to raise the bride price in the city.

Of course, but if the bride price is too high, I can't understand and accept it.

Inverted door phenomenon. This is rarely the case in the countryside, and that's a shameful thing! This phenomenon is seen in the city, where the man's family conditions are average, while the woman's conditions are good.

However, the traditional custom in China is that the man provides a bride price and the woman gives a dowry, which has been unchanged for thousands of years. The Chinese should still follow the way the Chinese live, and they have existed for so many years, and there is a reason for them. Therefore, the woman will not agree to the bride price.

Even if it is reformed, it will not work.

As for the city, the word bride price is rarely heard anymore. Now, when you get married, it's basically okay to have a house to live in, of course, a new house. But when the woman goes to the man's house, it is best to give a red envelope, which is called "change of mouth fee".

Moreover, now that both families are basically the same child, how can they get by. Moreover, now, after getting married, many parents-in-law live with their sons-in-law, so it is better to discuss many things, and mutual understanding is very important!

The child's surname is very important, my best friend's child follows the mother's surname, and grandma grew up with grandma, and she didn't ask grandma for a penny! After all, the Chinese have inherited customs and concepts, and I am not exempt from customs, with whose family name, whose family will contribute more according to the actual situation, not that with whose surname is whose child, and the other family has nothing to do with it! Blood relationship cannot be changed by surname!

It is a very normal custom that the man gives a bride price and the woman gives a dowry. In all conscience!

The bride price still has to be decided by both parties, and the marriage itself is destined, since they come together, don't separate because of a trivial matter.

Bride price is now an inevitable topic before people get married, in life, some people obviously have a good relationship, but they didn't expect to be broken up by the sky-high bride price in the end. So, should there be a bride price? Let's find out.

There should be a bride price

The bride price is also very important for women, because they have to leave their familiar home and go to another strange family to struggle for the rest of their lives. No matter what happens in the future, I can't come back to my home often, and I have to stay in someone else's house and do things for others for the rest of my life. So,I think the bride price must be there, and if it can, it should be as satisfying as possible to the parents.

And in most cases, the bride price will not be left to the mother's family, and the mother's family will leave the bride price to their daughter, so that their daughter has some private property in someone else's home. However, there should be no strong requirements for the amount of the bride price. It should be determined according to the man's family situation.

For example, if the man's family is very ordinary, but the woman's family asks for a bride price of hundreds of thousands, it is simply unrealistic. The end result is that the couple will break up because of the bride price.

Therefore, it should be discussed according to the actual situation. <>

In the case of the family, it does not mean that there is no bride price, the bride price is still needed, but the amount of the bride price depends on the situation. The bride price not only represents the man's respect for the woman's family, but also a blessing for our marriage. The bride price also depends on the attitude of the man, some of the man's family is obviously wealthy, but the bride price is relatively small, this is just an attitude.

Sometimes it doesn't matter how much bride price you give, what matters is whether the man is willing to give it or not. Then, some people think that as long as two people love each other, it is fine, and the bride price is not so important. Therefore, everyone has their own opinion on the matter of bride price.

I think there should be a bride price, the bride price is a woman's guarantee, but also an explanation to the parents, so that the parents can not feel that their daughter is marrying a loss and is not valued by the in-laws. The bride price is actually an explanation to the parents, telling them that they did not raise this daughter in vain. The bride price will not stay at the mother's house, it is to buy the parents a peace of mind.

I think there should be, only when you pay the price, you will know how to cherish each other, to a certain extent, can make the married life of two people better.

Two people first reach an agreement On the issue of the bride price for marriage, the two people first discuss it clearly, first understand how much bride price the man can give himself, and how much bride price he should ask for, and reach an agreement on these issues, and then discuss with the parents of both parties and discuss it together. If the two of you haven't discussed it beforehand, don't bring it up with your family for the time being.

Pay more attention to the relationship between you rather than the so-called bride price When you get married, you must give a bride price, but this bride price is not the final factor that determines your marriage, it is actually just an accessory to marriage, but it can be big and combustible and small, just an accessory to the icing on the cake. However, what determines the belonging of your relationship is whether the other party is worthy of love in your hearts, whether it is worth your uncomplaining and unrepentant sacrifice for the other party, and whether the other party really loves you. If he is willing to pay more bride price, but he is not wholeheartedly good to you and gives you enough love, then even if he is willing to give more bride price, he cannot marry him.

If he loves you very much and is willing to work harder for you and give you enough warmth and care, then it doesn't matter if the bride price is less.

There are many reasons for hesitation to enter into marriage, it can be a sense of uncertainty about the future, mutual trust issues, dissatisfaction with the other half, etc. Before entering into marriage, we need to seriously consider whether our relationship is truly stable and whether both parties have enough understanding and respect. If he has any concerns or concerns, he can communicate and resolve them, or consider postponing the marriage decision until the issue is resolved.

The issue of dowry and bride price has been a subject of controversy. In traditional weddings, dowry and bride price are indispensable elements, but modern society should no longer treat women as commodities, and marriage should be based on equality and shared responsibility. Therefore, I believe that the dowry and the bride price should be equal.

Of course, this does not mean that the dowry and bride price are mandatory, and if both parties agree to celebrate the wedding in their own way, then this can also be omitted.

In short, marriage requires sincerity and respect from both parties, and dowry and bride price should not be an element that violates women's rights. Before entering into marriage, we need to think carefully and communicate calmly to ensure that the decision made by the escort Cong is the right one.

I think the bride price is the importance that the man attaches to the woman's family. But in the face of a bride price of 500,000 yuan, there are two situations.

1. The man's family background is average. If the man's family has added the woman's name to the house, and the girl can't get married because he can't get the expensive bride price, I think the girl should think about whether she really likes the boy, and the future life is two people, not two families, and your parents can't interfere with your happiness.

2. The man's family is wealthy. If the man's family has money and he is unwilling to take it out to marry you, then he just doesn't want to marry you, he thinks that there are better girls, and at this time you have to think about whether this boy is really worth marrying.

In any case, I think the bride price is an important value, but the bride price is not determined by the quantity of true love. Finally, I wish that all lovers in the world will eventually become married.

Is face that valuable? Is it worth more than the future life of your own girl?

Sometimes you can't rush, look at it from a different angle.