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Let the child learn some self-defense skills, such as learning taekwondo, boxing or something.
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I had this experience, and I told my parents that I had an older brother at school who had been helping me, but my parents said that I could bring him a bottle of drink every day, so that he could at least help you until graduation.
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This is a manifestation of the weakening of the concept of self-interest, and you mainly need to let him learn to protect self-interest.
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It is necessary to establish a sense of self-protection first, avoid contact with hidden dangers such as water, electricity and coal, and teach children not to meddle in things, and learn some skills such as disaster reduction and survival.
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This is the common obligation and responsibility of parents, schools, and society, and our school used to invite police officers to give speeches.
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Tell your child that at all times he must be vigilant when anyone other than his or her own family member comes into physical contact with him.
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It is recommended that we will hear, encounter and think of the knowledge and examples of safety and self-protection in our lives at any time, and tell the baby in time, so that he can establish the concept of safety and learn to love himself.
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When the child is really bullied (such as others kicking him), you can stop the continuation of the behavior, but ask the child's thoughts, take the initiative to guide him to solve it by himself (you can let him scold the other party can't, or can't scold, very angry can fight back), slowly let him deal with the problems between the children, if his things are snatched away, he is unwilling to ask, you help him, (this is an escape behavior in itself), this way of protection makes children dependent, Anyway, if you have the idea of your parents, grandparents, and so on, you can give him advice, either ask for it yourself, or give it to others, anyway, you don't want it yourself, your mother won't ask for it, you decide your own things, if you give it to others, I won't buy it for you next time, don't have too many personal emotions in it, the child is sensible and understands what you mean, don't interfere too much, don't do everything for you. Ask your child about his or her own opinions and ideas, and be sure to respect them.
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First of all, you have to love your child and make him feel safe at home. Second, try to communicate with your child why he is bullied and doesn't fight back. Is it because he doesn't feel that he is being bullied, or is he afraid, or he has other thoughts.
After understanding, find a way to solve it.
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On this issue, my nephew is the same. There is a reason why parents are too protective of their children and love their children too much, and they do not pay attention to their children's own thoughts. When children are bullied, adults often take the initiative to protect them, but don't have full authority.
The child does not fight back does not mean that the child is cowardly, it is possible that he himself does not think that this is bullying, it may also be that the child is more tolerant, bullying is not bullying from the perspective of adults, sometimes, the child does not think so, if the child does not think that he is being bullied, parents should not deliberately emphasize, saying that people bully you, why don't you fight back, you are stupid, so that the child is prone to inferiority complex and a sense of helplessness, next time there is this, he himself is afraid from the psychology and does not know what to do, such protection is also a kind of harm.
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Teach your child to say no! When you encounter being bullied, saying no loudly can deter the other party and attract the attention of those around you. Second, keep your distance from the other party, and if you are grabbed by the other party's hand, vigorously break free and keep your distance.
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My child is currently two and a half years old, and he is also a relatively introverted and quiet boy in terms of personality. It is not uncommon to encounter children snatching his toys or excluding him. Normally, if he grabs it, he will go and find something else to play with.
If I snatched his favorite toy, he would come to me crying and ask me to stand up for him. On the one hand, I felt that if I didn't ask for him to come back, it would damage the parent-child relationship and cause the child to distrust me, and on the other hand, I felt that he should learn to handle things between children on his own. Very contradictory, in trying to guide.
I'll help him get the toy back while teaching him "it's mine, we can play together, but you can't take it away." If the kids still rob each other, I'll take him away. Looking forward to the emergence of better and viable ways of education.
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In fact, the character is difficult to change, to educate children anytime and anywhere to learn to refuse, learn to say no, learn to fight back, during this period to communicate with the teacher more, talk to the child more, to give the child full of love, to be their strong backing, tell the child: nothing to cause trouble, there is nothing not to be afraid of.
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The child does not know how to protect himself because he cannot distinguish the boundaries of bullying, and he does not know that it is bullying when other children bully him. Therefore, parents should teach their children a concept: learn to distinguish the boundaries, tell the child which behaviors belong to the category of violations, let the child have this awareness and then he can protect himself, know the boundaries and then need to teach him, when encountering others violating themselves, they should say no loudly, as long as they don't want to or make themselves uncomfortable, they can refuse, this is a reasonable right, teach him how to deal with it, how to do it is the best.
Let the child protect himself.
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Extraction code: nktd In recent years, accidents have occurred from time to time in young children, and a considerable proportion of them are caused by children's lack of self-protection ability and safety knowledge. Therefore, it is particularly important to strengthen safety education and cultivate children's self-protection ability.
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Parents will not stay with their children forever, and children will leave your side one day. But when we are not with our children, we must teach them how to protect themselves. The most important thing should be to strengthen some safety protection awareness, so that they can avoid being harmed in an unknown environment.
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First of all, we should strengthen safety education, and secondly, I think the most important thing is to teach children to talk to their parents or teachers in a timely manner about what happens. Because some children will always endure it alone when they encounter some painful things. I don't ask for help, and I think that's the scariest thing.
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Some schools are also carrying out the popularization of safety knowledge, but parents can't think that school education is necessary, and they don't have to educate parents. Only when children understand the importance of safety will they pay attention to this awareness. This will also prevent a lot of sad things from happening.
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Safety education is just an amateur science popularization for children, and the main reason is that the situation is too boring. Teachers and parents should find ways to make it easier for children to accept. In this way, children will have a sense of self-protection at school and children can grow up healthily.
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While carrying out safety education in schools, parents should also popularize some safety knowledge to students, especially some physiological and hygiene issues. Be sure to let students know that if they encounter something in school that they don't understand or can't understand, they must tell their parents. Don't feel embarrassed or embarrassed to talk about it, but let your child trust their parents so that they don't get hurt at school.
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Today's children will always experience some unknown dangers, even in school. In my opinion, as a parent, it is important to have a better understanding of the physiology of your child's body. Let them know what is right and what is not, and avoid being harmed in this regard.
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The most important thing is probably physiological knowledge. Although the current social environment is more open than before, there are always some people who will talk about sexual perversion. This is obviously a very normal thing, and some parents are always difficult to talk about their children.
I think it is important to strengthen this knowledge to prevent children from being murdered because of ignorance.
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Parents are sometimes too systematic and biased about their children's education. The school's safety education for students is sometimes not perfect, and the danger is hidden around them, and parents and teachers cannot ignore it. Only by constantly educating, constantly popularizing science, and constantly regulating children can we arouse vigilance.
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If a child is bullied at school and is reluctant to talk to parents, parents should respect the child's ideas and do not force the child to speak up. Here's how parents can help their children:
1.Provide support and comfort to your child, make him feel loved and supported by his parents, and let him know that he or she is not alone in facing problems.
2.Encourage children to build friendly relationships, let children learn how to get along with classmates, and let children exercise their ability to deal with conflicts and conflicts through role-playing.
3.Help your child learn to protect himself and teach him how to avoid or reduce the occurrence of bullying behaviors, such as teaching him to speak"Nope", ask for help, etc.
4.It is recommended that children seek help from Chongmu teachers or the school to let them know that school is a safe place and that the school will protect their rights and safety.
5.Monitor your child's emotional changes, observe your child's behavior and emotional changes, identify problems in time and communicate with your child, and provide necessary help.
In conclusion, parents should deal with their children's bullying at school with a supportive and understanding attitude, help children build self-confidence, cultivate children's self-protection skills, and teach children how to deal with conflicts and conflicts to ensure their children's physical and mental health and safety.
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Children are bullied at school, and more or less tearing down the cherry blossoms will be encountered, which is an inevitable part of the child's growth process. What should parents do when their children are reluctant to tell their parents?
First of all, parents should try to communicate with their children. Find out why your child is reluctant to tell their parents, because they are afraid of retaliation from their bullied classmates, or because they are afraid that their parents will blame them. In conversations with children, parents should firmly and gently tell their children that no matter what happens, parents will stand by them and support them.
At the same time, parents can also provide some ways for their children to cope with bullying, such as saying not to resist, try to avoid contact with classmates who bully them, seek help from teachers or counselors, etc.
If the child is still reluctant to tell the parent, there are other ways for the parent to monitor the child's condition. For example, observe your child's physical condition and emotional changes. If the child has physical injuries or mental discomfort, then parents should pay more attention to the child's condition.
In addition, parents can also contact their child's teacher or homeroom teacher to find out how their child is doing in school and if there are any signs of bullying.
Finally, if parents are convinced that their child is being bullied, they should face the problem with their child. Parents can report to the school or relevant agencies to help their children solve the problem. At the same time, parents should also give their children some psychological support, so that they know that they are not alone and have parents by their side to support them.
In conclusion, parents should not take their children lightly when they are bullied at school. Parents should try to communicate with their children, pay attention to their children's physical and emotional changes, and contact schools and relevant institutions to help children solve problems. Most importantly, parents should provide psychological support to their children so that they feel loved and supported.
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Summary. If the child is a child or in primary school, ask the child not to trust strangers easily, and parents should try to guide the child to communicate with each other in school matters. Try not to bully the weak and bully the small within the school area.
Hello This is a very good question, I need a little time to answer, please be patient.
If the child is a child or in primary school, ask the child not to easily dig into the sedan chair to believe the words of strangers, and parents should try to guide the child to communicate with the school when arguing about the school. In the school, try not to bully the weak and bully the small.
If you are a junior high school student, you should first cultivate a positive and healthy psychological state, face the oppression of classmates or teachers, have a rational understanding, and actively seek help from parents or social associations.
As far as my daughter Buhail is concerned, introverted, in the first grade of primary school, she is more domineering at the same table, copying her as a quick job, and the mu is mainly art, and after the same table is overtaken with her, both of them have been re-sent, change her test papers, throw her things, how to teach children to fight back.
Do you know from your teacher or with your children?
The children communicated, the children and the teacher talked about it, and the teacher didn't care.
The same table also tore her award, and her table mate belonged to the bold category, and her mother said that she could hand in the test paper empty when she was in a bad mood.
In this case, first of all, to determine whether the children are really bullying in the definition, and first rule out whether it is normal fighting. The second is to correctly comfort the children, guide the children to talk about the things they don't like and talk about the same thing as the same bird, tell him "I don't like you to do this", if the other party still hasn't changed, it is recommended to talk about the two sides to separate the bridge.
Well, she was unreasonable at the same table, and when the schoolbag fell on the ground, she thought it was my child, and she didn't listen to the explanation, so she pushed the child's schoolbag down.
Children should learn not to be humble or arrogant, but they should not blindly compromise, and parents should actively communicate with the school.
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