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Do you feel like you have a stomach full of words, a heart full of emotions, and you want to express them?
Is it that poetic mood?
Feeling that life is empty and you don't have any real friends?
Always feel like you're alone?
In fact, when you think about it, you will find a lot.
From many friends, no matter what type it is, you are sure to find a close friend.
Talk to him about your heart and express what you think.
It will feel like a sudden mood will be brightened.
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Of course, there is no way to change by nature, but with the environment and acquired factors can be changed, in fact, people are multi-directional, introversion is relatively extroverted, in the eyes of others I am very introverted, but when I meet like-minded people, there are a lot of words, at this time I seem to be very extroverted, so make more jokes, others will think that you are not strangers, not that they don't want to talk to you, but they don't dare, they don't understand you.
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Do what you really like to do, choose what you like, do it for yourself, and it's OK when you have motivation.
Everyone, almost all of them are multifaceted, so don't deliberately turn yourself into what kind of person you are, as long as you are truly happy, live a fulfilling life, and live a meaningful life.
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You're really like me, Sissy, and after a while, you'll be in a good mood, and after a while, you'll feel lonely, and when no one pays attention to you, you'll feel like they're snubbing you, and when you ignore you, you'll feel like they're irritating! It's better to let go of all your thoughts and live a day, see how it feels, don't think about anything, go to work, eat and sleep, try it for a day, life will be wonderful! Come on
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It's good to go with the flow, and you don't have to change anything or cater to anything.
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Haha, isn't it a Pisces!
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How it feels like you are a typical Pisces, multiple personalities, passive, confused, friendly.
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Introverts are not necessarily withdrawn, but extroverts are not necessarily withdrawn.
Isolation refers to being ostracized, unable to find a sense of existence, being indifferent, feeling a deep inner pressure, having no sense of belonging and identity in the group, but wanting to be understood and appreciated by the group, but running into walls everywhere.
A word is not welcomed, and no one cares about it. So it is possible that extroverts can't say anything, because if you say too much, you can't be right, and you can talk so much, other people's tangerine peel and rotten grains have been told, the old past has been taken out, and the parents have poured it out, which makes people unhappy.
If you are the kind of person who is stubborn and stubborn, then the people around you will choose to stay away. It has caused isolation, especially the indifference of the group, which has formed a kind of psychological pressure.
So sometimes you don't want to see that extrovert, who is giggling on the surface, who is good at creating atmosphere, who may be empty inside, who may be withdrawn. After a long time, he will talk less to himself, because the people around him should not be in harmony, do not agree, and are too lazy to take care of it, then this kind of extroverted person may go to loneliness.
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Most introverted people are willing to stay by themselves, because loneliness is a state they choose, loneliness does not mean that it is not bad, but it cannot be like this all the time in this state, it is best to find what they love and get out of loneliness.
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The so-called introversion and extroversion refer to whether a person's interests and concerns are directed inward or outward. Pointing inward is called introversion, and pointing outward is called extroversion.
Extreme introverts and extroverts are few and far between. We know that the personality characteristics of extroverted personality are that they are more attentive to the outside, lively and cheerful, and easily adapt to changes in the external environment.
Do introverts tend to be lonely?
No. Introverts have depth, connotation, and the potential and characteristics of simple and sincere feelings. Although not all introverts will discover the potential of their personality strengths, as long as they play this strength, they will feel that they are the happiest people in the world and have a sense of paradise on earth, and it is not a difficult thing to discover, as long as you have the heart.
Introverts are very trustworthy, especially after you tell them some little secrets, they will bury your secrets in the bottom of their hearts and will not tell others. Because they know it's a trust, and they put it into practice.
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I was an introvert, and I grew up.
I remember when I was in elementary school, every time I got the teacher's grade letter, I would see the words shy and introverted in the comment column at the bottom. And I do, when friends get together, we talk in the dark, but I rarely express my opinions, and I usually act quietly and inwardly in front of my family, even like a girl.
Adults often say that I can't kick a fart with three feet. I'm not good at verbal expression, my writing ability is slightly better than my mouth, and I have been writing some essays to record my mood since middle school, and I have never stopped.
There are different opinions about whether introversion or extroversion is better. Many people tend to be extroverted because extroverts are more expressive, have harmonious interpersonal relationships, can enliven the atmosphere, exert teamwork skills, and are more able to articulate their opinions and attract attention. In fact, sometimes people see him as a manifestation of great ability.
For me, most introverts also have valuable qualities, such as focus, insight, thoughtfulness, and thoughtfulness. I'm not a talkative person, and I prefer to think alone and talk to the people in the book the rest of the time, except for occasions that I can't avoid, such as lectures or meetings. Schopenhauer once said that only when a person can truly face himself calmly can he have the integrity of being a human being.
The secret of life is to put yourself in the right light, and for some people, he needs to show the spotlight, project the ** on the stage, and let the flashing lights surround him on all sides. And for people like me, a green lamp and a desk are enough to support my entire spiritual world.
When others are partying, singing, shopping, eating, and having a good time, I would rather spend an afternoon polishing my mind and exercising my writing. I can do one thing well in a little time, I love singing, I learned guitar and tried to write songs, I like the kitchen, I like to watch different ingredients change into delicious dishes under different processes and heat. Other people's sense of accomplishment is how much benefit they get, how big a house they live in, how much high-end they drive, and my sense of accomplishment may be to do one thing well and do one thing.
Murakami is also not a talker, but he is an amazing builder of the spiritual world. "If he doesn't like to talk, give him a book, he's a silencer in the real world, he must be a speaker in that world. ”
Introversion does not mean the barrenness of the spiritual world, does not mean silent unsociability, and does not mean inferiority and loneliness.
May you also create a magnificent spiritual world for you.
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Pardonable. 1.Learn to understand others more.
When you communicate with others, it is best to learn to understand others, if the other party's personality is more sunny and cheerful, then we don't have to be too serious, and if the other party is a more serious character, then when we communicate with others, we must fully understand and respect them, to communicate carefully and carefully, if the other party is a friend who doesn't know much, it is best to maintain respect and appropriate communication on daily topics.
2.Be appropriately silent and respectful.
When we encounter problems that we don't understand, we should ask others for advice, respect others when communicating, don't talk endlessly, but learn to remain silent, let the other party express their opinions more, and when we encounter things we don't understand, don't rush to express them, we should learn to listen carefully, and give people a humble and serious attitude.
3.Communicate more about positive topics that the other person is interested in.
When communicating with others, everyone likes to communicate their own topics of interest and like to express their knowledge to others, so we must first learn to understand and listen to others' opinions, so that the other party can feel your sincerity and feel that communicating with you is a very pleasant process, because everyone hopes that they can be understood and respected by others, and more exchanges of each other's expertise and knowledge are precisely to understand each other and have a common language with each other.
4.Learn to listen humbly and carefully.
When communicating with others, it is necessary to learn to listen carefully and carefully, do not interrupt others, and listen more patiently, so as to understand and respect others, and only in this way can we reflect our sincerity and modesty and courtesy, so as to gain true friendship.
5.Learn to praise others.
Praise is a kind of respect, but also a kind of recognition of the other party's performance, when communicating with others, if we can properly express praise for the opinions expressed by others, this is undoubtedly to give the other party a feeling of respect and recognition, the other party will also very much agree with our understanding and respect, and the other party will also have a new understanding of us.
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Is introversion because of low self-esteem? Talking less and doing more, playing with friends with cheerful personalities can change a lot.
Communicate and contact with others more.
Extroverts are particularly lively, like to express themselves in crowded situations, have strong organizational skills, and are good at agitation and propaganda work. Extroverts are more shy, don't like to be in the limelight, like to do things with the big slip, have their own opinions but are not good at expressing themselves, you may be more introverted, it doesn't matter, it's good now, let yourself be braver, it will be better.
Introverted boys, and introverted girls confess, I don't know what kind of way boys will use, whether to send a message to tell the girl, or face to face to tell the girl, both of them have similar personalities, it should be quite compatible, if you really confess, maybe the girl will accept it.
You have been lively, indicating that you have a lively side in your personality, you have become the way you are now is caused by some things, you are better to see a professional psychological counselor in this situation, you can also self-psychological suggestion, you think about how tired people are to live for such things in their lives, rather than tired it is better to live happily, you carefully observe that there are actually many beautiful things in life, and there are many things to do yourself!
Introversion and extroversion are one dimension of personality, and there is no good or bad thing. Introversion and extroversion are a continuum, and introversion and extroversion are at opposite ends of this continuum. In real life, we use both sides of this continuum. >>>More