What should I do if I have a misunderstanding with my friends?

Apologize directly in person and explain the ins and outs of the matter.

Don't be vague, tell him how important your friend is to you, or buy a small gift and give it away unexpectedly. Everyone is a colleague and a good friend. There is no need to make the relationship stiff because of the whim.

Perhaps, tears are a kind of self-comfort and helplessness of the soul, but they are not the best solution. After a misunderstanding, sincerity, openness, and tolerance are the best solutions. Misunderstandings are indispensable episodes on the road of life, as long as you face them calmly, there is nothing that cannot be passed.

Let it be, just like that, and after a long time, if you go a little bit more accommodating, you'll be fine

An inconspicuous little thing hot for the three of you to be unhappy!

There are two ways to solve the problem.

The first is your own fault, because of the misunderstanding caused by yourself or your own words and deeds hurt your friends, in this case, don't hesitate, don't struggle, take the initiative to apologize to your friends, say your mistakes and sincere He Feng's apologies, so that friends will forgive you, and at the same time can make your friendship deeper, so that the problem has been solved.

The second kind of friend's fault, and the friend does not take the initiative to apologize to you, in this case, we will be very sad and anxious, on the one hand, because we don't want to lose this friend, and on the other hand, we are angry that the friend does not take the initiative to apologize to you. In this case, we can first send a message to our friend, euphemistically explain our minds, and at the same time say that we should not be so impulsive, so that we can express our little mistake first, and the friend will realize how big his mistake is, then he will take the initiative to apologize to you, and the problem will be solved.

First, I will immediately admit my mistake and apologize. I believe that an apology that does not delay is conducive to easing the tension between friends caused by my mistake, and that the other party will also have a step forward because I apologized first, and accept my apology.

Second, after apologizing, I will ask the other person about their feelings in detail, and review the time that caused the quarrel with the other person, listen to the other person's feelings and thoughts, and sincerely reflect on my mistakes.

Third, I will take the responsibility that belongs to me and avoid passing the blame on the other party or pretending that the mistake does not exist. This is good for mending my relationship with the other person, rebuilding trust between friends, and making up for the bad effects caused by mistakes.

Fourth, I will try my best to avoid similar mistakes in future interactions, better control my own emotions, be more cautious and learn to respect the other person's point of view that is different from my own.