What should a 40 year old sometimes do if he still wants to get something for nothing?

Now that the productive forces are developed, the wealth of society has increased, and the wealth of the family has also increased. People who want to get something for nothing want to get wealth from their parents, which is both realistic and feasible. However, most parents leave their offspring with real estate, and after the marriage of their children, the cash supply is rare.

The inheritance of the wealth of the parents will also be passed on to the children in the future. The Chinese believe in the old way that what is passed on to their children is greater than that of their inherited parents. There are many things to do about the daily care of parents, hospital bed care, and old-age care, and the only children are too busy to be busy, and it is really nothing to eat a little light, in addition to family affection, it is a labor tip, and it is not necessarily so easy.

Even if what you get from your parents when you are a child and you return it to your children, isn't that always the case? Therefore, we say that there is no absolute unearned gain, and the relative unearned gain actually outweighs the loss. I advise people to abandon such bad fantasies and vices, rely on their present body to create a present life, and use diligence and wisdom to create a better life.

This is the normal outlook on life and values.

It is a kind of instinct of people's mental reaction, but people can't always think about it, let alone use it as a sustenance, can only go with the flow, people who want to get it without work in life are inert, love vanity, fear of hardship, fear of tiredness, greedy to sit back and enjoy the enjoyment of it, all day long just want to take shortcuts to obtain other things, because they want to get it for nothing, or have taken it as an invisible sustenance, so most of the behaviors they show are gambling, cheating, stealing, Sometimes there will be some improper or even illegal behaviors such as robbery, and then it is natural to not work hard, sometimes it may not necessarily be for you, such as you pick up a large amount of cash or you find the treasure of an ancient tomb, etc., if you want to take it for yourself, then you are also a crime, even if it is not counted, but such unearned gains, sometimes it is easy to make a person with normal behavior bad.

People who want to get something for nothing don't just exist now, they have always existed since ancient times, and the means and methods of obtaining them are different. A small number of people are elites, intelligent and superhuman are diligent and hardworking, most of them are self-sufficient to survive when they encounter them, and a small number of them are lazy to do it, get it without work, and survive by people. There are many reasons why unearned gains can be established and exist, some rely on family background, some rely on background, some rely on stratagem, some rely on forcible taking, and the last one is to maintain survival by reducing one's self-esteem or completely letting go of taboos.

This kind of person has a strong sense of vanity, a very good sense of face, a very familiar connection, and some ability to do things, so if the society develops again, they have a gap in survival, and some of them are quite nourishing, but they are very cautious, due to the instability of income, lack of sense of well-being, their life can be said to be parasitic.

Too lazy, can't endure hardship, it doesn't matter and no one leads the way, you can't rely on yourself, you can't do it high, you can't do it low, you always want to climb to the sky in one step, this is an adverse reaction without my self-awareness, if your own environment is not good, then think about it, plan, start from low, any success is slowly brewed after hard work until it suddenly erupts. Nothing, what if you suffer for a few years, if you don't change, it will always be decadent, and if you change, you will have a chance to get on the right track.

How hard the work is, how tired and hard it is, how refreshing and happy it is to get good things, how happy and happy it is, and getting it without work is not the same as not working hard and happy. However, in real life, unearned gains can be quite serious, either making you vomit back what you have earned, or lacking the process of hard work and not cherishing anything, including your soul.

People who live without work are wandering in society, shuttling through leisure and entertainment places, with no guaranteed quality of life, and no basic happiness of self-sufficiency. Curry favor with and attach themselves to the powerful and wealthy, and do some illegal acts on their behalf that they are unwilling to come forward and wander on the edge of the law to obtain some money to survive. Social disorder, family instability, environmental filth, and human contradictions are mostly caused by these people, because they are very shrewd, do not make big mistakes, often commit small mistakes, and cannot meet the punishment of laws and public security regulations, it can also be said that it belongs to a kind of life.

Labor is gained, food comes to open the mouth, clothes come to stretch out the hand. I don't want to work if I just want to harvest! This kind of person can only wait for the pie to fall from the sky!

If you are disabled, the lonely elderly can be forgiven, if you have hands and feet and don't want to work, you can be lazy to do it every day! It is to make the society look down on it, and it will eventually be empty. It's self-digging, it's incorrigible!

We can have things that are just unearned, but we must not take illegal and unearned behaviors that violate conscience and morality, and only through our own hard work can we enjoy them with peace of mind, so that we can know that it is not easy to come by and know how to cherish, the so-called willingness to come from suffering.