Sometimes it s not a good way for parents to be cold, what to do 5

There is no parent in the world who does not love his child. I don't think the word ruthless can be said to my parents at all.

Mother conceived in October and endured the greatest pain in the world to bring us into this world, which is her greatest gift to us. I don't think they would have left us alone if we hadn't done something that disappointed them.

I have three children at home, I have a younger brother and a younger sister, and it seems to me that my parents love my younger siblings. They were also cold to me, and almost never took the initiative to call me after I went to college, but my mother would still send money to my Alipay every month. Sometimes I feel wronged, why can't I get their care and love?

Even I will be cruel to them, but sometimes I will understand them, it is not easy for them to work hard to earn money to raise the three of us, besides, they all have their own jobs, they are very busy and tired every day, why should we ask them to spend all their energy on us.

It seems to me that my father was cold to me because I didn't give him glory and lived up to his expectations of me. When I was at home, I didn't talk to my dad much, but I could feel his love for me. Every time I left the house, he would buy me good food and tell me a lot, so that I knew what to do and my own way.

Yes, each of us has to rely on ourselves when we come to this world, even our own parents can't rely on it for the rest of our lives.

They don't care that we are their way of educating their children, it may be for us to learn to be independent, we owe our parents, from the beginning of coming into this world, what reason do we have to be ruthless?

I'm a person who grew up in a free-range range. My parents were hardly involved in all my choices, whether it was high school or college, whether it was early love or traveling, my parents hardly asked, well, except to prevent me from learning to draw.

I remember one time, my cousin came to my house to play, and the two of us went out to buy supper after twelve o'clock in the evening. At that time, we went out a bit loud, my mother woke up, asked us what we were doing in the room, I said go out, she didn't care. Not long after my cousin and I went out, she was chatting with her mother on her mobile phone, and my cousin told her mother that she and I were now out to buy supper, but I didn't expect that in less than ten minutes, her father called her a **, saying that he would come to pick us up immediately now and send us back, because it was too late for the two girls to be safe.

I was in the first year of junior high school at that time, I was thirteen or fourteen years old, and my cousin was three months younger than me, and then I saw the gap between my parents.

In fact, during that time, it was a rebellious period, and I hated my parents very much, and when I even quarreled with them, I even said why should you be my parents. Thinking about it later, I was really stupid myself. Everyone's personality is different, so the way parents discipline their children is also different.

For example, my parents, it is because of their parenting style that I am now very independent and sensible.

The reason why our parents are cold to us may be because they don't know how to express it, but we must know that our parents love us. When we understand this in our hearts, we will be able to understand many things in life, and when we understand the painstaking and difficult aspects of our parents, we will not be able to bear to hate them.