Why is it that I am the one who gets hurt every time, regardless of my efforts, the result is still

Updated on psychology 2024-05-12
63 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I am a woman, I love my husband very much, I trust him very much, I give everything for him, hehe, but, his heart has changed, no matter how much I love him, I can't get his heart back, I have also suffered, committed suicide, hehe, or irreparable, so, I learned to give up, after my heart learned to give up, my life began to be full of sunshine, so, I hope you learn to give up feelings that do not belong to you, you don't need to learn bad for him, she doesn't love you, it's her loss, She doesn't know how to cherish a person who really loves him, she is sad and pitiful, there is no need to learn bad for a person who doesn't love herself, and she is strong and confident to get out of this emotionless journey.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Brother, are you a good person?

    Why do people have to give you a chance when you work hard?

    I ask you, if Sister Fleur tried to pursue you, would you give her a chance?

    What if she worked hard and hard? Will you love her?

    You have the right to like her, and she also has the right to choose the person she likes, so this has nothing to do with whether the person is good or bad, love her, why can't you respect her choice?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Love is joyful, not bound. If you have loved each other, try to impress each other with the sweetness of the past, don't have any grievances, hold the mentality of getting together and dispersing, things may take a turn for the better, don't force it, even if it is only seven days, then give her seven days of good memories, maybe the ending will be rewritten.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Landlord: You must firmly believe that good people have good rewards! Even if you don't report it now, at least you have a clear conscience

    If you really work hard and do everything you need to do, no matter how good you are to her, or if you are very cold, then it can only mean that she doesn't like you, and the relationship is barely coming, and the landlord is optimistic, where is there no grass at the end of the world.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Ay! I'm the same, I'm very nice to my wife, but I always feel like she doesn't treat me properly. Some women are like that. The easier it is to get, the less valuable it feels. So. The best thing to do is. Don't take them for granted!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love or not is not a matter of good or bad, if she doesn't love you, why do you have to hang yourself from a tree?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    How to say it, there is no reason to talk about such a thing as love. Just open a little bit yourself, God will let you meet the wrong person before you meet the team, so that you can grasp him well when hope appears. It's just that fate hasn't arrived yet.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Many people have had this experience, so think about it next time and don't be impulsive.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Did you give it your all every time, and with the aim of getting married? Try to fall in love, don't go any further, don't think about marriage or anything, just let it be.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No one to come!

    Unless you really, really like it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't be too emotional about the pursuit

    Maybe they're just a passing favorite

    Time often changes back to its original appearance

    Love must be seen clearly in the release of feelings

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I had a similar experience to you, he was very nice to me at first, but it wasn't good to me for a month. I have given him so much affection that it makes me sad. I couldn't help myself.

    But it's much better now, take your time to find it, there's always one that suits you. Believe in fate! Bless you!!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There are many things that cannot be forced, but they cannot be pursued. What belongs to you will always be yours, and you can't keep the robbery that doesn't belong to you, so let it be. When someone chases you again, you have to analyze it carefully, it's too fast, it makes people feel unstable and unreliable.

    Good honey is made through hard work.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's hard to say, love is true. The wound is deep.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Is it that in the process of getting along, you are passive?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    After all, they are your parents, your dearest people, you need to communicate more, let them know what you really think in your heart, and at the same time, you must be more considerate of them.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's good to wait for you to get married, he has a daughter because he cares about you, if you watch a TV and there is something wrong with a loser's child, your parents won't be so angry, because it's none of his business.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    After all, they are your parents, and sometimes they love you in the wrong way, but their good heart for you is always there.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hey, you have to understand them, I also bother my parents, but I'll be fine in a while, you can try not to talk to them at home in the future, just avoid them.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's time for rebellion, it's normal.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I don't know how you measure it to be hurt.

    If the person you really treat is behind your back, it can only be said that you are too simple and do not understand the truth of "the heart of defense is indispensable", the society is sinister, and it is not a fault to protect yourself with more eyes.

    If the person you are dating leaves you for some reason, think more about yourself, whether you have done something wrong, and if you have a clear conscience, why be sad.

    If you judge yourself to be injured just because you have gained or lost for a while, then when I haven't said anything, then go and go sad.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Standing in different angles, different positions, the results will be completely different, maybe next time you will say: "This time I win!" ”

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Everybody's life"Dishonorable"side. This means that he has lost a lot, but the gains and losses are mutual. There must be gains!

    It doesn't matter what others think, the key is to adjust your mentality. It's not terrible to be hurt, it's terrible to not have the courage to face reality.

    There will always be only one enemy, and that is yourself.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    People inevitably have this sigh when they are pessimistic!!

    Think about it, why didn't you get hurt?

    Although I don't know what the hell happened to you? But I know that everything has a cause and effect.

    How can people grow up if they are not hurt by a little.

    If you don't get a little blow, how can you be strong.

    I've never seen a lesson that can be bought without spending money.

    Good luck soon**!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This is because you look down on yourself too much, in fact, sometimes you think about it, maybe there are many people in the world who are not as good as you, and the people around you are so difficult that they are better than you? How many people are inferior to you?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Have you thought about it? Why is it always you who gets hurt? What the hell is wrong?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Because you want to be big.

    The ratio is not small.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Don't say that, but sometimes fate plays tricks on people.

    I used to say why it's always me who gets hurt, but now I don't think so, because as long as you change yourself, it may not be your patent to get hurt.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In fact, if you have noticed the problem yourself, you should think about it yourself, start from your own problem, and analyze whether there is anything that needs to be changed. Sometimes, being sincere to people is a good character, but you must know how to find people who are worthy of your sincere treatment, as long as you see the right people, you will definitely reap joy and happiness! ~

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's not just you, everybody gets hurt at times

    Psychological, physical

    Considering that there are many people who are more miserable than you, and that is nothing.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Know how to cherish yourself.

    What you want is not numbness, but to make your heart really strong, remember that there is such a sentence to love, as if you have not been hurt to understand that being serious about feelings is a positive attitude towards life, but you need to know what kind of person is worthy of your own love, don't say love easily, and don't let yourself be hurt easily.

    Feelings are not the only part of life, they are only a part, you know?

    Hope it helps.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's not yourself if you're numb.

    I think, therefore I am, and feelings may be fake.

    However, my ego is a real being.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    There are enough injuries, and when they are serious enough, they will naturally become numb! Infatuated people are always victims!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Poor man again.

    Ever heard of it? Love deeply and passionately, this is the only way to make a person whole. Love is inevitably hurt. It's either you or your lover. Would you rather be a little tired and a little more sore? Love is never equal.

    It's important not to hurt yourself by thinking about it when you're not sure if it's really hurt. Love, above all, trust. Don't be too sensitive.

    Also, you can find something that interests you to do. Don't concentrate all your energy on one point.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Maybe you're the kind of person who doesn't know how to protect yourself!

    Many deceitful people in society are pretending to be very simple, although you are not, but the people around you may have met a lot of people who pretend to be simple, so those who have been hurt will have a defensive self-protection psychology for everyone! This also means that the heart of harming others must not be had, and the heart of guarding against others is indispensable.

    When a simple person regards the other party as his friend but the other party has the mentality of guarding himself, he may not be able to stand it and become hurt!

    In fact, life is a complex composition of people, and you are not easily hurt when you have the heart to defend against others! When two people with a defensive heart make friends together, they may be less hurt by each other, so that it is you who will not be hurt!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    That's a good question, why are they all you? I thought to myself, I used to be very similar to you, I felt that it was I who was hurt, and the whole world betrayed me, as if I was the most pitiful and miserable person in the world, but then I figured it out. Meimei, you can blame others for the first injury, but after the experience, you should be sober, why do you let others hurt you again and again?

    Maybe what I said is not very good, I just hope that girls will be more vigilant in many times, true love people will not care, you may come to vent your emotions, please not only vent, but also to solve this problem, don't get hurt again. I hope you are happy.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    True love doesn't have to be a perfect match in the eyes of others.

    It's about the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other.

    It is to make the other party's life better and silently dedicated.

    This love warms not only themselves, but also the worldly hearts.

    True love is when you can love, know how to cherish.

    True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

    Because, letting go is having everything...

    Please in Jane. When you cherish it, love well.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It's very simple, it's all over without him. Unless you really like him, then a person like him is not worthy of your love at all, and doesn't it mean that letting go is also love! Learn to be relieved.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It's easy to say that you don't want to get hurt, don't love someone easily. You can observe it from a distance! If this person is worthy of your real dedication and love, it will reduce a lot of unnecessary harm.

    Don't touch someone who doesn't deserve to love, and if you insist on going, the result will be even more painful. There's nothing wrong with being clumsy, but being too clumsy will hurt you.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Because you love with all your strength every time, don't care that it's always you who are hurt, they lose so much love to him, you should be sad, your seriousness will be cherished sooner or later, don't lose faith.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    This.. Tricking you? Do you still need to worry about that? Leave him and hide away.

    Is such a man worth your affection for him? Hehe...

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Because you are very vulnerable in other people's eyes.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It's just that because I care too much and treat it with a normal heart, it's okay.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    It's not that the people you meet are too bad, or you're too easy to deceive, and it's too easy to give affection.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    That's easier for you to fool 1

    Life demands that you have to be smart!

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Maybe it has a lot to do with how good you are.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    What to do? Learn to deal with your own life, and people who are not worth dating will go a little farther!

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    People who are generally prone to injury are kinder people.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Because you love more than the other person.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Because you're unlucky.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Because you're a cup.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Love is what it is.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Eating and beating Doudou, are you Doudou?

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    In the love game, whoever takes the initiative loses.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Maybe she's sincere, then you can give her a chance. But you can't give more. If you like her, you can continue to be with her, and if you don't like each other, then forget it.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    It depends on what you think in your heart, if you still like her, don't do that, if you don't like it, just refuse

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    If you still have a crush on him, then stay with him. On the contrary, a showdown with him means that he wants to break off friendship.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Respect each other as a guest, my principle to send you.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    This situation is because others don't treat you as a friend, let alone a close friend, why should they take the initiative without feelings, and what they don't get from you, you don't give. Pay attention to participate in more activities, this is a medium, you can meet a lot of people, you can increase the gratitude between you, there is a feeling, there is a topic, there is an initiative, I hope it will be beneficial to you....

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    Why say hello to someone? I never pay attention to people! It's not uncommon for anyone to pay attention to me, and play their own game. Very good!

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    Then you learn not to be so active in the future, you will get tired after taking the initiative for a long time, just be happy.

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    Your heart is too far away from everyone's heart. Communicate with your heart. Attentively. You slowly come to the test.

  63. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    I think you can find something interesting and ** to attract others to take the initiative to communicate with you, don't doubt your ability

    Every time someone is indifferent, you can use it as an experience.

    You'll be even more attractive.

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