After giving birth, what did you see about whom?

For women, giving birth to a child is a major event in life, before giving birth to a child, everything is a joke of life, after giving birth, you will not feel that this world, relying on yourself is the most reliable thing. Many people will feel the same way, and they will complain: The in-laws are not good, and the husband is unreliable.

A series of problems appear, very small questions, will make us feel that the world is so bitter. As a woman, after experiencing the most cruel year, no matter how life is for us, no matter how bad your in-laws treat you, no matter how much your husband makes you chill, in fact, if you are a smart woman, you will not turn these into complaints and tempers, because, your life is already like this, it will not be worse than this situation, what you have to do is to do yourself well, don't give up your job, you must have your own income, in order to live freely.

When I was about to give birth, my amniotic water broke and I was hospitalized on this day before my mother-in-law came to the hospital, the uterine opening is not easy to open, the placenta position is low, and I can try to give birth, if there is fetal hypoxia, I can turn to a caesarean section, my mother-in-law always wants me to have a caesarean section, I know, she is worried about the child, the mother-in-law's eyes must be the most important child, I am an outsider who has nothing to do with her, she will definitely not take into account my body. After the caesarean section in the hospital for a few days, my mother-in-law and husband fell asleep on the bed, the child choked on amniotic fluid in the middle of the night, almost out of breath and quickly sent to the pediatric stomach lavage, after coming back, my mother and I were very afraid that the baby would be choked, my mother sat on the edge of the bed and stared at the child with both eyes, my mother-in-law and husband fell asleep when they lay down. In those few days, I really saw through the faces of my mother-in-law's family and felt that I was not worth it.

After giving birth, I found that I was an outsider after all, and before I was born, watching my husband's family's courtesy to me and their attitude after giving birth to a child was simply more enjoyable than acting in a movie. So in my opinion, some people's masks really can't stand the toss, and with the child's voice, the family shows a hideous expression. They can't wait to sweep you out of the house and treat your children as their lifeline.

And the reason why I am willing to let you give you a place at home is just to treat you as a cow and feed your children. So seeing these people and things clearly, I can only turn a deaf ear, and it is enough to be a good mother.

Having a baby will make you see the whole world. Sometimes I hold my son and look at him, I envy him a little, life has just begun, he is still so young, and I will slowly age in the trivial matters of firewood, rice, oil and salt, and human affairs. My mother used to hold me like that.

I miss her so much. My dearest relatives. And now I'm a mother.

I also experienced sadness and inequality. There are complaints. Although I am already in the age of establishment.

But every time I think of my mother, I still feel like a little girl in my heart, soft in my heart.

Ordinary women are just like me, giving birth to a child is definitely a watershed, as soon as the child lands, a series of things that follow impact the postpartum weak body and subvert your three views, the mother-in-law who originally boasted of doing everything is fast and has good muscles and bones, and never took medicine, began to take the trouble to talk about her old child, and her husband did not care about the family, and always felt that she had completed the task of inheriting the family and made a great contribution. Only I gritted my teeth and insisted, for the sake of the child, I really let go.

After giving birth, I know that it is not easy to be a parent. Children's problems, in fact, really need parents to worry about themselves. But in the face of the future, everything is still unknown, and the only thing to do now is to work hard to raise the child, work hard to earn money, and prepare some support in advance for the future of the child.

There are only two people in this world who will make my heart soft. One is the mother who gave me life, and the other is the life that I gave him. In the future, Hansheng will be my weakness. I will no longer live as I am. Other so-called family members are passers-by.

The appearance of my child is only known after the birth of the child, and of course, there are many aspects. This could be written as a book.

I don't know until I have a baby.

On the importance of mother-in-law, having a mother-in-law who can help is simply a gift from God is not easy for parents, only parents are the people who love themselves the most in the world, babbling babbling, a smiling face of the baby can ** all your unhappiness.

After giving birth to a child, I know what pressure is and what is the weight of a father.

The hardships of raising and educating you from your parents.

Living expenses (unless you live with your in-laws and have their expenses).

Baobao) brings you a sense of family happiness.

I don't know, I can't have children, I'm a man.

This is because when the child is born, the other party ignores the child, and is also very cold to the wife, as if the wife is just a fertility tool, which there is no way to find out before giving birth to the child.

Because when giving birth to a child, if your other half values the child more than herself, and does not come to your wife's side in time to accompany you at the first time, or cares about your wife, it means that this man actually doesn't love you.

Because when you have a baby, when you are at your weakest. And the person who bullies you will find that you have no ability to resist at this time. Intensify the bullying of you and set so-called rules for you. So you can see how good they are.

Because you have to face a lot of problems when giving birth, and having a child is a very dangerous thing, you can also see the other party's attitude towards you, so you can clearly see each other.

Giving birth to a child for a woman is equivalent to walking before the ghost door closes, and you have to face the danger that may occur at any time, if a man really loves you, he has already begun to fidget at the moment you enter the delivery room, if he is always anxious to ask the doctor how you are, it means that you have not chosen the wrong person. If he is making a decision on whether to use **, protect the big and keep the small, etc., he is also based on you, which means that he loves you very much and is afraid of losing you.

I really can't see anything when I give birth, and I can see each other clearly after giving birth, because after the child is born, not only the pressure of life changes, but the spirit of women is also disabled.

Giving birth to a child is a big event for every woman, and the birth of a child means that a woman is burdened with the responsibility of a mother, and her focus in life must also shift to the child. Giving birth is a necessary way for women to mature, after giving birth, every woman has a different feeling, there are many things that can only be understood after giving birth, let's take a look at it together!

First of all, the biggest change is the thought, before giving birth to a child, many women's attention is on themselves, every day to dress themselves up in a radiant light, shopping is every woman's favorite thing, and after giving birth, more and more women focus on the child, the crystallization of pregnancy October, watching the child grow up little by little, parents are full of comfort, many women because the child has changed their habits, give up shopping, most of the time think of raising the child, cultivate the child, will transfer more of their energy to their children and have high hopes for them.

In the process of getting along with children, you will feel more and more how ignorant you were in the past, and how difficult your parents are, so that they will be more considerate of them when facing their parents, and they will be more able to experience the bitterness and bitterness of being parents.

In addition, after giving birth, many people's figures will be out of shape, for every woman this is unacceptable, out of shape of the figure will not only affect their mood, but also affect the relationship between husband and wife, so to exercise in various ways, to find their former state, must not be satisfied with the status quo, exercise after pregnancy is not a difficult thing, as long as we make up our minds and persevere, we will be able to recover in a few months.

For example, how painful it is to give birth to a child, how difficult it is to bring a child, this can only be understood after giving birth, if the elderly have help to take care of the child, or do not help to take care of the child, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can get along, this is definitely after giving birth to a child to understand, take care of the child, take care of yourself, maintain a good family relationship, and life can be better.

Parents' love for their children, why children are so willful, etc. The love of parents for their children, the love of parents for their children is selfless; The reason why children are so willful is largely the result of their parents' doting.

Raising a child not only consumes time and money, but also consumes physical strength, it is difficult to think all night, and it is difficult to recover after giving birth to a child. Giving birth hurts, and it will be difficult after giving birth.

A new mother, still in confinement, is a little depressed! I used to tease other people's children, and I was so happy, and I always fantasized about how happy I would be to have my own children! But when I became a mother, I realized how laborious it is to raise a baby, feeding and burping in the middle of the night is not a thing, and the baby is heartache and helpless when it is uncomfortable and crying!

Raising a child is 100 years old, and he is often worried about 99. Thinking that the days have just begun, I am hesitant and melancholy in my heart.

Smooth delivery hurt for a day and a night Second-degree tear Blocking milk once a month on average Tenosynovitis Urticaria Mixed hemorrhoids Now I have a herniated lumbar disc Raising a baby requires half a life The hard work of taking care of the baby by myself is too much It is too old to ignore the collapse of the body The baby is only 28 months old I have a lumbar protrusion I have been lying for more than a month I don't know how to take care of the baby by myself in the future So sisters must take care of their bodies when they are young They must take care of their bodies during pregnancy and confinement Health is gone, there is nothing.

If you are pregnant, the pregnancy period will be the happiest time for you in the next year or two, even if you have a strong pregnancy reaction, because the days after giving birth to a baby are more painful, you will face various postpartum physical discomfort, pain caused by breastfeeding, various doubts about taking care of the baby, long-term lack of sleep, etc. If it is not handled well, it is easy to get postpartum depression.

If you are originally allergic, some allergic reactions may easily appear during pregnancy, and those friends around you who say that you are hypocritical or think that there is something in this, please block it directly. Don't eat too much, don't deliberately eat too well, remember to control the diet, now is not the age of our parents to have babies, there is no need to make all kinds of big supplements at a moment's notice.

Whether it's pregnancy or postpartum, being in a good mood is the most important thing, and it doesn't matter what other people say or do, except for what you can gain by adding blockage, so go in the left ear and out the right ear. Finally, many times it is really useful to spend a little more money, such as booking a single ward in advance, such as inviting a confinement wife, such as going to a confinement center, which will save you a lot of worry.

Raising a child may be very good, or it may be sad, depending on luck, if you meet a high-demand baby, see if you adapt first, or your child has become an angel. No matter how good the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is, it can't stand the noise after having children, and people are protecting their own people at critical moments, not to say absolutely, but I think eighty percent of mothers-in-law will not really treat their daughter-in-law as a daughter.

If you are born, you can only rely on yourself, no matter how good your mother-in-law says, you are still tired of yourself! My mother-in-law said to help watch, but now that the child was born for a week, only my mother came to serve me, and my mother-in-law didn't hug it, saying that the child was too young for her to hug it, and I could only hehe! Still want me.

If you want a second child, the door is gone.

Although there are taboos, but everything has a quantity of premise, there is nothing to do if you want to eat once in a while, and a good mood is the most important. From pregnancy to childbirth, you will truly realize what your family is like. It's still useful when you give birth to a baby.

Don't just listen to the old sayings of the elders in confinement, some of them are really unreliable.

One is that it is not easy to understand my mother, and it is better for my own mother; The second is that the mother-in-law is not the mother, even if you treat her well at the beginning, it will be in vain. The third is that the husband is partial to his mother, you have to let him see clearly that it is not easy for you, and don't compromise on everything.

Many people are unreliable, and the most reliable is only themselves. Those physical and psychological journeys can only be walked out step by step. When you come out, you will understand that in this life, you should love yourself the most.

It hurts to give birth to a child, it is hard to take care of a child, the whole process is alone with the child, there is no one to help, family conflicts, the husband's incomprehension, and a woman only knows what the person next to her pillow is like when she gives birth to a child once.

It's not easy to be a mother......So when outsiders give birth, you have to be clear about your choice, it's really not a matter of who you can count on when you are born....

What makes women old is not to give birth to children, but to stay up late every day to take care of children after giving birth, all kinds of worries, anxiety, and lack of sleep.

It is said that pregnancy is the queen of ten months, which is not false at all, because after giving birth to a baby, you will find that pregnancy is definitely the most relaxed and happy time.