How have you felt your state changed since having a baby?

Updated on parenting 2024-03-24
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Subjective factors and objective factors will cause all kinds of changes, and the more responsible the mother, the greater the change. But again, I'll still say that I do.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Put him first, and consider the baby's problems first in everything you do. Having a child is responsible, and you can no longer be as willful as before, do whatever you want (of course, you will never do anything illegal), and there are many changes in all aspects of mentality.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Generally, they are more patient with their families and less cowardly with outsiders. In short, it is to become a more independent and complete individual.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Before pregnancy, she didn't like to talk and was more introverted. After becoming pregnant, she became an extrovert who talked non-stop all day long, sometimes talking to herself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The biggest realization is that I can no longer play without worries, and seeing the news about children in the news is particularly worrying and emotional.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After giving birth to a child, everything thinks about the child, the topic is always the child, the heart is thinking about the child, and you can't be willful, you have to think twice before doing things.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The psychological change seems to be more family-oriented. A lot of things are about three people. Slowly friends and everything are ignored.,Well,Wood has friends! Only children in the family.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In the past, when I was driving, I would sometimes drive fast and fearless for the so-called sense of speed. Now driving, in addition to safety or safety, will be very afraid, afraid that even if it is only injured, he will not be able to sleep with the baby, he will be sad and will find his mother.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Love children more than love yourself, no matter how delicate you used to be, you can now watch your children while copying a spatula, everything used to be based on yourself, and now the first thing that comes to mind is the child.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The body has undergone great changes, all the indicators of the body are in a normal condition, and the body has begun to recover slowly, that is, the body has been out of shape.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The body has undergone great changes, and after giving birth, the body is out of shape, and then it will also lead to very thick legs, very thick arms, and a thicker waist, and often back pain.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    After giving birth, I felt that my physical fitness had decreased, and my resistance had also decreased, and after giving birth, I also felt that I was overweight and no longer looked good.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There have been particularly big changes, immunity has become lower and lower, physical fitness has become worse and worse, memory has become worse and worse, and the physical well-being is particularly serious.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There have been great changes in the body, after giving birth to the child, you will feel that the weight has decreased, the burden on the body is relatively small, and you feel very relaxed, but you also feel some pain, and you will feel **relaxation.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    After giving birth, the resistance is very weak, especially easy to catch a cold, afraid of cold, no matter how hard the small belly can not be thin, the body is particularly bloated, I feel very tired, my emotions are particularly easy to collapse, and the negative energy is bursting.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Women are weak, but mothers are strong! I really saw how difficult it is to be a mother! Honey, Great work! Welcome to the world!

    It's not easy to be a mother, I just want to have this one baby and take good care of him in this life.

    It's really not easy to be a mother. I have never had children at all, and although I invited my sister-in-law, I only slept for three or four hours at night. The confinement sister-in-law took a few days off, and she had no strength to get up at all, and she had to stand up at night to feed, change diapers, and coax the baby to sleep.

    But seeing the baby's sweet smile, I think it's all worth it.

    It's really amazing to give birth to a little life, and mom is really great. At night, there are a lot of words and feelings, I hope our babies will be healthy and happy to grow up, it is really not easy to be a mother, hey good night.

    My daughter has a fever again, although I am the one who should be isolated the most. But a sick child is always more clingy to his mother, and if I don't take care of her personally at night and feel her body temperature change, I don't feel at ease. After taking the medicine, she tossed and turned, and finally fell asleep, but I didn't sleep well because she was uncomfortable, and I had insomnia.

    Ay. It's not easy to be a mother, and it's a hundred times more careful than being a father! No matter how good a dad is, he can't compare.

    From the continuous retching at the beginning, to the feeling that I was going to vomit all day long, I was weak and unenergetic, to the persistent headache, and then I started to reflux acid water, and this morning I vomited bile, I feel that I have accounted for all the early pregnancy reactions. Now I really realize that being a mother is not easy.

    It's not easy to be a mother, and raising children knows the kindness of parents. I said, "I feel uncomfortable every day, like a lonely patient pulling on myself." My friend: It's not a pull, it's a stretch. I hope you grow up soon.

    Only when you have experienced it yourself will you understand how difficult it is to be a mother. Spit into my doubtful life Pour sour water in the stomach vigorously, shiitake mushrooms are uncomfortable, dizzy and dizzy, and the whole person is not good.

    The mothers are so hard, they can't eat anything in the past week, basically eat some vomit, and the stomach turns nausea, only uncomfortable. I have to vomit at night after vomiting during the day, and I really want to cry, and my husband is uncomfortable when he sees such an uncomfortable person, and he says to me: My wife has worked hard, persevere!

    It's really not easy to be a mother!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I know this very well, and after giving birth, I feel that I may be several years older, whether it is physically or mentally.

    Lack of nutrients in the body.

    I remember reading a famous **, saying that the bones of a woman who has been a mother are gray, and the bones of people who have not given birth to children are generally white. Because the mother gives the best nutrition to the child from the moment of conception of life, the mother's bones are light gray. Mothers are prone to anemia and calcium loss during pregnancy, especially when they give birth to a child to breastfeed, and they convert the nutrients in their bodies into milk and dedicate them to the child.

    Mothers are easily fatigued during breastfeeding, and their immunity is relatively low, so they need more nutritional supplements. After I gave birth, my doctor told me to eat more calcium-supplementing foods. Because the mother has been spending on calcium since she was pregnant, if you don't pay attention to supplementation, the bones will be light, brittle, and easy to fracture.

    Postpartum mothers must pay attention to the maintenance of the body, be kind to themselves, supplement the nutritional products in time, pay attention to the combination of meat and vegetables in food, and eat more fresh fruits and vegetables.

    If the postpartum mother is lacking in nutrition for a long time, she will appear weak and powerless, and the whole person will appear to be unenergetic and a little older. If the nutrition is comprehensive, there is no lack of this, there is no lack of that, and the wind under the feet of the walk gives people the feeling that they are very energetic, young and energetic.

    Economic pressures.

    Of course, the whole family is very happy to have a baby, but for some young people whose lives are not very stable, the economy returns to the pre-liberation period overnight. I used to go to work to earn money, but now that I have a baby, my mother can't go out to work, and she has to spend money. The cost of small babies is very large, and the financial pressure is relatively large.

    As soon as you open your eyes, you have to think about seeing the baby, and you have to think about how to make money. Too much worry will also accelerate the aging of the mother.

    It is normal to have a baby and have financial pressure, as a woman in the new era, you can see the baby, and you can also go to the hall to earn money. In the first few years of the baby's birth, it is mainly to take care of the baby, after all, this is a critical period for the baby's growth, and it needs the mother's careful companionship and care. In addition to watching the baby, learn new knowledge, supplement new skills, and provide a good economic environment for the baby.

    Life is stressful to be motivated, reduce worries, work hard, be an optimist, and be a role model for your baby. Don't be sad all day long, so that you can age quickly, the mother smiles every day, and maintains a good mental state, people will look young, and the baby will be happy every day.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It is said that giving birth to a child will damage the body, and after really experiencing it, you will find that the body is not as good as before, and you used to be in good health, but after giving birth, it is like crossing an age stage and becoming more fragile.

    After giving birth, the body's resistance will not be as good as before, and I will not feel very cold in winter before, but after giving birth, I will be very afraid of cold. At the same time, it is easy to get sick and catch a cold, and I used to not see the disease once a year, but after giving birth, I will easily catch a cold and my body will be very weak.

    Before giving birth, it seems that no matter how you eat, you won't gain weight, even if you get fat, it won't be too much, and the meat is relatively comparative. However, after giving birth, you will find that there is a pile of meat on the stomach, and there is a lot of meat in other places, which is occupied by various types of fat, and you have no self-confidence. After giving birth, people feel like an aunt, but it's really bloated, making me feel like a ball, and I can't look at myself like this many times.

    When I gave birth to a child, I found that no day was stable, and I felt that every day was very tired, and I often made myself weak. Many times my spirit is in a trance, making me feel that I have a child, and I feel very distracted, so that I will not have my own life, let alone my own space, and my spirit is in a state of dissociation at any time.

    After giving birth, the body will be very different from the original self, and you will become very different. Giving birth to a child really requires a lot of damage for a woman, making people feel that having a child requires a lot of sacrifice, and the greatness of maternal love is this. I believe that if I let myself choose again, I will still stick to my choice and look forward to the arrival of my child, even if my current self is not as exquisite as the original.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    After giving birth, the first big change in my body is that I am fatter than before, and my belly is much bigger.

    For women, the most common change after giving birth is that the body is out of shape. When I was pregnant, I felt that weight gain was normal, as long as I gave birth, but I didn't expect that after giving birth, my body was still not good. <>

    After giving birth, the second big change in the body is that it is easy to lose hair.

    Every time I wash my hair, I lose a lot of hair, especially when the little ones are seven or eight months old. Many old people will say that this is the task of children, but in my opinion, there is no scientific basis for this statement. <>

    The third change is that the immunity is relatively low, and it is easy to get sick.

    Before pregnancy, the physical fitness was relatively good, and it was not easy to catch a cold, but after giving birth, it was easy to get sick and be easily infected. It may be the reason why taking care of the child is too hard, so the waist will always hurt, and taking care of the child day and night, as long as the child is in need, it must be dealt with immediately, it is really hard.

    The fourth change is that it is very easy to get tired, as if you need to take a break to do some work.

    In the past, when I was dealing with housework and cleaning, I didn't feel tired after working for a few hours. But after giving birth, you must rest for an hour of housework, otherwise your body will not be able to bear it.

    In addition to the physical changes, it seems that after giving birth, I am very impatient and prone to tantrums.

    I don't think it's a big deal, but I'm just very irritable, and it seems like it's just a little bit. It seems to have become more vulnerable, and it is sad to have a little grievance. <>

    I have to say that Bao's mother is really hard, because she has to take care of the child, there is no way to continue to shine at work, so she can only revolve around the child at home. So it's normal to be under more stress both mentally and physically, and to break down easily. For Bao Ma, it is necessary to regulate her mood, and don't think too much about some unimportant things, so that she can recover her best state.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The most noticeable change is that I have gained weight, and my belly is more prone to fat gain than it was before I had a baby. The lumbar spine is also more susceptible to soreness than before.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I feel that my resistance has deteriorated, I have become afraid of cold, my mental state is not as good as before, I have lost collagen, I will often have back pain, and I feel a lot of fatigue.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Most women will cause temporary obesity and temporary weakness after giving birth to a baby, so we must pay attention to postpartum maintenance, rest more at the beginning, wait until the body gradually strengthens, exercise more, don't stay up late often, and the child can let the family help take more.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    After giving birth, your belly has gone through the process of changing from small to large and then smaller, and it will not be a goose without a trace. The belly will be loose, and some mothers will have stretch marks on the belly like a zebra.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    On the body, it will feel very relaxed, but there will also be some painful sensations, you will feel the uterus contracting, there will be obvious bleeding, and you will feel that the burden on the stomach is not so big.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    During pregnancy, estrogen in a woman's body is more vigorous, and after giving birth, estrogen decreases suddenly, so hair that normally needs to fall out will start to fall out 2 to 7 months after giving birth, and sometimes more hair will fall out than it grows.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Not only did I become haggard, but my body also lost shape very quickly after childbirth, and in some places I couldn't even fully return to my previous appearance.

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