My boyfriend minds that my first kiss was given to my ex boyfriend and I want to break up.

It shows that he is psychologically immature. It's useless to redeem it now, since it has happened, if we plead hard, it will only put our position at a greater disadvantage, it is better to push the boat down the river and agree to his will. Tell him that if you really think so, I can't help it.

I think if he really loves you, then he will come to you again. Maybe he doesn't love you anymore, it's just an excuse. Accept it with a normal attitude.

If I'm not mistaken, you should be very young, hehe, mature men will not abandon their women because of this. ）

Be good to him, in fact, you shouldn't let him know that your first kiss was given to someone else, this will make your value greatly depreciated in his heart, you should lie to him that you are in love for the first time, a woman's first time is very precious, don't give it to someone else, any man likes a pure girl.

I don't think it's true love, and the real love is to embrace everything you have, not to care about what you used to do.

This proves that he doesn't really love you! I suggest you ignore him and let him wake up and wake up to what he loves about you?? If he loves you, he will definitely come back to you.

He is too naïve, if his so-called love is not as good as your first kiss, then what qualifications does he have to say that he loves you.

Others are right, the first kiss is really important is fake, you should change your opinion, if you care too much about this, you will live a very tired life in the future.

In fact, the first kiss is not as important as you think, so mysterious, foreigners take kissing as a way of politeness, only Chinese put kissing, looking at a sign of love, you don't want to be obsessed with this matter.

If you like someone, try to take a few steps towards her. But if she sees you coming, she never wants to greet you. Then you stop and stop trying to get close to her and impress her.

Many things can be achieved by struggle, but love cannot. Love depends on two people attracting each other, not one person's efforts.

You have to ask your heart this question, and I am also very concerned about this! Disgusted! But in reality, there are some things that can't be done both ways! If you really can't let go then don't care, I'm still lucky to have my first girlfriend and now it's my daughter-in-law, and he gave me everything,

Hello! Girl, your boyfriend's first kiss was given to his ex-girlfriend before he didn't know you, don't care too much, as long as he is now wholeheartedly good to you, puts you in the most important position and truly loves you, just get along with him, who doesn't have a first love! Let the past pass, don't think about it.

Live your present and look forward to your future. I wish you all happiness!

Now don't talk about the first kiss, it's cohabitation, pregnancy abounds, what is this! Just think about it and know that the first kiss will not affect anything if it is missing! And you won't know about this kind of thing if your boyfriend doesn't tell you, so it's good to find a boyfriend who is honest with you!

It's good to be together if you can't do without him, but you have to learn to respect him, give him a certain amount of freedom and space, and don't care too much. Another thing you have to learn to be independent, learn more and improve your quality, work hard, and let him do without you, so that you can be together for a long time. Good luck.

It's good to be together if you can't do without him, but you have to learn to respect him, give him a certain amount of freedom and space, and don't care too much. The other thing is that you have to learn to be independent, learn more and improve your own quality.

Don't dwell on it so much, as long as the other party is serious about you and can be together until you grow old, it's enough, if you leave him, then isn't your first kiss also given to your ex-boyfriend.

Hello, if you are a student, study hard, don't think so much, his world is just that you came too late, just a kiss, and all of him will be yours in the future.

I don't think you knew you when two people met and fell in love, so if your boyfriend didn't tell you that the first kiss was given to his ex-girlfriend, you wouldn't know. So don't care too much about the first kiss, as long as he cares about you.

Your boyfriend's first kiss was given to your ex-girlfriend, you care about it, if that's the case, then there's no need to be together, everyone has a past, if one person always cares about the other's past, it won't come together.

I think that to love someone is to love everything about him, in fact, sometimes I don't think I need to care so much, as long as you are with her now, he loves you well and you are the dearest.

What is this, it's all fur, don't care about these, I can get along with you well, I like you well, just kiss for the first time, the men and women who live together can't live.

As a student, you have to focus on your studies, and if you think about it all day long, you will be empty-handed. If you are abandoned by your boyfriend at that time, how will you see your parents?

The past is in the past, cherish the present, and don't be affected by the past.

In fact, this is not so important, the relationship between two people is to look to the future, not to recall the past.

My boyfriend's first kiss couldn't have been given to my ex-girlfriend, our first kiss was given to our parents.

If you really care that much, find someone who hasn't had a girlfriend.

Actually, this thing is not very important, but it is just a kiss.

Summary. The main thing is your current relationship with him, he and his ex are already in the past, there is no need to hold on to it, this will only affect your current relationship with him.

Does the first kiss really matter? My boyfriend's first kiss was given to my ex-girlfriend and I was concerned about it, I hadn't been in class for a week or two.

The main thing is your current relationship with him, he and his ex are already in the past, there is no need to hold on to it, this will only affect your current relationship with him.

Neither of us was happy when it came to this kind of annoyance.

Which person's mouth metabolizes every day and obscures old keratin, which says that every day is the first kiss.

I personally don't think it's really useful to care about this kind of thing.

I also have a boyfriend, and I'm not my boyfriend's first love, so my sister really doesn't have to care so much about the first kiss.

I don't want to care so much about <>

Then your boyfriend's first kiss wasn't you<>

This really doesn't matter.,My boyfriend's first kiss wasn't mine.,I don't care.,What I like is that he's a person now, who cares about what he did in the past.,It's already in the past and can't be changed.。

Also. I consulted five people and none of them spoke to my heart, and you were really the only one who said it.

How many people on this side are just to make money, there won't be many good problems at all.

Thank you! I'll look for you again if you have any questions in the future.

Sister, you just talk to your boyfriend and it's over, there's really no need to be angry and unhappy for days because the first kiss wasn't given to you.

Okay, have a great day.

When I was 0 years old, my first boyfriend wanted to break up with me, but he was too shy to open up, so he started to avoid me. In the end, I watched him in so much pain that I gritted my teeth and proposed to break up with him. After proposing to break up, he turned around and left.

I really couldn't control it at all, and I started crying where he couldn't see. Hey, I used to want to go with him for the rest of my life. In the end, I was reluctant to make him sad, so I had to make myself sad.

I'm 22 years old and I've been here for 2 years. The first year and a half were repeatedly entangled, and after knowing that he had a girl he liked at the end of last year, he gave up completely. Now I have a lot of fun every day.

My friends around me are angry about me, but I feel that the past is gone, and there is nothing to complain about. It can only be said that the first love is still young, and you want to work hard to manage a relationship, but no matter what you do, it may still not end well. And as your first boyfriend said, a boy at this age really doesn't realize his responsibility yet, and he doesn't realize how much damage his whim and abrupt end can cause to girls.

A boy's instincts are sometimes very sensitive, especially when he realizes that he doesn't love you. When he says it, it means that he knows his inner thoughts very well. It's just that he's afraid of hurting you, so he chooses a more euphemistic statement, like what your boyfriend said.

But girls must not think that saying this means that he still has nostalgia.

I don't know what kind of mind you are so much? Even if your boyfriend doesn't mention them, do you think about them from time to time? If every time you see your boyfriend, you think of his first love and ex, then I think it's your own problem, and it has nothing to do with your boyfriend.

No one can only fall in love once in their life. So you have to look for the reason within yourself. Maybe you have low self-esteem, feel that you are not worthy of your boyfriend, and in all aspects, you are not as good as his ex and first love.

Invisibly add unnecessary pressure to yourself. There is no way, this situation can only be overcome by yourself. Tell yourself that they are all passing by the eyes, and there is no pressure on you anymore, and at the same time, work hard to improve yourself and make yourself excellent, only in this way can you relieve the lack of confidence in your heart.

Could it be that your boyfriend keeps mentioning them in front of you or constantly compares you to them? If that's the case, you might as well talk to your boyfriend directly and tell him:

Now you and I are in love, not with them, so you don't always have to compare me with them, if you still have them in your heart, then you can go to them again, otherwise, in front of me, don't mention them again. I am me, not a substitute for them, and you can't ask me to be the same as them, I can't do well, or if I do something wrong, you can tell me directly, it's my problem and I will correct it. If you always talk about them when it's okay, don't blame me for making a choice that you will regret."

Through the above paragraph, if he still unrepentantly continues to mention them in front of you, then there is no need for you to talk to him anymore, don't forget, you are very mindful of this, even if your boyfriend does not understand you so much, do you think it is necessary to continue talking?

Then I really don't know what you care about, everyone has a past, do you dare to say that you don't have any past, you are together now, the important thing is what your future is, don't mention the past again, there is no benefit to you or the relationship between you, in my opinion, this is what it looks like.

Be a smart woman and know what kind of things to do and when. Now your boyfriend hasn't done anything to be sorry for you, then you should get along with your boyfriend well, only in this way can you be worthy of the fate between you. Also, everyone has their own ex, but an ex is really not something you should remember all the time.

Because those things are really just your boyfriend's past, only knowing that your boyfriend's present and future are in your hands, these so-called chips are enough for you now. A wise person will not always dwell on the past of others. Everything in the past will gradually fade into oblivion with the passage of time.

All you should do is forget all about your boyfriend's previous things. As long as you think that the current pattern of your relationship with your boyfriend is happy, it is enough. Also, since you have chosen to be each other's other half, you have to be responsible for each other.

You should be respectful enough of any choice your boyfriend makes.

Even if your boyfriend is now in a relationship with his former lover, you should forget about it, because these things really don't mean anything to you anymore. Anyway, if you look at it from another angle, I'm you, I don't care about the previous things that belonged to my boyfriend, the previous rights and wrongs really don't matter anymore, the important thing is that you're by his side now, it's enough.

The two things that girls can't bear for their boyfriends the most, one is a game, and the other is their first love and ex-girlfriend. There is no girl who really doesn't have her boyfriend's first love and ex, and even if she can accept it, she can't do it completely unminding. If you really mind your boyfriend's first love and ex, I think you need to have a deep chat with your boyfriend.

Normally, you say that you have broken up, why do you mind so much, you definitely don't mind a woman who has nothing to do with her boyfriend anymore, at most you just mind that they used to be in the past, but who didn't have a past. If you mind your boyfriend's first love or ex, it must be because your boyfriend often compares you, or your boyfriend often mentions them inadvertently, or they appear in your boyfriend's chat history but you find out so coincidentally. That's why you mind, and you have a sense of crisis.

At this time, you should be honest with your boyfriend that you will mind him contacting his ex-girlfriends, especially his first love. I believe that if it is a man who really loves you, he will definitely assure you that he will not contact them again, and even if he does, he will tell you the truth and let you know. You might be able to believe such a boy.

But you can't be sure, if you love him, you will believe in him, who will make you love him.

If you're honest with your boyfriend and he questions why you peeked into his chat history, the guy can break up. Divide early and be good early, and the scourge of the province will harm your future life, and you will not be responsible at all. It's clear that he contacted his ex-girlfriend behind your back, but he also questioned you about whether you believed him.

So, if it's my boyfriend, it's best not to contact the ex, especially the first love, which is toxic. If there is contact, yes, must let me know.