What should I do if my life is so desperate, I suddenly feel that my life is so desperate, work, lif

Hello, friend.

Seeing your question reminds me of my freshman year of high school. When I was a freshman in high school, I had very few friends, and I sometimes thought that some of my classmates were "hostile" to me. But in the end, I figured out how people treat me and me as someone else's business.

Later, when I was divided into classes, I met people who liked games, and they were all my friends later.

Actually, people don't need too many friends. It is enough to have a few people who can communicate with each other, but those few you have to face them sincerely, without the slightest falsehood.

If you want to have a lot of friends, you can actively participate in the activities, a friend of mine is from the student union, when we first came to the school, we were all the same, I didn't know a few people, but he participated in the student union, and now at least the people in the student union have a good relationship with him.

Also, I don't think there's anything wrong with being alone so that you can have more time to do what you want. Sometimes loneliness isn't because you don't have friends, it's because you don't have things to do. You can look for something you love and do it well.

I prefer two-dimensional.,You can also chase and play games like me (preferably cooperative.,The kind of open mic),You can also do something meaningful and want to read and learn (ah headache).

Finally, I recommend that you take a look at the pit king Jiangnan's "Dragon Family", the protagonist is a lonely teenager (you will feel the same way!! I figured out a lot of things after reading it, and I made a lot of friends because of this book).

Finally, don't do anything stupid, it's not good for anyone, including yourself.

Hope it works for you (folded hands).

Readers from the Pit King.

The first point is to learn to be satisfied. As the saying goes, those who are content are always happy, the truth is very simple, and you will definitely have a certain harvest and pay in life. If you tend to be in a negative attitude and complain that you are getting too little, then you will always live in a negative mood of discontentment.

You must learn to think differently, because there are many people in this world who are less than the jujube Qixiao you have.

The second point is to learn not to care. There are many people who feel that life is very hard because they care too much about other people's eyes and opinions, but life is obviously their own, only if they live well, no matter what others say, as long as you are satisfied, if you live in the eyes of others, you can only be yourself.

Third, we must learn to face difficulties positively. A person's life cannot always be smooth and smooth, and it is inevitable that they will encounter difficulties. You can't be trapped by a difficulty, you should think from a different angle, sometimes difficulties are another opportunity, as long as you grasp it, you can turn a crisis into an opportunity.

A person's life is actually very simple, that is, because there are difficulties and challenges, there are successes and joys, and it is such complex emotions that can constitute a complete person, a complete life. Life is still mainly in our own hands, and we all have to be the masters of life rather than being dominated by life.

The reason why you have such negative thoughts is that you have encountered certain setbacks and difficulties in life, work and love at the same time, although the vast majority of people will feel very confused and helpless when they encounter problems like yours, but no matter what, as an adult, you should still try your best to make yourself strong and mature, some of these setbacks and difficulties we must dare to face and find the right way to solve the problem, At the same time, we should regard these setbacks and difficulties as a kind of test and challenge to ourselves, only in this way can we make ourselves stronger, and only then can we truly envy ourselves.

Learn to face difficulties positively. A person's life is not based and may be smooth and smooth, and it is inevitable that they will encounter difficulties. You can't be trapped by a difficulty in Zen Fengqi, you should think from a different angle, and sometimes difficulties are another opportunity for Hecha.

Learn not to care. There are many people who feel that life is very hard, and the reason why they think it is because they care too much about other people's eyes and opinions, but life is obviously their own.