Someone asks you, Don t you have no money for the New Year? How do you feel?

I felt like crying.

The salary was paid on the 17th, and after the mortgage was deducted, there was only more than 1,000 yuan left. Looking at the balance in my card, my friend repeatedly asked, "Then don't you have no money for the New Year?"

Suddenly, tears rained down my eyes.

Because no one in this world has ever cared about this issue except my brother and my third sister. What's more, I've been here for 21 years, and only last year had the most money on my hands.

I remember that every year when the Chinese New Year is approaching, my brother will always ask me again and again: "Aqing, do you have money for the New Year?" Did you buy Aqing's New Year's goods? Do you want me to send you some money for the Chinese New Year? “

Every time I asked, I was sad because I had no money almost every time, but I didn't dare to tell my brother, and I always told him: "There is money, there is money, and the school will give out the money in a few days." I'll tell you when I run out of money. “

But for so many years, I have never told my brother that I don't have the money to celebrate the New Year.

Since 2010, when the third sister knew that the express delivery was so convenient, so fast, and not expensive, she always sent me all kinds of seafood before the year.

And as long as the third sister sends seafood, the elder brother always has to send a copy.

Therefore, since 2010, every year during the Chinese New Year, the refrigerator is filled with all kinds of seafood and all kinds of New Year's goods from my brother and third sister.

Unfortunately, at the beginning of 2017, my brother left, and there was one less person in the world who asked me, "Do you have money for the New Year?" "Person.

At the end of 2017, I even waited for my brother's **, waiting for my brother to ask me, "Do you have money for the New Year?" It was almost Chinese New Year's Eve that I "suddenly realized": it turned out that my brother had been gone for almost a year, and I still can't accept this fact.

Therefore, when I heard the familiar phrase "Then you don't have no money for the New Year" from other people's mouths again, I missed my brother very, very much, and at the same time, I was also glad that from now on, there will be one more person in this world who cares about whether I have money for the New Year!

I've been asked, but only last year. I felt like crying. The person who asked me was my aunt, and her worries, love, and even self-blame were vividly reflected in that sentence.

On the eve of the Spring Festival last year, it happened that something happened to my younger brother, and he took out hundreds of thousands at once. At that time, there was a lot of pressure, on the one hand, knowing that the money was going and not coming back, but I was not ashamed of my parents, and my younger brother was always a family no matter how angry he was. On the other hand, I feel that it is not very easy to explain to my husband, he is the main force of the family to earn money, but it is not the money that falls from the wind, and it is also saved month by month, and I will inevitably feel guilty.

Parents are always partial to their sons, especially when they are older. I can understand it, and I don't care, but it's sad that they don't seem to think about half a cent for me, how will my brother pay back the money after I get it back, and if there are any plans, they haven't been put on the table to talk. And the question they didn't expect, the little aunt thought for me.

When I was a child, my aunt said that I was kind-hearted and soft-hearted, and sure enough, she felt the most sorry for me, for fear that I would be wronged in my own small family because of this incident, and I also knew that I was not a rich and noble person, what should I do if I took the empty money for the New Year?

Now that more than a year has passed, my husband is also considerate and preset to be ready to play in the water, of course, the preset is basically true, and I no longer let that matter bother me, after all, there is still a long opportunity to make money. But thinking of my aunt's ** at that time, it was very much like a person on an isolated island who was handed a bottle, maybe there was no water, but the kindness he got was enough to ease people's emotions. I hope that this will not be asked again.

I'll feel tired, but even if I don't have any money, I'm going to have a New Year.

immediately dismissed: If you have money and no money, you can't celebrate the New Year if you don't have money.

"Do you have the money to celebrate the New Year? It's just that this one question made you cry, and I have another "Do you have a girlfriend"? It's hardest to be a man! I wish you a fortune.

I think most of today's young people belong to the latter. It is indeed a very happy thing to be able to go home for the Chinese New Year and be able to reunite with my family. But when I think of my situation and the things that I may be forced to ask, I feel that the Chinese New Year is like preparing to go home to "fight", and there are many hurdles waiting for me to "pass".

For example, if you are a marriageable young person, then the first problem that you can't escape from is that you are forced to marry. This is a problem that almost every young person has to encounter now, and those who already have an object are better, if there is no object, then all kinds of blind dates are arranged, and going home is in a state of "forced business".

If you already have a partner, don't be too happy, because everyone will urge you to take it home. If the subject can satisfy the family, then you are lucky. If the partner is not able to satisfy the family, it may force you to break up, and then arrange all kinds of blind dates for you.

Only you know the suffering.

The next step with a partner is to force marriage, whether you are ready or not, whether you have premarital phobia or not, anyway, it is all kinds of urging you to get married. Otherwise, the charge of unfilial piety will be deducted, and no one will be able to escape!

If you are married, of course, you are urging you to have children. If you have already given birth to one child, urge you to have a second child. Anyway, there will always be levels waiting for you to pass. Don't think that if you give birth to your second child, this year will be better. This life of the old and the young is not so easy.

Chinese New Year is a time for reunion, but it is also a time to spend money. Big and small things in the family, all kinds of happy events, every one of them costs money.

The Chinese New Year is to force you to face the fact that you have "no money", everyone thinks that you have made hundreds of millions of dollars outside, but only you have a negative number on your ** card. Even this year is a set of credit card money to "live"!

With the progress of the times and the advancement of poverty alleviation policies, the number of poor households is slowly decreasing, and there are generally fewer and fewer people who have no money, and most of them are celebrating the New Year rather than passing the customs. So I'm also a rich man for the New Year.

I'm the latter, and I'm the kind of person who doesn't have money for the New Year, but I'll work harder to make money.

Neither of these situations belongs to me, the rich will be more lively during the New Year, there is everything, you can play how you want, and the rich person has to spend money for the New Year, so it is particularly difficult for him to pass the test.

I'm the kind of person who has no money to pass the customs, and when I have the New Year, I have to go home to accept my parents if I don't have money"Dislike", but no matter how poor I am, they won't dislike me for not being am. So I don't have the money to get through it, and I'm also at home now to prepare for the New Year.

It's all like this, I'm not like this, I went home and asked my relatives, how much money do I make this year, do you want to talk about girlfriends, you want to say that you don't make money, and your relatives said that you didn't make any money and went out, why don't you go to Huan It's better to play at home, I also have a headache! I'm thinking that Lao Tzu drove a BMW with a beautiful woman that year, and the banknotes are big, and you dare to say that Lao Tzu is not!

Today's society and the minds of most lay people are stuck in looking at money, ignore them, thirty years in Hedong and thirty years in Hexi, when you are developed one day, they will come to you, and it makes sense for you to fart at that time.

It's very realistic, children can't do it without money, and neither can parents!

The truth is spoken: development is the last word.

Maybe these people feel that their home is impersonal, so they don't want to go home for the New Year, or they may feel that they can't go home for the New Year, and they can see their parents at any time anyway.

Because he has no money for the New Year, he is afraid of embarrassing his parents, and he may also be afraid of relatives and friends asking questions, afraid that they will worry about his marriage!

Maybe it's because there is no money, because no one really wants to go home, how can they get back if they don't have money? I don't have money to buy New Year's goods, but it's actually quite embarrassing, so I don't want to go home.

When I went home for the New Year, my family hoped that I would get better and better, but after a year, I didn't have any gains, and I felt shameless and didn't want to see relatives and friends.

I think it depends on their own wishes, maybe they feel that they are not free to go home, they are too idle at home, and so on.

Because they haven't done a good job out there, or they just have people or things they hate at home.

Because young people who work outside the home will always be reminded of their marriage events by their parents after returning home for the New Year, maybe they are bored.

Maybe there are no relatives at home, maybe the smell of the New Year is not very strong, and the personal sense of belonging to the family is not strong.

Some people are afraid that they will lose face to their parents if they don't have the money to go back. But you never thought that your parents were also looking forward to your return?

It must be because his family and relatives always ask him all kinds of questions, when you are a child, you will ask how your grades are, and when you grow up, they will ask you what kind of job you have and what your salary is.

Hello, you said that you were not happy about the New Year, so is it like this every year or in recent years, and besides, the other people around you are not happy either.

If it's just that you're unhappy, you can compare what was missing when you were happy in previous years, whether it was a material deficiency or a spiritual degeneration.

There is a saying that things are not people.

As for not being happy if you don't have money, I don't think so, you think so, people who don't have money will be happy when they get married and have children, and people with money will be sad when they get old, sick and die, and people with money will also have to worry about expenses to run around for life, and people with money have to manage their finances to prevent being plotted by bad guys.

Actually, everyone has their own troubles, but people have a tendency to envy, envy, and hate, which is normal, in fact, many people are not unhappy because they don't have money, but because others are richer than themselves, which is really a bit sad.

What the Chinese are short of now is of course money is also lacking, there are a lot of poor people, the middle class is starting to decline, there are only a few rich people left, and this structure is very problematic, and if everyone gets rich, of course it is excellent.

And in addition to the lack of money, the Chinese also lack faith, so the Chinese are like scattered sand, have no cohesion, go their own way, and fly separately in the face of great difficulties.

Others, such as quality cultivation, can only be said to have improved slowly.

It's easy for a person to find himself uncomfortable, anything can be used to be unhappy, but it's not easy for a person to see what he has, always see what others have and what he doesn't have, ignore what he has, naturally can't be happy, no one knows who has more than whom, who deserves to be happier, but to be happy, to know how to be content, to know how to be grateful, to know how to be relieved.

Very heavy topic. Most Chinese lack a moral bottom line and lack faith.

Think about what you're missing? Why is it missing? People with good logic will slowly always come back to the question: what did this ** do for me, and why did I want such a **.

"There is money but no money to copy back.

The "New Year" attack is the truest portrayal, the old man is at home for the New Year, the only expectation is that the children and grandchildren are full, shush the cold and ask for warmth, this is happiness. Whether you have money or not, it is also happy and happy for the whole family to gather together; For young people, there is no money and no face for the New Year, and relatives and friends have no confidence to gather together, which hinders them and cannot play; For middle-aged people, life is stable, money is available, face is enough, and there are many entertainments, and it is rare for the whole family to get together, and the only thing is to hope that the whole family can get together during the New Year to reminisce about the old days, talk about their hearts, and talk about politics, economy and development. In fact, the most simple thing is the expectation of the elderly.

This is a very traditional word copying question, and the main content is:

Raid "go home" and "celebrate the New Year". The year is the oldest and most traditional festival in our country, and it is a day for the whole family to celebrate, summarize and plan. Home is your own safe haven, where you can release to your heart's content, no longer have to pretend, report your experience of the past year to your family, share happiness and taste suffering; For a year, you have compensated for the debts owed to the family.

Therefore, having money or not having money is a secondary matter.

Asking you if you have money, whether you have a car, whether you have a house, these are normal, after all, the blind date is for marriage, and the material determines the starting point of married life, but you don't, she laughs, there is some impoliteness, after all, not having it now does not mean that it will not be in the future, and if she cares a lot, you can ask clearly before meeting.

No, it depends on what kind of smile she laughs, whether it is a mocking smile or a relieved smile.

2008 is about to pass, so fast, a year of time just slipped away quietly, I really don't know what I did in this year, I'm going to savor it, how do you describe my 2018?

In 2018, it can be said that I bought the first car in my life relatively full, although there were scratches in the process of driving, but overall I felt good, and there was no great improvement in salary and salary, but I was able to save a little money compared to the past, and the number in the bank card continued to rise, which made me more gratified.

I must go home for the New Year this year, I haven't been home to spend the New Year with my parents for several years, chatting with my parents, visiting relatives and friends with my parents, although 2018 is not a very fulfilling year, but overall I feel good, I believe that in 2019 I will be better.