As a veritable post 90s single, how do you feel about the new year?

I am single in 99 years and want to study harder in the new year, after all, there is no object, so study hard to enrich yourself.

Continue to be single, what do you want, you have to believe that you will meet the right person if you are not abundant.

The new year should have a new beginning, the regrets left by the past year should be realized, and you can try to get rid of the single to find a boyfriend and bring your own new experience.

The biggest feeling is that I feel that I am getting older and older, and it is time to save some money to marry a daughter-in-law.

As a married post-90s, but no marriage certificate, then when I am still single, I hope to choose a good direction of hard work in the new year, find a good job, and also hope to have time to accompany my son after work, and then there is a promise to my girlfriend to go on a trip after weaning, just such a simple year.

There are many thoughts for the new year, get rid of the list early, become a responsible and responsible person as soon as possible, and don't let your parents worry about it. In the new year, new phenomena, be the best version of yourself, and strive to set out towards your goals.

The post-90s generation said that they no longer want to get rid of being single, and now they just want to get rich and become beautiful. What could be better than someone who came with him? Single or something, non-existent, haven't gotten rid of singleness for so long, and now there is no hope for love.

Of course, I hope that I can find a favorite object, and I can make myself very happy and happy with him for the rest of my life.

In the new year, you may want to get married, have a wife, have children, etc., but first you have to be yourself, because you have to be good enough to be able to have these things that you want.

I just want to get rich, I don't want to talk about bullshit love, I just want to make money and make money, only when I make money, can I have enough energy to find a girlfriend.

I feel that it is time to find a partner seriously, I should be full of expectations on the road of love, and then work hard, improve myself, and cultivate some hobbies.

I hope I can be happier and better! Take off the single! People will always meet their own person. Don't miss your chance.

In the new year, I hope that I will live better and better, get rid of the status quo of being single, be happy every day, be happy, eat well and sleep well.

If even you lack praise for yourself, it will be more difficult for men to find your strengths. Once you learn to love yourself, it will be easier to accept the love that others give you. One of the things that prevents you from finding a boyfriend is actually your own thoughts.

Be confident! Remember that you deserve to be happy. Some people in the process of seeking love, in fact, do not know what they want, once in love they let their feelings run rampant, irresponsible, casual attitude.

After a long time, I realized that I had been spinning around in the same place, and I couldn't find the right person. Lack of self-confidence, I don't believe in myself, I don't know how to love myself, in fact, people who feel good about themselves are often very confident people, from his words and demeanors can be felt, such people are often easy to attract the attention of others, can also get the praise of others, and naturally can also attract the opposite sex. Therefore, you lack self-confidence, and you usually praise yourself in the mirror and believe that you are also excellent.

Shut the doorHow can you meet your soulmate if you've never left your room? You need to get out there, although it sounds scary. Don't hide in the house and don't keep your lips closed.

In order to connect with others, you need to communicate. Expect too much, your ideal object may be handsome, charming, glamorous, rich and stylish, or it may be beautiful, delicate and considerate......But, wake up, you're looking for a mortal and not a godlike idol! Everyone has shortcomings, not to mention that God is fair to people, giving you a good face may not give you a lot of wealth, and giving you the ability may not give you a fine water and tenderness.

Find out what is most important, and the others can be appropriately discarded, and then slowly run in and transform in future interactions.

The reasons why the post-90s generation is single so far are as follows:

1. The nature of the work.

Nowadays, many post-90s generations engaged in the IT industry, the vast majority of them are boys, spending every day on the Internet and facing the computer, it is conceivable that they have no time and opportunity to contact girls. We all know that the IT industry usually works late into the night and may even work overtime until dawn. Although they are both highly educated and have high salaries, they have to face the reality of not being able to find a girlfriend, which is why they are still single despite being excellent.

2. Striving for the ideal.

Now many post-90s ideas are very realistic, they all have their own goals, and they are unwilling to talk about feelings before they achieve their goals. They know that love without bread is unreliable, which causes most of the post-90s generation to focus all their attention on employment and promotion, believing that with bread, they will naturally have sweet love and a stable marriage. Therefore, the current marriage problem is put on hold for the time being.

3. Introverted personality leads.

In fact, many post-90s boys are single because of their introverted personality, and introverts are not good at expressing themselves, let alone dating girls, and they will blush when they talk to girls. Seeing that the opposite sex doesn't dare to look at each other, when talking will be nervous and stammering, so how to communicate with each other, without normal communication, let alone establish feelings, how can you get the favor of the other party? If you don't change your personality, no girl will like to have a relationship with a piece of wood, and if two people don't have a common language, how can they love?

Love is between you and me, you and me, and a happy family is built on sweet love. Therefore, if you want to get rid of singles, you must change yourself, strive to adapt to the needs of society, communicate with women normally, and believe that the situation will be greatly improved.

4. Rather lack than excess.

The current divorce rate is too high, and many post-90s people have seen too much of the separation and integration of couples, so their views on love have also changed fundamentally. Before I met the right person, I would rather be single than fall in love, and I was afraid of a hasty divorce after a hasty marriage, what a tragic thing it was. Marriage is to pay attention to the word fate, and before fate arrives before you meet your favorite object, of course, it is better to be lacking than overuse than to be forced to make do, so it has always been single.

5. The vision is too high and the opportunity is missed.

Some people born in the 90s are too good because of their own conditions and excellent ability, so their vision is too high, their eyes are empty, they are not pleasing to the eye, they are not interested in looking at that, and after a long time, no one is willing to help introduce them, so they delay the time, and they will become older men and women in a flash. It's not so easy to fall in love again when you're older, and now it's the turn of others to pick on yourself, either because you're old, or because you don't think you'll pity the jade, so you can't do it, so if you don't meet a suitable one, you have to be single.

These five situations are the reasons why the post-90s people are still single, I hope you can find the root cause of your singleness, get rid of your bad habits, and bravely pursue the happiness you want. Come on, the post-90s generation who are still single.

Nowadays, our country has made great efforts in terms of childbirth, whether it is the reality around us or the figures issued by our country, which shows that the marriage rate of young people is getting lower and lower, and the divorce rate.

However, it is generally increasing, including that many young people are not only reluctant to enter into marriage, but even enter into married life.

Later,I will also face the matter of not having children. And the younger the person, the more important they are about marriage, and they are not willing to wronged themselves or others.

Independence makes the post-90s.

More and more singles can be said to be born in the rising period of our country's development, and it is also the period of the fastest rise, so that the post-90s have seen the rapid development of China's national strength and the leading position in the world, and most of the post-90s are only children, so they have been very independent since childhood, and in such a situation, there is no need for someone to accompany them in life. Because he has his own independent life, independent consciousness, including independent thoughts, he will not be swayed by feelings. If two people get along well, they can consider marriage, but if there are some contradictions, they are not willing to enter into married life, so there are more and more singles after 90.

The family environment makes the post-90s generation more and more single, in addition to the independent personality from childhood to adulthood.

and independent thinking, and then in addition to more and more singles after the 90s, the family environment also makes the post-90s single more and more. The vast majority of parents born in the 90s are blind dates, or arranged marriages by their parents, and growing up in such a family environment, they have more or less seen that they come from the accommodation between parents and the inability to tolerate, including the unhappiness in marriage. So say subconscious.

told himself that he didn't want to get into the misfortune of this marriageBecause this involves not only two people, but also makes the child very painful, so in such a family environment, the post-90s generation has the idea of not compromising, which also makes the post-90s more and more single.

The ability to support oneself In fact, for the post-90s, whether it is a boy or a girl, they have their own ability and enough hard work, so they have the ability to support themselveswill not rely on anyone in terms of life and money, which also makes the post-90s generation more and more single.

Sometimes for the post-90s, being single is not a kind of loneliness, but it will make your life very easy, and you don't have to be wronged to tolerate each otherIt also makes your life more casual and free, you can enjoy the freedom in life to the fullest, and you are not bound by any relationship.

Because the post-90s generation is very independent, just want to develop their own careers, and especially enjoy the single life, there are more and more singles.

The single young people born in the 90s, they are under more and more pressure, and they have never found the right person, so they would rather be single all the time.

It is because the post-90s generation is becoming more and more self-reliant and does not need to rely on each other to be responsible for their own lives, so there are more and more single people.

We born in the 90s are not married yet, and a large part of the reason is because we have a higher vision and higher requirements for the other half. Our living conditions are getting better and better, so our material needs are getting bigger and bigger, but we don't have so much time to find our other half, so we are now more and more single. When we choose the other half, we will not choose some divorced people, because we all feel that divorced people may have some shadows in their hearts, and they will no longer believe in love, so most of the people who are single now are because of this reason.

Most of us are single now, most of us are because our vision is relatively high, and the requirements for the other half are also very high, when we choose the object, we will not choose some divorced, because I think they may have some shadows in their hearts, and they will no longer believe in love, so I think the reason why we are single after 90 is because of our higher vision and higher requirements for the other half.