How do you look at the behavior of your in laws when you get married?

When getting married, the in-laws don't pay a bride price, they don't pay a penny of wedding money, and they also ask their daughter-in-law to pay 30,000 yuan for a "change of mouth fee", which is really "wonderful". The reason why the man's family is so bold to ask the woman is to explain: 1. Maybe the man's family has bought a house, or paid a down payment, or the full amount, so they feel that they don't need to pay the bride price or spend on the wedding, and the woman will bear all this.

This is still in the past, but it is a bit too much to ask the woman to pay 30,000 yuan to change her mouth. What's more, under the current legal conditions, even if the man buys a house, the property still belongs to the man, and the woman can't take advantage of it.

The woman is in love with someone else's young man, but some men can't love, once you fall in love with him, it is equivalent to owing him, owing his family, he and his parents will discriminate against the woman arrogantly, this man's penniless marriage is really the man's family is poor 10,000 yuan can't get out? This is a great disrespect for the woman, this disrespectful marriage will make the man "eat" the woman, the marriage requires the woman to pay, then the living expenses in the future will also be more likely to be paid by the woman, and even the woman is to be a cow and a horse for the man, and the ATM will not get a good return. Because in the eyes of the man and the man's parents, the woman is not worthy of the man at all, the man is too good, and it is natural for the woman to pay anything.

I think it's understandable that my in-laws don't have the financial means, but if they have the financial means, but still do it, I don't think it's a good thing.

On the one hand, the in-laws did not provide much of the property that women could have before marriage, and on the other hand, after the woman got married, even if she made a great contribution to the family, she did not have social recognition of her housework and child-rearing efforts.

How do you think about the married mother-in-law not giving a penny, but also giving 30,000 yuan to change the mouth? Is there such a thing, it can only be said that either the man is very powerful, or the woman is humble in love, and generally such a situation does not exist. This is the so-called Zhou Yu beating Huang Gai, you are willing, how you live your life, it depends on how you choose.

Today's atmosphere is how much bride price the man wants to give the woman, as well as three golds, a house and a car, which makes the man breathless.

The man and his family want to "get rich through marriage" The speculative psychology is very heavy. Maybe it's because the man's family conditions are poor, and the man's income is not high, so he hopes to find a "rich girl" and let the rich pay for it, and the people's hearts are not burdened, because the woman is already rich, and she should pay more.

The woman's family is indeed very wealthy, she doesn't want anything, and she can afford to buy a wedding, which shows that the woman's family has strong economic ability and a strong willingness to marry, and the wedding expenses are borne by the woman's family, which is really small in reality.

This should take into account the economic conditions of the two families, etc., if the man loves the woman very much, the economic conditions are really not good, and the woman can accept this situation, the in-laws can not be asked.

A weak country has no diplomacy, and whoever is weak will be slapped in the face. As a result of such a situation, either the other party is stronger than you, or the woman's family is too weak. This kind of weakness is not necessarily a relative weakness, but a kind of spiritual defect and lack of self-confidence.

Marriage doesn't mean that it is certain, who is going to extort how much property from whom? But two people in the second half of their lives, hand in hand with each other for a lifetime, this is the greatest courage sincerity and trust, through some material expression of this courage, sincerity and trust, is also very necessary.

This is a bit unseemly, and it can't show integrity, so when you get married, you have to make your daughter-in-law feel valued.

Don't marry! This kind of behavior shows that your partner's parents don't pay attention to your partner, and since there is no good fruit in the past, you must ask for everything before you get married, otherwise you can only suffer yourself.

This is indeed a bit undignified, but getting married in the future is a matter of two people, and if you can get along after marriage, you can live together, and if you don't get along, you can split up.

This kind of in-law is very picky, and I will be very tired when I get married, and I would rather not get married when I encounter this kind of in-law, otherwise I will be guilty of marrying in the past.

I think it may be that my mother-in-law is not satisfied with her daughter-in-law, but I think life needs to find someone who loves her.