As a class teacher, what problem parents have you met?

For the first time in more than ten years of work, I met a parent, because of the child's own physical reasons, I haven't come to school, the parents and in-laws take a bowl to put the child's rice home for three meals a day, at that time we said, you don't come to refund the food fee, you run a few kilometers every day to get the meal is also tired, and then go back to the cold day to get hot, it's too troublesome, the parents said it's okay I have time, okay! I didn't speak, I came to take it for two months and said that I was too tired to take it, and when it came time to refund the food fee, we didn't refund her for two months, so she came to ask why she didn't refund her food for two months??? Her children didn't come to school, we told her that you can't return it if you come to pack it back, which is equivalent to the child coming to eat her food, she said that I didn't take it back, just a little, I said that a bowl full of rice and a bowl of vegetables can be pulled, the children didn't eat so much, she was angry and told the dean to go there.

There is a parent every time she comes to pick up her child, as long as I say good things about the child, she must smile and say goodbye to me with joy; As soon as you say that your baby has made too many mistakes in dictation today, she will leave immediately with a straight face, without leaving a word. Of course, this is human nature, but this parent, she thinks that the child's various problems are my fault - it is I who did not play my role and did not guide the child correctly, which led him to take the 60 exam, caused him to procrastinate and inattentive in his homework, caused him to scold his classmates with swear words, caused him to often get angry, and her child was clever and cute, and there was no problem at all.

When the junior high school held a parent-teacher conference, there was always a boy's parent who did not arrive, and the discussion was unsuccessful many times. Because the mysterious parents have always refused to hold a parent-teacher conference for their children, causing a certain bad impact, they symbolically punished the boy for doing a very light duty, but on the third day, the father came angrily, and began to get angry with the female head teacher when he entered the door, saying that the child is no problem if he does not study, he is not good at studying and is not very poor, all kinds of accusations against the teacher, unfair delay of his working time to the child and so ......onAs a result, the office that day was almost turned upside down by this father. Holding a parent-teacher conference is originally a parent's minimum concern for their children and the minimum respect for the teacher's work, and they don't want to say anything.

Parents and children are often matched. I have such a "set" in my class. This kid belongs to the type of person who has nothing to do.

Before he took over, I heard from my colleagues about his "heroic deeds". One time, he broke the head of his classmate with a brick, and the teacher decisively asked the parents, and his mother came over and the teacher told him about the situation, but his mother didn't say a word, and led the child away. After school, the teacher called ** to his mother.

When his mother came to pick me up from school, he said: "Today I was walking well, and the teacher suddenly scared me and caused me to fall." "My parents gave me a roll of the eye.

The sophomore girl did not want to go to school, and when she left the school, the head teacher repeatedly emphasized that the parents and children should think carefully before signing. As a result, the parents said that we had thought it through, and with a big stroke of the pen, we signed. Half a year later, the parents came with their children again.

Said to go to school again. Affectionately express the child's desire to go to school. We're helpless!

Give it to the Head of Year. Or the grade director is of a high level, chatting and chatting. Finally talking about the real reason why they want their children to go to school:

The child has no one to play with at home.

Graduation internship, a high school, one day A parent came to the office in a hurry, claiming to be the parent of classmate xx, saying that the teacher called ** and asked him to come to school, but the teachers in the office didn't know the student with this name, did he go to the wrong grade?No, the parents are sure that it is the first year of high school, did the teacher hear the wrong name?No, the parents said what words they were, and the teachers still said that there was no such student, and the final truth was that his baby was a student from another school, and he came to the wrong school.

The most impressive parent, a girl's mother, who usually rarely interacts with me, once knew that I was sick, boiled me a pot of chicken soup and brought it to school for me to drink. He also told me not to work too hard. It felt warm.

The child's parents are divorced, and they follow their father, and they are currently grandmothers with children. Then often after school or in the morning, he complained to us about how his daughter-in-law was not how, and once he actually said this, "Teacher, you don't have to play friends, my son is very good, and his temper is good, and now he is working in ****" is very embarrassing, and then quickly said that he already has a boyfriend, and then grandma has not been like this anymore.

Parents and friends, what did you say to the teachers during the parent-teacher conference?Teacher, how is my child?This sentence is the most common way to ask questions.

Teachers are generally like this: It's good. Immediately enter the self-report state:

My child is too sloppy to play, please give me more time to control...Thank you, teacher, and goodbye!What information do you get with this Q&A, and what you want to know is nothing.

Sometimes you blame the teacher's power; Sometimes you wonder why you don't give a gift to your teacher. Sometimes you comment on the teacher for being too impersonal; The teacher doesn't care about your baby and simplifies your questions. I think the scene I described is too realistic, and the scene reproduction is average.

How do I communicate with my teachers at the parent-teacher conference? Just three questions!

Teacher, what do you think are the advantages of my child's class? When you ask such a question, the teacher's brain is highly active, and he is searching for the child's usual performance. For example, the teacher said that children know how to respect others, again and again.

This way you can know what a child is like in school and what kind of image he is in among teachers and classmates.

Teacher, what else does my child need to improve? When you ask such a question again, the teacher must come to your question with some thought. For example, you need to speed up the solution of problems, do math problems...Last week's English exam....and you will be able to match your child in no time.

From the teacher's response to these two questions, you can tell if the teacher is constantly paying attention to your child. If not, rest assured, he will pay more attention to your baby after this parent-teacher conference.

Teacher, how do you want me to cooperate with your management? The teacher will give reasonable advice, such as encouraging the child more, paying attention to the method, not yelling, not scribbling, so that he understands the key to solving the problem. Not only do you know how your child is doing at school and in the garden, but you also know how your child is in the relationship with his classmates, and you also know how much the teacher values and evaluates the child.

Put it away!

When you go to the school for a parent-teacher conference, you should find out whether your child has some classroom interaction during class, what level of learning performance belongs to the class, and which classmates are better to interact with at school? What is the status of classes at school? What is it like to do homework at school?

You should also ask the teacher to see if your child is biased and what ways you can improve your child's grades.

When going to the school for a parent-teacher meeting, parents should ask the class teacher about their child's usual learning situation, and then understand the child's usual friendship, even to understand how the child gets along with his classmates, and also to understand whether the child is suitable for the school environment.

Find out whether the child has made small movements in class, whether he has secretly spoken in class, how he is studying, and whether he is working hard when studying. You can also find out how your child is making friends at school.

First of all, understand how your child is doing in the class, whether he is more extroverted or introverted. Then the aspect of getting along with classmates. Finally, we will find out whether the child's learning is biased.

There is a conflict between two classmates, and the parents are biased towards their children, what should you do as a class teacher? Here's how I worked:

Show attitude. As a class teacher, it is understandable that both parents in the title are biased towards their own children. It is certainly normal for each parent to favor their own children, but this phenomenon may affect the relationship between students, and also affect class management.

Therefore, as a class teacher, we must uphold the principle of fairness and justice, and patiently and actively solve problems.

Communication. As a class teacher, I will first ask two students to understand the cause of the incident separately, understand the main reasons for the students' conflicts, and educate them about the mistakes made by both parties, so that the students are aware of the pranks.

The adverse consequences, as well as the harm of fighting, can also affect the feelings between classmates. Then, bring the two classmates together and help them communicate and rebuild a good friendship. Secondly, I will find the parents of these two students, communicate with the parents, ask both parties to calm down, communicate the results of communication with the two students, and persuade both parties not to be impulsive and communicate calmly.

And let parents know that it is normal for students to have some small frictions, and they can't make a big fuss, and calming down to solve the problem is the most important thing at present. Finally, I will carry out a class meeting in the class to organize students to unite and love each other, learn together, and develop together. Promote the unity atmosphere of the class and speed up the construction of class style.

Self-reflection. As a class teacher, I will self-reflect on whether I have done something that I have not done well and corrected in time when I am in class management, so that in the future class management, I will always pay attention to the dynamics of students, find out students' problems as soon as possible, and actively solve them to avoid similar problems again.

As a class teacher, you can say in front of this classmate that the classmate intends to show favor first, so that both sides have face.

As a class teacher, I will investigate this matter very strictly to know what happened to the dismantling and merger. There will also be a fair and just way to solve the problem. Envy of the world.

Introduction: When a child enters an unfamiliar environment in a new school, parents will start to worry that he will not be used to it. At this time, parents will secretly contact the class teacher, hoping that the class teacher can take care of the child more.

But is this way of connecting with feelings necessary? Let's discuss it with us.

Generally, in a class, the teacher attaches more importance to the students who are better at learning. But will your child be taken seriously by the teacher when he is in the classroom? The obvious answer to this is no.

Many parents will secretly contact the class teacher. In fact, it is not right to secretly contact the homeroom teacher, but he does have a help to the child. You can let the class teacher take care of her children more and train them to be better.

Necessary interpersonal relationships.

is important, but the method has to be correct. Don't act too excessively, communicate with the class teacher normally, and contact feelings normally.

Students generally have no self-control, so their learning needs to be supervised and nurtured by teachers. Many parents are worried that their children will not study well in school, and the teacher is not supervising in place, so they will secretly contact the teacher. The original intention of this practice is to let children learn and nurture their children well.

But it doesn't sound so friendly, but his purpose does show that a mother cares about her child. So it's okay to connect with the teacher, but we need to be in touch with the right feelings. Students' learning depends on the cultivation of teachers, but it is also inseparable from their own efforts.

Therefore, in life, parents should first pay attention to their children's attitude towards learning and students' own learning ability.

Starting from oneself is conducive to faster and better progress in learning. Therefore, parents and friends should not blindly focus on cultivating a good relationship with class teachers and leaders. It is also necessary to pay attention to children's own learning attitudes and abilities, and students have good study habits is the right direction.

There is a need for this hidden beard. After the start of school, the class teacher will take special care of the children, and the children will get a good education, which is very important for the children.

There is no need for this, because the requirements for teachers are very strict nowadays, and most teachers do not pay much attention to children for other reasons.

There is no need. This will not do anything, and should be treated equally, and teachers should be fair and just to children.

In fact, there is no need for this, parents and the head teacher have no direct contact, and the head teacher receives the most from the first student of Xuetanyuan, so it is meaningless to say that the family is split, and Wang Chang and the head teacher are in contact with each other.

I haven't seen him after graduating. Maybe I'm not a good student. I also complained like my parents.

My father thought his behavior was inappropriate, but still sensible. My mom thinks he's gone too far, and I deserve to be treated like that if I don't study well. Well, I didn't make any big mistakes.

Maybe it's because of the instability of his grades, seeing the change in his attitude when he speaks, seeing the contrast between insulting students, beating and scolding students, and then telling the truth with dignity, I am so disgusted from the bottom of my heart. If the child doesn't like it, he doesn't like it. Never force him to like someone he doesn't like, otherwise it will backfire.

It is necessary to guide him to become the person who impresses the head teacher.

Make friends with your teachers, but keep them in close communication. The content of the exchange is naturally the child's learning and education methods, first ask the teacher modestly. In fact, parents really need to learn.

and various networks of other classmates and friends, maybe one day your homeroom teacher will naturally know. At that time, the head teacher may give you another evaluation: Look at this parent, it's not obvious, the relationship between people is so strong, have you mentioned it?

Parents are still so attentive to their children's education, they are rare good parents! This kind of home-school cooperation is really valuable!

Be a good teacher assistant. Nowadays, many schools have family committees, which are well managed, and can help teachers with some daily tasks, such as buying class uniforms, dance clothes, preparing facilities for sports competitions, etc. But keep in mind that since you have joined the PTA, you must genuinely pay for your class, because the PTA is often a thankless task.

If you just want to get close to the teacher and try too hard, forget about it as soon as possible!

Communication with teachers should be efficient and should be prepared in advance. Don't come up and ask, "Teacher, how is my son?" "It's a very broad topic, and we can't finish it in a few days and nights!

The best thing to do is to share some of your child's performance at home, including homework and habits, and then ask the teacher how the child is doing in class, homework, and getting along with friends. Communication is targeted and beneficial to both parties, otherwise it becomes gossip and is pointless!