Isn t it that I m looking at everything too complicated

You have to have a normal heart everywhere, otherwise it's the same to **, and you forced yourself away.

Learn to look at the merits of others, don't always fight for some small profits, most of the so-called friendship in the unit is false, because everyone may have a conflict of interest.

The person you hate must have good qualities that you don't have. The temporary victories you see may not be true, there is no company for 10,000 years, and there are no colleagues for 10,000 years.

Only benefits are eternal.

That's how society is pitch black. Even in college, I ran for a position with another person, and I did better than him in the written test, the interview, and the practical test. But in the end, he got on, and after studying it, he decided to kick me off and put me in a corner.

I was not convinced, I simply did not do it.

But in the society, it's not so easy to withdraw and say don't do it, but fortunately, I'm looking at it more now than before, and I hope you can see it. There is competition in work, and it is impossible for colleagues to become friends, and if you don't want to talk to them, just forget it, just go on the surface.

The green mountains that stay are not afraid of no firewood, and it is not easy to find a job, so let's wait! Do your own thing, and the Bodhisattva will take care of you. Of course, if you have a chance to climb up, you still have to even if you get stiff, then there is no pity to leave.

No matter what you do, what you want is work, not limelight, just do your job well!

It's not what jealousy is, you have to learn to accept it. You can still be happy.

Learn to see the strengths of others, learn from her, understand all aspects of her, and carry forward your strengths, someone will inevitably see your existence and improve your ability, have a normal heart, don't be jealous, and be good at discovering.

That's why it's all the more important for you to improve your abilities and not give up. I believe that she should be able to do it. It's better to do her own job than anything else, and the leader doesn't do it for nothing. As long as you work hard to get back someone to appreciate!

Actually, it's not complicated, it's very normal to have such thoughts, compared to the fact that you basically didn't get any useful affirmation for you after you joined this company, right? In this case, you must learn to affirm yourself, affirm your every effort, and affirm your every success, so that you can find that you have many shining points, and then continue to magnify these shining points, and the people around you can naturally feel it. As for comparison, to be honest, people are better than people, more than dead people.

There are more people than you are incompetent, and there are more people who are more capable than her, you say, how can you compare?

Actually, you are jealous, it's just that jealousy of others is really a normal thing, the key is that you don't distort your jealousy too much. So, since there is no way to get praise, then you work quietly, at least, everyone thinks that you are a very solid person, a very stable person, and these are enough. Sometimes, if you deliberately care about these things, you will become stingy, in short, your personality will become bad, and in this way, you will lose more.

Cherish your current job, and you will be happy, because, at least you haven't lost it, right?