It s been 5 years, is he responsible or very irresponsible??

After you broke up with your boyfriend, you followed a friend of his, but your boyfriend came back and reminded you, and you broke up with that friend of his, and went back to your boyfriend, but he didn't mind your history after you broke up with him, so you broke up again?

If that's the case, I think so:

1 Maybe he's a little scared, so you haven't had a result for 5 years. This cannot simply be said that he is not willing to be responsible, it can only be said that he is not ready.

2 You broke up for the second time, I think the more reason is not that you and his friends are getting better, but that the negative factors that you have accumulated in four years that have caused you to break up have not been eliminated, you and his friends are just excuses, and there should be many factors that really led to your breakup, and you are reconciled because you think those factors have been eliminated, but this is not the case, so you have so much to consider.

All I can say is: if you feel unwilling, you should seriously find out and solve the problem. Since you have gotten back together, it shows how deep your relationship is, so you will not and should not end so easily.

In fact, I think that there is still affection between you, after all, it has been 5 years, how can you say that there is no emotion! You can't continue like this, it's always dangling, no conclusion is not good, I think you should talk about it, if there is love, then continue, don't hesitate, if there is no love, then simply order, divide, long pain is better than short pain! You can only hurt each other in this way, and you can't always do it.

What is the premise that you have a society together? Find it and solve it, if you can't find and solve it... You're looking for someone who loves you!

5 years does not mean anything, there is no equal sign between time and love.

He is irresponsible, and if it were a responsible man he would not be so selfish. I've been waiting for 5 years and still tell you to wait?

Or let time slowly dilute everything.

I really don't understand either, does it make sense to ask him now if he is responsible or not?? Do you think that if he is a responsible person, he will come back to you??? How many more 5 years do you have to spend with him??

Since the breakup, it is enough to remember one: "He doesn't understand my good".

Strongly agree with the point made upstairs. The analysis is very thorough.

I don't know what you mean, but if it's the time to assert your rights, there are several possibilities.

Civil cases: no exercise of the general right of claim within 3 years from the date of the dispute, or no knowledge for more than 20 years; There is no right of formation for more than one year (generally revoked).

Administrative cases: Failure to file a lawsuit within 6 months from the date on which the rights and obligations were affected, or failure to know about the failure to do so within 5 years from the date of the ordinary administrative act, or failure to know more than 20 years from the date of the case involving real estate rights.

Criminal cases: those that have exceeded the statutory statute of limitations and have not been discovered.

Administrative punishment: The act that should be punished has not been discovered for more than two years.

There are more detailed rules and some exceptions to the above, so please take your own seats.

What exactly do you want, can you be specific?