After the breakup, my ex boyfriend has always been responsible and cares about me.

Updated on psychology 2024-03-29
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It can only be said that you are there, you have met a very good man, and you have not cherished it. It's not that he's immature, it's that you can't understand his maturity.

    From acquaintance, love, to marriage, and then for a lifetime. It does not rely on love, but on the sense of responsibility for each other.

    You are pregnant, it is a matter of two people, you unilaterally say that you will fight, one is disrespectful to him, and on the other hand, he is also caring about you, after all, it is you who do not cherish yourself.

    You should go back to him. Before he found a new love.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If only he was doing those things silently. You'll be happy when you get back together. He's calling you. You also have to learn to understand and tolerate him. Life and the relationship between two people must cherish each other, tolerate to maintain and operate... You are very happy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Go to him, he's a good man, a good man in charge. In fact, when you killed the child, you should have discussed it with him, and the whole thing has always been you.

    Self-righteous, didn't take into account his feelings, he still loves you so much, what a good man, go back to him, live a good life, you will be happy.

    It's time to go, you'll regret it if you miss it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Why are you doing this.

    Knock out the child. Maybe he works so hard to give you and your baby a good future.

    A man is not afraid of pressure, but he is afraid that women will not understand him.

    It's not that he's immature.

    It is you who feel that he is not taking care of you enough.

    Maybe he was working hard.

    Men should have their own careers.

    It's not just that I know how to shout and ask for warmth around women.

    He's so nice to you later.

    It shows that he really loves you.

    A man who loves you.

    Are you willing not to take the initiative to contact him in this life?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    1.Dependency.

    It takes 21 days to develop a habit, just like brushing your teeth and washing your face, you have to do this action every day, and over time you get used to this behavior, and if one day you don't brush your teeth and wash your face, you will feel bad.

    It's the same with love, you've been dating each other for a while, you're tired of being together every day, and you're used to each other being around in life.

    He said that he doesn't like you as much as he used to, and he may have developed a sense of dependence on you, and after getting used to a thing or person, he will have this illusion and feel that he doesn't like the other person anymore.

    After you break up, and you suddenly start not being by his side, he will always feel that there is something missing around him and he will not get used to it.

    2.Retreat and move forward.

    This is the reason for you, when he is with you, he finds that you have a little bit that he can't stand it, and he feels very annoyed and tired when he is with you, and he can't see the future.

    So I felt out of breath to continue dating, so I could only choose to escape.

    After the breakup, continue to care about you, be nice to you, and see if you will change. If you change, then he will choose to get back together with you, and if he observes you for a while, he finds that you are still the same, short-tempered, and vexatious, he will not hesitate to leave you.

    3.He is a person with a sensitive personality and a lack of love.

    People who are sensitive and lack love are usually very sensitive, especially emotionally, and will be particularly sensitive in the face of emotional changes. One of them is a very important characteristic: he needs a person or thing where he can place his emotions on it.

    Although you have broken up, he still needs someone who can sustenance his inner rich emotions, if there is nothing to sustenance, he will feel that he is very suffocated, he feels very lonely, and his heart is not satisfied.

    If there is nowhere to output the rich emotions in the heart, it will be like a balloon that will get bigger and bigger, and it will be uncomfortable!

    4.Treat you like a spare tire.

    While caring for you and being nice to you, while looking for new prey. If you meet the right one, you will be together, anyway, even if you are dumped, they have been hanging on you all the time, not letting the relationship between you fade, not letting you know your new love, making you always think that there is hope between you, but not giving you the answer.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you really find that your ex-boyfriend has been silently following you after breaking up, then I am sure that your ex-boyfriend has not completely let go of you in his heart, and he is still worried about you in his heart, otherwise he would not be so obscure and concerned about you, and the reason why he chose to pay attention to you in obscurity is because he is not sure whether you still have feelings for him now, so he does not dare to speak up.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello kiss, he must still like you and love you, so he has been silently caring about you behind his back, but he doesn't dare to confess to you again, for fear that you have no feelings for him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Because after your ex-boyfriend broke up with you, he felt very guilty about you because he hurt your feelings.

    And he didn't find a new girlfriend who suited him, so at this time he wanted to get back together with you and was embarrassed to bring it up, so he could only care about you silently.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    After your ex-boyfriend broke up, he has been silently caring about you, this is because he still has you in his mind and has feelings for you. If you still have him in your heart, you can make an appointment with him to talk to see if you can get back together, after all, it is not easy to meet a suitable person.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Either he feels that he owes you something, so he has been silently caring about you, hoping that you can get better, or he still has feelings for you, so he wants to find an opportunity to pursue you again.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If your ex-boyfriend has been silently caring about you after the breakup, I think there are two reasons, the first reason is that your boyfriend still likes you very much and still has feelings for you, but he is afraid that he will propose a reunion, and you will not agree, so you can only care about you silently, so that you can feel his feelings for you, and the other is that this concern for you has become a habit.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It shows that your ex-boyfriend still has feelings for you and is reluctant to give up. He hopes that by caring for you and loving you, he will be able to go back to the past. Be able to exchange your change of heart.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Your ex-boyfriend has been silently caring about you after breaking up, which shows that he really loves you, and in his psychology, even if he is not your boyfriend anymore, he still cares about the person he cares about very much.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It is also understandable, so it mainly shows that the other party is actually a person who pays more attention to feelings in his heart, and the two people have been together for a while, although they are separated, but they often think of themselves in their hearts, which is understandable.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The ex-boyfriend may not have let go of this relationship, so he is silently following you, but he doesn't know how to get back together with you, so he can only pay attention to you silently.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Your ex-boyfriend has been silently caring about you after breaking up, which means that your ex-boyfriend loves you very much and likes you very much, and he didn't put you down after the breakup, so he has been silently caring about you and blessing you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Hello dear. It must be that he can't let go of you and still have feelings for you, so he cares about you silently behind his back, if you still have feelings for him, you can accept it, and if you don't have feelings for him, decisively refuse not to give the other party a chance to think more.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    After the breakup, the boy has been silently caring about each other, there are two reasons, first, it is possible that he feels a little guilty after the breakup, and wants to make up for the other party, so he cares about you silently, and there is also a possibility that he still can't forget this relationship and wants to renew the relationship with you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Your ex-boyfriend has been silently caring about you after breaking up, it must be because your ex-boyfriend can't let go of you after the breakup, if he lets go of you, he will definitely not choose to pay attention to you anymore, just be a stranger, so your ex-girlfriend still likes you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If your ex-boyfriend still cares about you silently after breaking up, it can only mean that your ex-boyfriend still has deep feelings for you and he still has you in his heart. He has engraved you in his mind and it won't change no matter how long it takes.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Because he can't bear you in his heart, even if you are separated, he still hopes that you will be happy, and wants to see you live happily.

    Many people are separated not because they have no feelings, but because they have too many opinions together, and these problems cannot be solved, so they will be separated. Because only in this way can they be truly happy.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Your ex-boyfriend still cares about you after breaking up, so for this situation, it can only be said that he may still have you in his heart or you have been together for a long time, and if you put it down occasionally, he is not very used to it. But if he doesn't get back together in the later stage, then this situation will slowly disappear, and don't worry about it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Because he still has feelings for you, or has some indebted emotions to you, so even after you break up, he still cares about you silently, just to make his heart peaceful.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Because the ex-boyfriend hasn't let go yet, the breakup hasn't been too long, and no one else is together, the previous concern has become a habit, and it hasn't been completely changed.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It means that he likes you, and he will care about you, when he doesn't like you, after the two people break up, he will not contact you again, and will become a stranger, when he cares about you, it means that he still has you in his heart. I want to get back together with you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Caring about you doesn't mean that he wants to get back together with you, but that he is a person who misses the old love, after all, you used to be so sweet, you are the closest person to him, so he cares about you silently, you are in his heart. still has a certain status.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    After the breakup, I still care about you silently, which means that I still have you in my heart, and I can't let go of you, and I can't let go of your beautiful past, so I care about you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Your ex-boyfriend has always cared about you after breaking up, because he has never forgotten you, he still likes you, although they can't be together anymore, but his heart may always be on you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's okay to care about your ex-boyfriend after a breakup.

    It's just that everything is too much. If you are simply concerned, then you can greet it appropriately, so that you and the other person do not have misunderstandings. If there are other ideas on the basis of concern, it also depends on the reaction and attitude of the ex-boyfriend.

    After all, a slap can't be slapped, and a lone palm is hard to scream. So, before caring about your ex-boyfriend, ask yourself if you need to do it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    After breaking up, you can still care about your ex-boyfriend, but you still have to have a certain measure, because after all, you are not a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship now, and you still have to keep a proper distance, otherwise it is easy to cause a certain misunderstanding and cause an embarrassing situation.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It depends on the actual situation when you break up with your ex-boyfriend, for example, you and your boyfriend are peacefully broken, and after the breakup, you are still continuing to date as ordinary friends, in this case, you care about him as a friend, I think this is more normal, if you break up with your boyfriend and have a big conflict, both parties are very unhappy, and there is usually no contact, in this case, it is inconvenient for you to care about your ex-boyfriend, lest he misunderstand your kindness and make both parties embarrassed.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It depends on your own mood, if you want to, you can care about him, if you don't want to, then you don't care.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Yes, but it shouldn't. Very understanding of what you do, and very understanding of your inability to control. After all, if you love it deeply, how can you let it go easily?

    You come to Zhihu to ask this question, which fully shows that you have begun to self-reflect, and you no longer want to torture yourself like this. Actually, you have the answer in your heart, don't you?

    First of all, attention is divided into bothering and not bothering.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If you break up, don't care anymore because it's not necessary.

    Your concern seems to you to be just a concern, but in his opinion, you exist and compound thoughts.

    It stirred up his hopes, but when he knew that you didn't have such thoughts, that feeling was really infuriating.

    If you don't understand this feeling, you can imagine seeing the state of despair from despair to hope and then despair again, and you will understand.

    So I hope to see this young ladies, if you don't want to get back together, then don't disturb each other's lives anymore, because boys and girls think differently, and your concern is not just about caring in his eyes.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Why does your ex-boyfriend care about you after a breakup? It is likely that his love for you has not been extinguished at this time, or that he has reflected on himself after your breakup. If he is not good at handling things or communicating with you, he will be accommodating to you.

    At this time, it doesn't mean that you can get back together, but it does mean that he is guilty of you and therefore willing to care for you in some way.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Of course you can, but I don't think it's necessary, because we have already broken up, and for the sake of ourselves and each other, we should not contact each other again.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Why does your ex-boyfriend still care about you after he broke up? It is very likely that his love for you has not been eliminated at this time, or he has reflected on himself after you broke up, and he has not done well in handling or communicating some things, then he will have the idea of accommodating you, which does not mean that you can get back together, but it means that he feels guilty about you, so he is willing to care about you to some extent.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Only communication between people can eliminate misunderstandings and concerns between each other. If you can't be a lover, you can be a friend, and the kind of people who can often do it generally live a life full of sunshine, more cheerful, optimistic, and open-minded. Caring for others is a good character, to care for others, even the closest people once, is a kind of enjoyment, is not when you care about others, your psychology is not happy and happy?

    I think being chic can make myself and others happy, so why not? Hopefully, you've figured it out.

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