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If you get married for various reasons in the year after graduation, you are too hasty before marriage, which leads to unhappiness after marriage. A lot of things are not that you work hard to change, life will be good, for the sake of the child for many years, and finally depressed and anxious, I am only in my early thirties, I don't know how to go next, I am desperate and can't see the future.
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In the Northeast, rural migrant workers.
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In the end, some of them died alone, and some could only be stepmothers.
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When a sister of mine was 35 years old and not married, her parents were so anxious that she was forced to marry with a baby in a second marriage, she was unwilling to live or die, but she was beautiful, usually living comfortably and maintaining well to show her youth, at the age of 36, fate came, married an unmarried man who was one year older than her, and she opened a company that looked good, her husband loved her very much, bought a house and wrote her name, and handed over the money earned to her to manage, cook, laundry, and housework, and was spoiled and happy.
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I don't want to talk about it, I think marriage is to make trouble for myself.
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I don't want to marry someone from another place, I have been working in a field for many years, I don't know my hometown, and the men introduced by others are all men who can't marry a wife, such as ugly people who have a very introverted personality.
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Not ready yet! Psychological fear!
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If I hadn't married at the age of thirty, I would never have gotten married for the rest of my life.
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A man who doesn't have a house, a car, or 10 million must not marry! Hold on!
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36 years old just married, my husband is more introverted, he is a guy who talks less, I talk more, I always like to joke with him, we both look above average, both are thin, both make money in general, family conditions are about the same, after marriage, the salary card is handed over to me, I want to give how much pocket money depends on my mood.
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I'm also looking for a husband in my early thirties, he has a high education, a good income, and a good personality, so I still miss the freedom when I was single, and it's good not to get married.
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Let's look at fate. I don't like the word leftover women, late marriage or not marriage is also a life choice, why can't it be tolerated. Even if you get married very early, there are people who have had bad times and finally divorced.
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There will be all the reasons, but bad luck to say, some people marry well, some are still waiting, some people are tired of waiting, I am 36, I meet a man who is 5 years older than myself, just like a child, always show how diligent he is in front of him, really encounter something, I can't get anything, just show it on the lips, I still live innocently in sour literature all day long, I say that I changed my job, I haven't changed it for 4 years, I make excuses for myself, I want to give up now. Every time I call, I don't want to listen to him, I always want to find a psychiatrist to hypnotize myself to receive him, I really feel sorry for myself, I don't look for him, my parents are getting old a year, and I don't want to add trouble to my parents. I'm so annoying.
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Who did the leftover girl offend, why are there always so many people criticizing it, everyone has different choices, different living conditions, I am an older leftover girl, I don't know how many blind dates of all sizes, I haven't met the right one, and I am not willing to settle like this, but at this time, I met a considerate, loving me, meticulous high-quality man, fate is so wonderful, and I am preparing for the wedding. I just want to say that it's not that the leftover girl doesn't want to get married, it's just that she hasn't been moved yet.
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There are only 2 types of women who will become leftover women. One is too picky and self-righteous. The other is that even if the conditions are particularly good, even if they are 50, there are still people who want to marry.
For example, Carina Lau. Liu Xiaoqing's kind. It doesn't matter if they're married or not.
I know what kind of person I am. Of course, those who don't want to get married are not called leftover women.
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Most of them are not well married.
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I'm curious about what kind of leftover men married in the end.
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There is never a shortage of men around beautiful women, just like there is never a shortage of women around the rich and handsome.
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High is not low, unwilling to work together.
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They are all married well, and there are a lot of sisters and brothers.
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I'm the so-called leftover girl 33, and now I'm talking about a demolition household, more introverted but super good to me, my in-laws are engaged to give me a house, it doesn't matter if it's a leftover girl, I got married and left early, there are more, what era is there still a leftover woman, and there are fewer women who are married for the sake of children, and it's better to be a leftover woman.
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Hey, I don't know how to say it, in the past, the family conditions were not good, for the next generation, and I want to help my mother's family, I always want to find a house, the conditions are better, the long handsome, I like what I like, I haven't met, and the vision is a little high, but it's so difficult, I found that in a blink of an eye more than 30, I can work hard in terms of economic ability at present, but I am still single, and there are people who are chasing, but they are several years younger than me, but there are really people who have no financial ability, in the eyes of many people, Women are so old, since they have bought a house, they will find a general to get married, what divorce with children, and older masons, or anything to introduce to me, refused and said that I am high, I don't know how old I am, hey, it's really difficult, is there no right to find love at this age, 33 years old.
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..I was twenty years old, and my parents were urging me to get married all day long, and I was still a man.
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Married an honest man who couldn't make money.
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My sister is very standard, beautiful, in good shape, and can make money by herself, she is 42 years old this year, no matter how beautiful she used to be, she can now see the traces of time on her face, but she is still looking for her prince, and I don't know how to persuade me as a younger brother.
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Many of the remaining women ended up marrying a man with a baby.
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Who stipulates that leftover women are not good to marry, a few years ago I was also a leftover girl in the eyes of others, at that time I was 32 years old and not married, I was a small county town, and I often heard people say that they would not get married when they were so old. Later, 33 that year should be fate, a year to get married, my husband and in-laws are good to me, now my mother heard the most is that the son-in-law is good, the in-laws are good, those who used to say that I have leftover daughters, the seven aunts and eight aunts are envious of me, envy my mother, because when I got married, my husband said that as long as he traveled, he must bring his father-in-law and mother-in-law, married for 5 years, the child is 3 years old, my husband in addition to the year the child was born, he still insists on taking his father-in-law and mother-in-law out, and in 2018, my relatives are even more envious, Country Garden came to us to build a building, when I got married, my in-laws had bought the building in full, my father-in-law said, don't you two go to see it, because Country Garden relies on our best primary school, my husband said it is too expensive, and I am not saying that there is no house, there is no need for vanity to live in Country Garden, I didn't expect my in-laws to say directly, go to see the right one to set one, the child is older and it is convenient to go to primary school, I thought I would give a down payment, but I didn't expect my in-laws to give a whole number, and said that the rest was called to add it ourselves, and I wanted a 140, The average price of the first phase of our Country Garden is more than 7,000, in fact, it doesn't add much money, although I was not young when I got married, but I feel that I am happier than those who got married.
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Around us, there may be some people who are very cautious when they enter marriage, out of various considerations, and may not be married within the range we think, or even older than their age. I don't want to get married too early. On the Internet, these people are jokingly referred to as leftover men or leftover women.
This is especially true for leftover womenBe noticed。Because generally this group is girls who will have higher requirements for themselves, or will also have requirements for objectsThe vision is relatively highSo, what kind of man did the girls around me find to get married? Generally, there are two types.
The reason why this type of older girls do not get married is because they are in loveUnwilling to compromiseAnd will be very clear in their hearts what kind of partner they want to find, and what kind of life they want to live with their partner, and they are not willing to casually marry alone before the only boy who can achieve the goal appears. Generally, such a girl will not care about her age, how late she is, whether the people around her will intervene to urge marriage, he will always beLook for it or wait, until such a boy appeared, he entered into marriage. It's a kind of caution, and it's very important for lifeResponsible attitude
Such girls usually get married after finding the right person. After that, I will live a happier life.
In addition to the girls mentioned in the previous point who have very clear goals, there are also some older girls. I don't know what kind of partner I want to find, which means I don't have a clear standard. Or because of putting the mindI put it in the business, I didn't think about marriage too early, and I didn't think about this aspect until I was older.
Then the type of girl around me will find one in the end, and she understands her relatively well, and she canYeshercareerThe boy also refers to the line that the two people have a common language, and the three views are more compatible. Later in life, tooProgress togetherof boys to get married.
In short, when a girl is older and has not chosen a good partner, she may face the advice of people around her that she is too picky, but the girl herself must also eliminate this prejudice, don't go to the future because she is older, or have an opinion to choose a partner and life.
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In the end, they all married ordinary men, because after they picked and chosen, they finally found that Wuzhou couldn't find a better one, so they simply found an ordinary honest match to marry.
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In general, they have reached 80% satisfaction, at least some of the aspects they value are still up to their ideals.
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They are married to some relatively ordinary men, because they are older, so they lower the standards for choosing a mate.
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In the current era, leftover women are generally married to people with financial resources, he can not be handsome or tall, but he must be financial, and relatively stable and rich, leftover women have a very high vision at the beginning, they may like cheerful, handsome, tall and good figure, etc., all kinds of conditions, there are also many people who pursue them, but the handsome may not have money, the family background is not good, she thinks it is not suitable, wait a little longer, maybe you will meet a better one, meet a rich person, find out how this person looks so ugly, I gave up everyone who was so handsome when they chased me, let alone you.
People are like this, there are more people encountered, there are more natural comparisons, there are no perfect people, everyone has more or less shortcomings, but in my opinion, this person should be self-motivated, look good enough to be able to see it, filial piety to parents, a sense of responsibility is enough, no money for a while does not mean that there is no money for a lifetime, if it is a potential stock, then sooner or later there will be a time for him to shine, isn't it said, gold will shine sooner or later, so the most important thing for a person is character, With a good-looking skin and a dirty heart, such a talent is the most terrible, enough to ruin your life.
After all, the leftover girl has seen enough people, and has experienced a lot of things, it can be said that she has seen through the red dust, at this time, marriage is more important to her is reality, what is beautiful and ugly, do you say this is important to her, it is also very important, but after all, the choice is two-way, handsome people will think that you are too old, not that you don't choose him, but that he doesn't choose you, in this case, many people may regret more, in addition to regretting, the choice is reason, there is no hot-headed nature at all, Just look at the other party's character and economic conditions, filial piety, appearance is really secondary, in this case, basically all the leftover women will choose to marry a man with stable economy and rich financial resources.
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The leftover women all ended up marrying people who were the same age as them, and these people were generally more honest and gentle.
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Generally, she will get married, because such a woman needs to understand, understand her position at this time, and it is impossible to choose a better one.
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Leftover women refer to women who have passed the marriageable age generally considered by society and are still not married. Of all the leftover women, these three are the best to find a partner.
1. Enterprising leftover women
Women in today's society have become more and more independent, they no longer feel that they need to rely on men and marry themselves early, they don't marry because no one wants, but because they enjoy the chic happiness of a person.
Enjoy the freedom of a person's life, and don't want to be bound by marriage early, if they have the idea of getting married, they can find it soon.
Second, excellent leftover women
It's not that others are picking on them, but they may not be able to afford you, and if they lower their standards, they will soon be able to find their other half.
3. Independent leftover women
A lot of leftover women are fighting alone, fighting for cars and houses, and when they look back, they find that they have missed the age of talking about marriage, they can be independent women, and they can also be birds in the arms of men.
For marriage, many people have different opinions, don't settle for the sake of age, you should choose carefully, after all, marriage is a lifelong thing, you can't choose to settle.
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Hello! Leftover women refer to women who have passed the marriageable age generally considered by society and have not married blindly. Of all the leftover women, these three are the best to find a partner.
1. Enterprising leftover women
Women in today's society have become more and more independent, they no longer feel that they need to rely on men and marry themselves early, they don't marry because no one wants, but enjoy the chic happiness of a person.
Enjoy the freedom of a person's life, and don't want to be bound by marriage early, if they have the idea of getting married, they can find it soon.
Second, excellent leftover women
It's not that others are picking on them, but they may not be able to afford you, if they lower the standard of filial piety, they will soon be able to find the other half.
3. Independent leftover women
A lot of leftover women are working alone, fighting for cars and houses, and when they look back, they find that they have missed the age of talking about marriage, they can be independent women, or they can be birds in the arms of men, and men can be said to join forces with them.
For marriage, many people have different opinions, don't just settle when you reach the age, you should choose carefully, after all, marriage is a lifelong thing, and you can't choose the future.
It should be married to men who are not self-motivated.
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