Please help me analyze and analyze, I m really entangled

I think it is better to keep the property in Gansu, which has more development potential, and avoid buying property with low return on investment in developed cities.

Therefore, it is better to rent out the property, do not consider buying in Suzhou, if you really need to buy, you can also rely on the funds earned by your own ability to reinvest.

And buying real estate is not a trivial matter for you, of course, if Suzhou, there is a large room for cost-effective appreciation, you can also consider, if not, even if you have money, you can invest in a property in your hometown or the second-tier cities around where you live, where housing prices have not risen sharply, to buy real estate.

Since you don't want children, you just want to enjoy life, but if you have been a house slave for decades, can you enjoy life, and you should consider investing in retirement, and it will be more stable if you have two more properties on hand.

Therefore, it is better not to buy a house and have the ability to buy it again.

The first floor replied with a reasonable point.

You might as well swap it out for cash and rent a house as your friend said. Where is the work, rent a house nearby, change jobs, and the house can be changed at any time, saving you the pain of traveling.

You can go to a regular insurance company for financial distribution, which is also a guarantee for your future life.

You have to consider that if you are away from home all the year round, the house in your hometown is likely to be occupied by your brother, and the house in your hometown is generally rented (if your family is in the countryside), so you might as well ask your mother to convert the house into cash for a down payment. If your job is stable in Suzhou, you can consider buying a house.

I admire your courage when you say that you are Lala, but I also express concern that because the stability of homosexuality is worse than that of heterosexuality, the pressure you face is greater, and there is no guarantee of marriage, whose name is marked on the real estate certificate, and how to divide the property in case of a breakup.

First, will you last long? If it is definitely long, it is recommended to be in Suzhou, not at home. Family is stressed.

Second, you can rent a house in Suzhou first and be ready to buy a house. Because the relationship has changed due to different times. Your home is in Gansu.

Friend first: Let go of the burden in your heart, life is just a game, why be so obsessed with something.

Second: find out the reasons that cause your psychological entanglement, let go of what you know, exercise more, work more, go to activities when you are cranky, run, make your body tired, participate in more group activities, and communicate more with others. It's a very effective way to do it.

Third: If it really doesn't work, find a psychiatrist, it's not a big deal, I've been depressed before.

Heart disease also requires heart medicine. Avoid!!!

Hope it helps.

Hello, your condition has been going on for more than three months, and judging from the symptoms, it belongs to obsessive thoughts, which is a psychological disorder caused by the confusion of your growth;

Everyone's development is synchronized with the self in the real environment, but the school and parents only educate our self in the real environment, and do not pay attention to our natural self; The intrinsic self is the inner self of a person, and the inner self is the root of a person, and the actual self in the environment is only a manifestation;

In your situation, because you have been smart since childhood, your realistic self has developed very well, but your natural self has not been developed, and your inner nature is too weak; In high school, when you need to develop your natural self, no one cares about you, do you have experience in this area; When you find the weakness of your natural self deep down, people have basic anxiety and confusion; You will start to think about a lot of things, and you need to think about things that feel completely unnecessary, and you can't control them. This is because your body and mind are reminding yourself that your inner nature needs to grow, but you don't know what your body and mind are calling to.

If you don't know nature, you can't treat it indiscriminately, and your heart can't grow, and the anxiety of your soul is the symptom of compulsive thoughts, and you feel that life has an unreal feeling, so you have all kinds of obsessive thoughts about life.

Previous depression is the same reason, it doesn't work because it's in the wrong direction, and the external environment ego doesn't help you and causes more anxiety.

This is based on your introduction and analysis, you can look at our Runxuan's self-harmony psychological system to understand the process of your own problems, this situation can be adjusted through the learning and improvement of our psychology courses.

"As long as I have free brain, I think about many, many things, and try to analyze many, many things, so much that I can't control it.

I can't help but think about some very tangled problems that my knowledge and experience can't solve, and when I come back to my senses, I can't remember what I was thinking, and I often get caught up in these things, so that I can't distinguish between reality and imagination. ”

Can you elaborate on the above statement?

First of all, your mental state is not good, it is likely that there is a physical problem, you should first check if there is a problem with the heart, if the body is fine, then it is completely a psychological problem, I also have a situation like yours, it is normal, but I can distinguish the reality, can interrupt my thoughts, if you have not seen a psychiatrist, you should go to see, in life you have to learn to let go, sometimes you have to open your heart, when you are good, you are unconscious, you want to know how you are, you are not good, Freezing three feet is not a day's cold, you are a long-term accumulation, you have to change slowly in life, I can't say this sentence or two, if I have time, I can help you, but I'm generally very busy,

If you have mental and psychological problems, show you a clear way to find a professional psychological counselor Don't go to any hospital That kind of hanging place is to cheat you out of money to tease you without any effect I knew a person who went to college and has been thinking about it every day for many years In the end, the only way to solve it is to find a psychologist He went to Nanjing What is it called to face psychological counseling But it seems to be more expensive But after watching it a few times, it is obviously much better than before If you are interested, contact yourself.

In short, you won't get anything out of your online job search like this, it's just going to get more and more chaotic Good luck.

Are you under too much pressure to study? Will I have insomnia?

Are you stupid, they just don't want to enter their house, **ah, as for the money, they don't give a cent, you go to the court to sue them, what** mental fee.

Are you sure you want to give birth to a child for such a merciless person?

Although it is cruel to think like this, if you don't have this child, you can calmly face your new life in the future!

But if you insist on giving birth to a child for the sake of anger, then there will be many troubles in the future!

This matter is originally a family matter Why go to the court to discuss it Since there are ninety-five thousand, let's just say that we are married. The child is innocent.

There's no point in getting married, just induce labor quickly!

You guys have a good discussion, let's discuss it.

Let's just say what we have to say.

1. The attitude of the object is very important, since he does not care about the child but considers dividing the original property, then it means that the foundation of your relationship is no longer there. He is no longer the one who gives you safety and warmth, let alone reliable, but the money is greater than you and the children. He doesn't think about being responsible for you or the child.

2. You are only engaged to the civil and have not been legally registered by the state, and you are legally willing to live together without marriage, and there is no legal protection.

3. It is recommended to consider inducing labor, and then calculate the cost of inducing labor and recovering the body, and see how much you have left after deducting the rest. Negotiate compensation for a certain amount of youth loss, and finally go their separate ways. Better a finger off than always aching.

In the future, if it drags on, it will be more troublesome for the remaining children to be left without one to take responsibility, and it is too irresponsible for innocent little lives. You are also an adult and responsible for yourself and your children. It's better to end this misfortune now while there is still time to be ruthless.