What happened to people you know who were victims of domestic violence?

Most people choose to start over, a new relationship. Domestic violence is. And um, as long as in the beginning. It's not going to end. Personality can't be changed. Once there was domestic violence, he chose to divorce.

Most of those who experience domestic violence end up in divorce. They can't stand this life. There is no need to live together anymore, it will only bring more pain. And part of it is compromise, living a decent life every day. It's very uncomfortable.

Hello! Most of the people I know who have been victims of domestic violence are husbands who beat their wives, some fathers beat their children, and a very small number of wives beat their husbands, but among the people I know, there are no wives who beat their husbands.

Among these people who have been subjected to domestic violence. Some are silently enduring for the sake of their children, some are divorced and remarried, and some can't bear this crazy abuse and commit suicide. There are also some people who have run away from home without a divorce, have not returned home for many years, and still have not heard from them.

People who have experienced domestic violence generally either continue to endure it or have already separated, because it is impossible to recover to a good state once this kind of thing is encountered.

I think that after people who have suffered domestic violence, some people choose to divorce with their children, and some people choose to leave the family to work outside and do not come back all year round, they choose to escape for the sake of their children, focus on work and educating their children, flee away from home, etc., in short, I think there are many people who have suffered domestic violence and choose one is to escape, and the other is to divorce.

Those people I know who have suffered domestic violence have later chosen to divorce, or to a certain extent, to avoid these people, to start over, and the new life is not willing to endure anymore.

I think there are only 0 times and countless times of domestic violence, so most of the people who have suffered domestic violence are divorced later, or they must not be together, anyway, the final result must be the result of divorce, I think in general, this is the case of people who have experienced domestic violence, so I think it is like this.

On October 15, 2015, his wife was nearly three months pregnant, and domestic violence caused her to miscarry.

On February 1, 2116, the two divorced by mutual agreement. After the divorce, Liu asked to remarry, and repented and promised not to commit domestic violence again. So on April 8, 2116, the two remarried.

On May 5, 2016, Liu Zhoucheng committed domestic violence against his newly pregnant wife while traveling.

On October 27, 2016, he punched and kicked his wife, who was 8 months pregnant, and the wife held her stomach and knelt down late at night to beg him not to hurt the child.

On January 23, 2017, his wife, who had just given birth, was still in confinement and was subjected to domestic violence again.

Liu's wife vaguely recorded the number of domestic violence on Weibo).

Once domestic violence occurs, it is not easy to stop.

Lin Miao herself is also very clear that there is only a difference between zero and unlimited domestic violence. But the irony is that a person who sees family relationships so clearly tries to maintain this deformed home with his patience and tolerance. As a result, it only got the other party's intensification again and again.

A few days ago, Liu Zhoucheng responded publicly, but he did not involve domestic violence at all. I would love to ask him, when will you pay for the child you killed?

I know that some people who have suffered domestic violence are divorced, and it is not easy to divorce, and the domestic violence man will threaten him with her family to prevent the other party from divorcing, and it is not easy to divorce the other party after a long time.

Some left, some scattered. I just can't stand it. Women just can't stand it, and there are still ones. What has passed is to pass, and watching the children pass.

Some of the people I know who have been victims of domestic violence have since come to a different range, some of them choose to divorce with their children, some of them choose to leave their families to work outside the home, and they do not come back for many years, they choose to escape for the sake of their children, and focus on work and educating their children.

My cousin resolutely divorced after experiencing domestic violence, and if the man did not agree, he would sue for divorce directly. The custody of the child was also awarded to my cousin, and although she is now a single mother, she has a much happier life, a stable job, and the child is in school. Now you don't have to worry about domestic violence, and if you look for a partner in the future, you must find someone who is better for you, otherwise you would rather be single than make do.

I think that people who have suffered domestic violence eventually end up in divorce, because it is really unbearable, it is difficult to live for a while, and there is no need to live together, life is just pain, so I think most people who suffer from domestic violence choose divorce.

Those people I know who have suffered domestic violence basically end in divorce, and some end up committing suicide or killing each other, which is quite tragic.

Domestic violence must not be tolerated, like domestic violence, she must lack a sense of security or he has a problem himself, and then he will vent his dissatisfaction by going to domestic violence, so the person who is domestic violence will definitely end up bad, for example, divorce, break up, and also, make his wife separate, this is the certainty, it is very bad.

The people I know who have suffered from domestic violence, they are relatively strong, because they know the experience of domestic violence, so his heart is cast with an iron will, and he wants to leave the family very much, so he will work hard, study harder, work harder, they have already been admitted to study abroad.

I haven't met such a person around me, even if I'm not doing well, there is no domestic violence. Some friends are very decisive and divorce after a bad time, and some friends believe again and again that he can get better and take care of his family. I think it's the same as domestic violence, a person has a beginning and will continue to continue, if you keep being weak, then maybe you still have to continue this life.

There are not many such families, except for those who are unrepentant and repeat domestic violence repeatedly, everyone else has chosen to forgive for the sake of their children to have a stable home! It's not easy to come together, I hope those men can cherish this relationship, take care of their hands, and cherish the pillow people!

I can't tolerate it, leave immediately, and leave no regrets. When a man doesn't love you, he will beat you, you must understand this truth, how can a man who loves you beat you, how can he be willing to let you cry, so leave to make each other better. When you encounter a domestic violence man, don't think about it, forget about it as soon as possible, and learn to be ruthless.

Sometimes when a man hits you, he doesn't think about the consequences, then you don't have to think about it at all. In the face of domestic violence, women must learn to be strong and not weak. When you can forgive the man who hit you, he thinks that this is a normal thing, and the next time he encounters this kind of thing, he will continue to happen frequently, and he will not feel that he is ashamed.

Because he was divorced from his husband. I reorganized my family again, and now I live happily. I know people who are victims of domestic violence, some are divorced, start over, live, and some continue to endure, continue to live or take up the law.

Most of the people I know who have experienced domestic violence have chosen to divorce, after all, people who live in this situation will not be happy, and they will often live a little better after divorce.

Divorced, did not take a cent of the family property and left, two daughters, one person raised one, many people feel sorry for the woman, saying that it is not better to endure and wait for the family business to improve and then divorce, and now the hard-working store is handed over to others, but passers-by are not parties, who can understand the difficulties of the domestic abuser?

Some people who have suffered domestic violence have chosen to divorce, while others have swallowed their anger and will go on, and everyone's choice is different.

I still remember vividly that I was beaten because I lost my bike, and my mom directly grabbed me by the hair and banged my head against the wall, and the wall was about to collapse! Fortunately, my iron head skills are relatively good, and my mother is still scolding. This time it was not very hurtful, and it was extremely insulting.

Later, after the beating, I was kind to me again, and I specially bought mutton skewers to eat.

Another time was when I was about five years old, my speech developed into a lying stage, and I like to fantasize about making up stories, and my dad directly slapped half of my face and swollen it, and my eyes couldn't see clearly, and it took a week to go down, because my dad usually practiced martial arts, and his hand strength was relatively large.

This time it was a direct cause of problems in my normal children's language development, and I was extremely sensitive and introverted later, and I didn't dare to speak. This time, it's good for me to buy toys every day after the fight, and I want to make up for it.

I remember these two times. Every time I slap a date, I have a good and bad attitude towards me.

My mom is a guy who buys me food, and my dad buys me a lot of fun.

And the beating that sticks out in my mind was the experience of my new neighbor who moved in next door, the kid in that family. His family directly hung the child's hands with a rope, and then pumped it with a mixed belt, and once hung it directly from the big tree outside the yard, which was seen by the neighbors, and the insult and hurt were great.

The little boy's eyes were really cold and indifferent at that time, and there was no emotion in his eyes. And I never heard him cry out in pain or cry. It's all expressionless.

A boy who has only just entered elementary school can make any mistake and be punished like a prisoner.

Both of us live on the first floor, the two are connected, the old community is not soundproof, and I basically hear them scolding children every night.

Later, the neighbor moved away, and I don't know what happened to the child.

The word domestic violence is shocking and terrifying. Domestic violence is a type of aggression committed through violent means, verbal violence, intimidation, etc. It is what we resist and spurn in today's society.

It is normal for two people to live together and fight petty, but if they beat someone and are mentally destroyed, it will rise to the height of the law. Be sure to pick up the law** and have the courage to defend your legal rights! If you really encounter domestic violence, how to deal with it, so that you can protect your rights and protect your own safety?

When suffering from domestic violence, you must look for a period to call the police, seek the protection of the police, be sure to keep a good police record, as well as police records, for follow-up preparation, don't think about swallowing your anger, there are only zero and countless times of domestic violence, and swallowing your anger for a while will only be exchanged for the next time. China's law guarantees personal safety, and in the face of domestic violence, we can even apply to the people's court for personal protection. Don't feel that the ugliness of the family should not be publicized, nothing is more important than our lives, we must let our relatives and friends know, and we must also obtain important certifications.

When we suffer domestic violence, we must go to the hospital as soon as we call the police to be responsible for our personal safety, go to the hospital in time to check the injury, be sure to keep the hospital's consultation records and payment records, and conduct a comprehensive examination of our body to see if there is any physical damage. There are still a long days ahead, everything has a chance to return to the original point, we must protect our bodies, do not give up on ourselves, and solve problems positively.

After calling the police, you can't protect yourself from retaliation, so you should notify relatives and friends to move out of the place where you live, pack up your things, and find a safe place to relocate. It is best to be around family and friends, so as to ensure personal safety, but also to provide psychological comfort, and be sure to keep the scene of domestic violence and your own injuries, so as to prepare for the protection of rights in the future.

Don't swallow your anger after encountering domestic violence, you should choose to call the police, or use the law to protect your own rights and interests, and put your husband's behavior on the Internet.

When encountering domestic violence, you should choose to report to the police, there are only zero and countless times of domestic violence, don't blindly tolerate the other party.

You can call 110 directly, which is not allowed in life, and this behavior is illegal.

Domestic violence, what a harsh word, what a painful memory, the first time I watched "Don't Talk to Strangers", I didn't know what domestic violence was at that time, I just felt terrible like that, bloody, and hopeless.

I know an aunt, her husband sometimes beats her after drinking, and then she goes back to her mother's house, her husband wakes up and admits his mistake to talk about it, and the mother-in-law also persuaded her to have two daughters after all, and finally took her home, but there is still a next time. It's very sad, my aunt's husband liked my aunt very much back then, and finally married her home after grinding at my aunt's house for a long time, and I didn't let my aunt suffer anything in the future, and life got better and better. Later, a lot of things suddenly happened at home, and the aunt mentioned divorce, and I don't know what happened in the end.

Most of life is bland, even if it is light and tasteless, there is no need for violence to adjust it, it could have been happy, after a domestic violence, I thought that Langyou and Zi turned back, but it is far from over, for the sake of the child or what compromise can not be exchanged for stability after that. And the children are exposed to it, maybe it will be a shadow for a lifetime, and some will do the same when they grow up, which is even more unfortunate.

When I was a child, there was a time when my grandfather beat my grandmother, I don't know why, I just remember that it was a rainy day and a little cloudy, my grandmother was sitting upstairs, the light was a little dim, and I still saw her tears falling all the time. Even at that time, I knew that this was wrong, that it was wrong to quarrel and do it. At their age, they looked down on a lot of things, and many things were settled, but the grandmother at that time should have been very cold, how many years of suffering together, she would actually do something to her.

Domestic violence, no matter what it is, should not be forgiven, even if the past is not to blame, it is an eternal thorn in the heart, once there is a next time, it will only hurt more. We all know that violence cannot solve the problem, family is not the enemy, fists should not be directed at the family, maybe it was that domestic violence that destroyed an otherwise happy home. Domestic violence is the most despicable behavior, some people grovel outside and shout at their families at home and beat and scold at every turn, regretting such people are the most pathetic, only dare to hurt the people who love themselves, and wait until the people around them have left to know how outrageous the mistake is.

I hope that domestic violence is far away from our lives, and I see the news of some parents' domestic violence against their children, how ruthless it should be to get started, saying that children are the hearts and minds of parents, and children need a healthy growth environment, and I hope that parents can control their emotions, that is your child, not the object of venting.