Why do some people like to blame others for everything?

This is not an isolated case, but a universal phenomenon.

It's a real villain who has done bad things and confessed to everything.

It is a hypocrite who does not admit to doing bad things.

A real villain dares to do and admit it, it is not scary, but it can be called a true temperament.

I'm most afraid of being a hypocrite who doesn't recognize it.

The root of this comes from people's innate desire to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages.

When it comes to human nature, it is the inherent goodness of nature that Mencius said or the inherent evil of nature as Xunzi said.

I don't think it makes sense for both of them, when it comes to good and evil, it involves social issues, and people are only born with animal nature, that is, to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages.

Returning to the topic, attributing all the evil deeds he has done to others shows that he pursues the benefits of doing evil and tends to avoid the harm of responsibility.

I have to say that this is the choice of most people in this world, everyone has evil, and they all want to put the blame on others, but the big evil done by others has caused your dissatisfaction, and the small evil you have done has not been discovered by you.

In fact, the only difference between such a person who seeks advantages and avoids disadvantages and you is that he is less socialized than you, and you are tightly constrained by the moralization that society wants you to accept. But in fact, society is a forest, and people who adapt to the laws of the forest may live a happier life than you.

The main thing is that this person does not take responsibility, puts all the responsibility on others, and then finds reasons for himself, such a person, in fact, will flash in each of us, just like our second personality, will always blame the problems and faults on others, and never say their responsibilities, or show them, so this is also wrong, we have to say more responsibilities, so that the problem can be solved.

Blame others just don't want to take responsibility, afraid of taking responsibility, this kind of psychology is actually very timid, cowardly asked her how strong she looks on the outside, his heart, are relatively empty, weak afraid of being hurt, afraid that others will know something, so try to hide and shirk responsibility.

There are indeed this kind of people, this kind of people have a negative mentality, they don't like anything all day long, they are not confident, they feel that they are incapable and incapable, the key is the lack of self-confidence, and they should be properly enlightened.

Prove that this person is a very selfish person.,Never find your own mistakes.,Always guess that the orange will blame others.,This kind of person is generally very selfish.,It's better to have less contact.··

Actually, there is no reason for doing anything, understand? Friends, I wish you happiness!

No matter what you do, someone will complain, don't do this kind of thing in the future, this kind of thing, whatever, others won't appreciate you if you bring it up, what is everyone's wish, others can't blame things secretly, so you can only blame you.

Because I don't have the courage to take the initiative to stand up and take responsibility.

Some people are like that, you don't pay attention to them, and the next time there is something like this, don't get involved

This is human nature, if you do a good job, people will not say that you are good, and if you do not do well, people will keep saying that you are not good.

Such people like to shirk responsibility, have no sense of responsibility, and dare not admit that they have done something wrong.

This kind of person is even more excessive, they are selfish, they push things to others to do, the reward for good work is his, and the responsibility for bad work is someone else's. ‍‍

This type of person is always right in his own cognition, and if he is wrong, it is the mistake of others. Objectively, these people also need to be held responsible when there is a fault, but in these people, they will always be innocent and not at fault, and those who are at fault are others. And this type of person is very easy to be unable to become good friends with others in work and life, which is very detrimental to the establishment of various relationships.

Some people don't say that they know that what they are doing is right and that others are wrong, but they are shirking responsibility when they know that they are wrong, and this kind of person is easy to be excluded in the team. ‍‍

It is definitely a bad habit to like to blame others and shift the blame to others, which has no intention of solving the problem, but only reduces one's own pressure by passing the buck.

Incompetent people like to blame others, they often choose to escape when they encounter problems, and immediately shirk their responsibilities to protect themselves when they encounter problems, this type of people are very cowardly, when we encounter these people in life, try to stay away. ‍‍

Maybe it's just the habit of reducing one's own responsibilities by sharing responsibilities among everyone, but I think it's a character problem. ‍‍

These people often fail to understand themselves correctly and change their mistakes in time, which can easily lead them to failure.

I like to push the responsibility of things to others, which is a kind of evasion psychology, and I habitually evade responsibility when encountering things.

It's a kind of psychology that is purely selfish.,I feel like I want to shirk responsibility.,A person who doesn't have a sense of responsibility.。

I feel like it's a manifestation of bad character, but in fact, I'm completely pretending to be confused.

Actually, I think it's okay to think about this question for yourself. The father of psychology, Funk, proposed the method of introspection, what does it mean? Part of that is probably about feeling your own thoughts.

Have you ever blamed someone else for your faults? If so, how did you feel at the time? If you make a mistake, you will be punished, and you should be afraid, right?

So you need someone to punish instead of you, don't you? People are seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages, and if you are truly willing to take responsibility for your mistakes, please raise your hand. So when a student is fighting, the words that the student blurts out in front of the teacher are likely to be:

He hit me first. ”

Then again, no one wants to be punished, that's my understanding.

You are the closest person in addition to his parents, work and life encounter unpleasant, will definitely think of talking to you or venting for the first time, you are his safe haven, sometimes he will be too radical, you better be able to tolerate it, and when he is peaceful, he will feel wrong, will apologize to you, which will also make him value your importance more, a woman who can tolerate her husband is a good woman, of course, if the number of times is over, it is not good, there is a bottom line for everything, after all, women are not men's punching bagsOnce or twice in a while, you use your shoulders as his safe haven.

Most of the current Chinese people have this kind of mentality, and most of them do not reflect on themselves first, but unanimously say: "You are to blame, you are to blame", even if 99% of the mistakes of the whole thing come from others, don't you have the fault of the 1%? Maybe it's that 1% that's the crux of the whole thing.

Therefore, don't always think about "all blame you" before something happens, think about whether you are wrong, everything will have a cause and effect, don't blindly look at the immediate results, and ignore the key to the problem, look at the problem to see the essence of the problem, and don't blindly shirk the responsibility, press everything on the head of others, and don't do to others what you don't want to do to yourself.