In the cold war with my sister, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-25
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You call your girlfriend your sister?

    Figure this out to better your problem.

    Well, a woman's nerves are inherently very sensitive, in fact, don't look at the fact that you can make her angry and coax her before, in fact, her heart is changing. She forgives you every time and expects you not to do it again in the future, but what, what is the result?

    Actually, if you are children and are not sensible, then it is barely normal.

    If you're over 20 years old, you should know what it means to be a "good man."

    Do good men hurt their beloved women? Still always annoyed by the anger, thinking that it would be good to coax?

    Boyfriend and girlfriend are meant to hurt, to love, to lean on and comfort each other when hurt. Why do boyfriends and girlfriends get closer than friends? Because they're going to be better!

    Closer than other people's relationships, (not just referring to **), but you are always noisy, and even sometimes feel that the other party is very annoying, so will you feel that it is not as easy as being with a friend?

    In fact, why do you always quarrel, why did you not say it this time, we naturally don't know, but what I said above are big principles, if you can understand this, I think you, not only you, many problems between lovers have been solved.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    First of all, declare. My nickname is Tell the Truth. It's not about people.

    Rely on men, what are you arguing about, what is there to be noisy about. What if you want to be so noisy now, if you get married? 365 days, 300 days noisy. That's not a divorce.

    Reflect on yourself. If there is no result on reflection, then it will be divided. Isn't it better than arguing with you every day!

    She just doesn't want to quarrel with you every day. If you love her, you will do a review. It's okay to promise it in the future, but if you want to do it, don't say it. Otherwise. Think for yourself about the consequences. 1

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's normal for girls to be noisy, don't pay too much attention to it, just coax, you must not be serious with her,.

    Also, she really wants to break up with you.

    I am still going to do it! Sympathize!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    She probably likes you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Okay, brother, don't be sad, I don't know what to say to you, you should pay attention to yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Buy her a gift and you'll be done.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Summary. It shouldn't be much bigger, my sister and I too, just over a year older, have been unaccustomed to each other for a long time, a little thing she will also chirp crookedly at Sang scolded Huai, and her attitude towards my mother is not good, she has to rely on herself for everything, even the position of the broom who moves, but there is no bad heart, she tells people a hundred bad things about me, I may say that she has to consider whether to say two sentences. I don't worry about whether the relationship is good or bad, and if you're not happy together, then don't be together.

    My sister and I don't like each other and often have cold wars, what should I do?

    It shouldn't be much bigger, my sister and I are too, just over a year older, and we haven't been used to each other for a long time, and she will chirp and scold Huai at a little thing, and she has a bad attitude towards my mother, she has to rely on herself for everything, and she can't even move the position of the broom, but she doesn't have a bad heart, she says a hundred bad things about me, I may say that she has to consider whether she should say two sentences. I don't worry about whether the relationship is good or bad, and if you're not happy together, then don't be together.

    Here's the thing.

    Could it be that my boyfriend and I are both soldiers, because my boyfriend Naye has been a soldier for a long time, and it will be more convenient to play with his mobile phone, but her boyfriend can't, he watches me and my boyfriend ** chat every day, and I am jealous when I see me receiving my boyfriend's gift through Dongzhou.

    There is a reason for this You are sisters From Hu Shou to Hu Shou Playing Big, what can I say if I don't make a noise Think about the number of pants she likes** Take her out and have a good chat with her.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hello, dear, I am very happy to receive your order, can analyze and solve the problem for you. My sister and my mother have a unilateral cold war, and they have a relationship with their sister, so if you don't want to see this kind of scene, you can reconcile from the middle. This matter has something to do with you, you can take the initiative to tell your mother.

    Or tell my sister that you know that you didn't do well in this matter, and then you don't want such a thing to happen between mother and son, and I hope to go back to the past. Don't lead the mold in the Cold War anymore. If it's useful, please give a thumbs up!

    Here, I also wish you good health, all the best, and Huai Shen and his heart come true! During the epidemic, pay attention to filial piety and do a good job of safety protection measures! Momda

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Summary. Hello, in fact, it is inevitable that such problems will occur between the two sisters, but what I am afraid of is that no one is willing to bow their heads, no one is willing to admit their mistakes, and they have not even forgiven each other for a long time, so it is not good to make the trouble more and more serious, and even more and more misunderstandings, so even if the two sides are unhappy, there is always someone who has to bow their heads in advance to admit their mistakes, and the relationship between the two sisters will get better and better.

    Hello, in fact, it is inevitable that such a problem will happen to the two sisters, but what I am afraid of is that no one is willing to bow their heads, who is the first to be high, they are not willing to admit their mistakes, and they have not even forgiven each other for a long time, so it is not good to make the trouble more and more serious, and even more and more misunderstandings.

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  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There are the following steps to resolve grievances:

    1. Let the subject of the resolution first feel your sincerity of reconciliation, such as small help and maintenance in his life, so that he can feel that the emotions between you are not irreconcilable. You still care about maintaining him.

    2. When his defense line is lowered [when a person is bored or when he needs company], take the initiative to reconcile, and take the initiative to ask the other party what his attitude towards you is now [he will not refuse your friendliness]. Generally answer: Don't mention the forgotten or previous things, this is an intention to reconcile.

    4. You must take the initiative to express friendship to the other party, when you feel that you have misunderstood him and don't care anymore, he has returned to the level of good friends, and when the two get along.

    Bring the topic into the previous misunderstanding and rationally analyze the problems existing in the misunderstanding. In order to achieve mutual understanding and tolerance of previous misunderstandings, and eliminate the impact of misunderstandings on your relationship from the heart.

    5. Respect each other in the future, don't take it for granted that others are good to you, and neither can your parents. Not to mention the sisters!

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