I have low self esteem in my hometown, but it would be nice to change cities. Why?

In fact, it's still a problem in your heart, it's not inferiority, but what you hear every day is only nagging, or words that make you discouraged, naturally you also feel that you can't do it yourself, and after you come out of a different city, no one says these words anymore, and you will encourage yourself in your own heart, so of course you can do it (in fact, you are originally a person with strong self-esteem), because you are the only one in this city, you are very strange, and if you talk a little more, you are bold (maybe inappropriate, But this means), no one will pour cold water on you, and the other thing I said, you have to rely on yourself, so you will encourage yourself, and the reason why you have those thoughts when you go home is just because it is the environment that you are used to, and once you enter that environment, you also enter your original role, so this may not change, and once you come out, you play another role of yourself. In fact, if you want to go home and maintain your current state, it's very simple, have the courage to face all verbal attacks on you, don't be afraid of offending people, whether it's your family or people in your hometown, you have to dare to fight back, show them a different self, and naturally the shadow in your heart will disappear, there are many ways and means, you need to rely on your own grasp, what I'm talking about is just a route, you might as well try it!

Everyone has a desire to perform, and on the outside your desire to perform is stimulated, and you want to make a good impression on others, and you show it. So don't feel inferior.

But when you are at home, because there are many relatives and acquaintances, everyone knows you very well. So this relationship makes your desire to perform not strong on the outside, so you have a feeling of inferiority. In addition, the family always talks about you, so it aggravates the inferiority.

In fact, the inferiority complex you are talking about is not inferiority in the real sense. This is not how low self-esteem is defined in counseling. You're just a difference in the performance caused by the environment.

In fact, you can think of your hometown as another city. Make up your mind to give everyone a different impression. However, this effort will require a lot of effort.

Make your parents and the people back home completely change their perception of you! The first thing is to change yourself. There is always a bright side and a dark side to a person's life. Bring out your own shining side.

To overcome this state of affairs is to make a career out of one's own life. This business can be big or small, as long as you do it seriously!

Are you a woman?

Now there are too many patriarchs, if you want to open a little, it's okay, they are always their biological parents, you can't worry about them.

Everyone has shortcomings, including their parents, a little more tolerance, a little less thinking, and there is nothing wrong with believing.

I've had the experience that it's impossible to change your parents, and to change the situation, you have to do things that they don't think you're cowardly, not necessarily something, but what matters is that you dare to make decisions, you know.

Prove yourself with real actions. They will change their perception of you, and you will be relieved of the past.

Ignore them.

It's a little better to mix outside.

It's a long time to go back.

No one knows your past.

No one knows everything about you.

Go your own way and let others say that you actually have low self-esteem, or you can communicate with your family and tell them not to hit you. Say something encouraging, because it will have a big impact on you, and I think they will understand.

You're '86.

Still young. If you don't want to be at home, you can go outside.

But be prepared to endure hardships.

It's really not easy to get outside alone.

But as long as you try.

Good work.

Will use the interest.

In fact, every parent loves their children.

Some may not be very well expressed.

You have to think more about them, too.

Also, read more books.

It will be of great help to your work, personality, and behavior.

Since it's their fault, don't you refute it? Be a submissive child?!

Sometimes you have to argue with reason, you don't have to be afraid of them, you have the courage to say what you think, let them know that you are an assertive and idealistic person, not a little kid who has no interest in their eyes.

People in your hometown are generally the same people, as long as you do a good job, they will not ridicule you if they know it.

Dear, I want to tell you that you are not wrong, if someone else is biased, it is that person's problem, and it has nothing to do with you.

Of course, you don't bother to associate with such people, do you? We need people who are as sincere as we are ...

Thankfully, that time has passed.

I also cried because my best friend was more alienated from me, but then I learned that everyone has their own life, and you can't ask others to be close to you and be nice to you. Don't crave it, then you will never be disappointed.

Also, you lack self-confidence ... This, I hope you can adjust your mentality, don't always instill in yourself the concept that you are a rural child, you are inferior, there is no such thing. Other people don't necessarily think so, but you have a strong sex for yourself, so why bother?

I have always said that if all the people in this world look down on you, it doesn't matter, I will never look down on myself.

You have to affirm yourself, improve your self-confidence, put aside the gloomy psychology of the past, and open your mind to accept such bright sunshine, and you will find that the world is a better place because of your existence.

Your value lies in the continuous self-realization, dear, I believe that you are a capable person, just a momentary drill horns.

To be a personality, free and easy, confident person, we don't expect all people to like us, we only ask to do what we want, so that we have no regrets in life...

Frankly, you should be extremely proud of your rural child. Hehe... There are some trials that those city kids will never have.

Be thankful for what I have, be thankful for what I don't ...

Bless you ...

1.In fact, what you see is only some understanding of the people at the bottom of society, and the less money those people have, the more they like to look down on those who have no money than themselves, and get psychological satisfaction from it.

2.People are poor, but if you are poor, you really have nothing.

3.If you really try hard to change your fate, prove it with your actions, and don't care about anyone's eyes. Because what you see now is limited, and the wider world has to be grasped by your own efforts.

4.God is fair to remember this sentence, don't just feel that you are unlucky, everyone actually has misfortune and unhappiness, they are all relative, and they are not perfect.

First of all, don't isolate yourself too much, you are also a member of the group, communicate with them more, find like-minded people as friends, and make your personality cheerful.

Sometimes, low self-esteem is caused by yourself, you can think of yourself as the same as them, I am in the same situation as you, I was still in the fifth grade because of the demolition of the bullet train and railway, and now I feel very casual.

What's so inferior, there is a family in our class with similar conditions to you, but she has never had low self-esteem, and she has many friends, don't be inferior, don't dislike yourself, if you dislike yourself, how can you expect others to make friends with you.

Low self-esteem is a lack of self-confidence. In fact, as long as you have a correct understanding of yourself and can look at others and yourself holistically, you will feel that you are not so bad, but you may feel that you are not in the best state or care too much about what others think or think. And other people's opinions or ideas are often one-sided, causing you to have an unnecessary sense of inferiority.

As long as you will do something bad, repeat it a few more times, you will gradually become familiar with it, things can be done well, give yourself more encouragement, and believe that you have this ability.

People can't retreat when they encounter difficulties, although you have tried, but people will encounter many difficulties in their lives, and you must try your best to overcome them in order to achieve victory. We should learn more from their work experience, learn from their strengths, observe their shortcomings, and work hard in this area to overcome them. Therefore, you have to brace yourself and work hard again.

I believe that my ability will be able to overcome difficulties, because man will conquer the sky! Give yourself more encouragement, let everyone cheer you up together, let you cheer up, and work hard.

A person should have a correct understanding of himself, because people's personalities are very different, and they should understand their own strengths and weaknesses. Learning to build on your strengths and avoid your weaknesses will help you develop your own unique self-confidence. People are constantly changing and developing, and we need to constantly update and constantly improve our understanding of ourselves in order to make ourselves better and more perfect.

To understand ourselves correctly, we must look at ourselves from a comprehensive and developmental perspective. Therefore, people especially need to be full of confidence to achieve their goals, their academic career.

First of all, you have to have self-confidence, think that you can do anything, and only realize that through your own efforts, you will definitely be able to achieve your goals. Mentally confirm that you can do it, and cheer yourself up. As long as you are mentally prepared, you will not be held back by the slightest difficulty.

Believe in it, and you can complete the task with confidence. The world is developing, the times are progressing, and people must also advance with the pace of the times. Human development goals are also changing from time to time.

As long as you overcome your inferiority complex, build self-confidence, and be the creator of your own happiness. As long as you have self-confidence, you can overcome any difficulties, and nothing will be difficult for you; Your academic career will be successful.

If you don't look good, what's the inferiority complex? It's a matter of the heart! It's okay, it's really okay. Now a lot of attention is paid to the connotation, if a person does not have good thoughts and cultivation, no matter how beautiful he is, he will still be spurned, what is the use of being beautiful alone?

It makes people feel uncomfortable or has no quality, and no one appreciates how beautiful it looks.

So you don't need to be upset, the key is to improve your taste. There is also the need to have enough faith to face life.

Live. However, it's not that you don't pay attention to your appearance at all, as long as you dress decensively, be full of confidence, and exude a unique charm and temperament, I think it's more important than being beautiful, isn't it?

The face is nothing (of course it is better to be pretty).It's mostly a matter of the heart.

Don't feel inferior anymore, there should be some enlightenment.

Let's face life with a smile. The more optimistic you are, the more life will smile at you.

Think about the question, who exactly are we living for? Obviously, it is for ourselves, we live in the inner world, all the pain we tolerate is borne by ourselves, and happiness is our own business. So what effect does other people's perception of us, or discrimination, have on us?

It doesn't matter, and my classmates won't see each other at all after graduation, even if they can sometimes see each other, that is, just a few words. So live for yourself, be yourself, and not live in someone else's world. It doesn't matter what others think of you, it doesn't matter what it doesn't matter to you.

So whether you are happy at work, whether you like your job or not, whether you are happy in your marriage or not, these are the most important things. Be the most yourself, go your own way, choose your favorite partner, and do the work you like, how good. (Hope adoption).

Beauty is not about appearances. Don't always feel ugly, everyone has something they are good at. Low self-esteem must learn to let go, because after a long time, it may dilute what you yearn for, and thus deny yourself.

What a person fears most is that he can't find his original self and do nothing. I hope you slowly let go and find the faith in your heart.

What's this, I just think there are people who are uglier than me, besides, you will be made fun of by people for your inferiority, be confident, it's not a big deal.

No one has shortcomings, how can there be such a perfect person, I hope you are more confident in your life.

Beauty and ugliness should not be judged only on appearances.

The most important thing is the connotation.

The beauty and ugliness of appearance can be changed by clothing.

Internally, you need to increase your knowledge content!

Experience.

Is it necessary, man. Men are ugly, it's nothing, the main thing is to be like a man, don't be obscene, that's right.

Let's learn to dress up first.

The important thing is self-affirmation and finding the best in yourself.

I can't find someone to ask around. o(∩_o

Every day in the mirror and say, "I'm the best." Unique. ”

You'll believe it after a long time.

No one pays attention to you when you go out on the street.

You're not going to be ugly, are you?

And ah. You can always keep your head down and pick up money!

That hairpin story is good!! Right! The key is to have self-confidence!!

Hello landlord.

You don't have to feel inferior, because the beauty of the soul is the real beauty. The world is wonderful!

Then you just hint in your heart and say that you are beautiful

People who always think that they are ugly, in fact, they are not so ugly, and the really ugly people are not so inferior, you may be too demanding of yourself, too much pursuit of perfection, of course, this society that looks at faces also has an impact on psychology, if you are not a person who eats with your face, everyone is an ordinary person, so you don't need to rely on your face to win the praise of others to gain self-confidence. You can focus your attention elsewhere, such as cultivating your hobbies, reading some books, making some efforts in your areas of expertise, and finding self-confidence, not just looking at your face every day.