About love, about a third party, I need help

First of all, I admit that you are not a puppy love, it's normal to be a sophomore in high school, and there are still many people who go to open a house in junior high school? It's vulgar ... But it's reality.

I met in the club, why did this man text you? First of all, because you think you're prettier than his existing wife, I think as a man, that's normal. In my opinion, this can only be explained as eating in the bowl and looking into the pot.

You think, it seems that he is indispensable, but have you ever thought that he would think like that, I, this man thinks, to put it bluntly, it is just one ambiguity after another.

Comparing introverts? Hehe, I can't feel it, it depends on the needs of men.

Tangled? It's not an ordinary entanglement, I think you're too involved, let's talk about it, otherwise, it must be you who is hurt.

Such a person is just a passerby in your life, have a long experience, and the road is still long.

Suggestion: cut off your contact with him as soon as possible, of course you can continue to contact, but just don't let the cat eat the fish.

I don't know if you're going to be upset if you say that, but I'll be honest, such a man is not reliable.

Why didn't he offer to be with you? Because he's struggling mentally, too. He really likes his girlfriend in the future and won't have such a relationship with you.

He will like his current girlfriend, and he is very willing to know few people who are better than his girlfriend before, and those who are better than his girlfriend will not look down on him. So find an improvisation.

Now he has a drum in his heart.

feels that this girlfriend is not worthy of him now. You think, later appear one better than a few.

You're going to end up like that.

The human heart is actually very terrible. There won't be anybody.

You're still young, and you don't have much social experience.

There are many things you don't understand, and you don't want to be simplistic about the world.

This kind of man uses you to embody his sense of worth as a man. You're the dessert, the dessert after he eats the meal. Tell you for sure how he feels about you is called "like", but from a woman's point of view, he is the scum of men.

In the future, he will be able to say generously that he only treats you as a friend, and that it is only you who suffers.

Your mentality is that you don't get him and think he's good In fact, if you leave him for 3 months, you will find that you don't feel anything about him at all. And you'll find that he doesn't deserve to be worth a little bit more than you.

He likes you, it sounds like you're prettier and smarter than his original GF, but I don't know how they feel.

He didn't break up with his original partner, maybe there are still uncertainties on your side.

Ask him to make a decision.

But this is a bit immoral for him, people are selfish, you decide for yourself.

It can only mean that he is just playing with you, and if he really likes you, he would have broken up with his girlfriend a long time ago.

Also, even if you are together, if you meet someone more beautiful than you in the future, it will still dump you.

Don't be stupid......

Sober up, girl!! It's cruel to yourself, you know!! Who can't you find on your terms?

There will be better people in your life in the future, college, and work in the future, there will be people who really love you and love you, this is just a habit, you know, and it only takes 2 months to get rid of this habit, don't be stupid!

Little sister, you are so young, you haven't entered this society yet, can you know what will happen tomorrow?

Study hard, and when you enter the society, you can find the person you like. Now it's so small, it's a bit superficial to say that you like to say love, you can't say it's fake, it's just too immature.

This is ambiguous. He has a wife and is still like you. I've heard of the three no's men. No initiative, no refusal, no responsibility. The best thing to do is to be a three-no-woman. Ignore and don't respond. If you still insist. It must be you who is hurting.

He doesn't deserve it, because, I'm in the same situation as you, sister, I'm in the second year of junior high school, he; also betrayed me, no, it should be me who was his third party, I'm very sad...

Give up, don't be entangled with him, long pain is better than short pain...

I don't think he's going to be nice to you.

Girlfriends are ugly and have bad habits together, so they shouldn't care about that, and he says that you are good-looking, and he doesn't mean to be nice to you, so he won't be nice to you because you're beautiful If it's really because of this, then will you be nice to him?

And why do you like him? Think he's important?

People will like many people in their lives, but they like to have them without a watch.

If you like it, say it boldly! Don't be shy

Let's go, though you can't bear to.

This is a phenomenon that should not exist in the relationship, even if you don't tell him, you must quickly stop the precipice and don't continue.

You are in love, you are in love, you are in love, you need to tell him? You may not have to tell him, but if you don't say it, he'll know sooner or later. If you don't like him, break up with him.

Marriage and relationships come first and come first. If you can't distinguish each other, rely on liking, plunder, and take it for yourself, you may destroy not one person's happiness but more people's happiness. Imagine that someone else has a lover and a child, and originally lived a peaceful life, but due to the insertion of a third party, the family is scattered.

The lover's heart is also hurt by extramarital affairs, and the heart of having children may also be hurt. destroyed other people's feelings and fulfilled himself, but he didn't know that he would have to repay it one day. The third party builds happiness on the basis of other people's suffering, and has lost in character, can the happiness that has been plundered be lived with peace of mind?

Feelings are such a thing, they can't be explained, they don't know the way, they arise for no reason, and wise people will hide this feeling in their hearts and will strangle it in the stage of covering their teeth. Only those who are hot-headed and selfish will be desperate, and this is an immoral act. A person has lived alone for a long time, and by chance he meets a person he likes, but this person is already married.

At this time, I want to gamble on love, but I feel morally unpassable. I want to give up, but I can't bear it, and my heart is entangled. Whatever your reason, it's not right to be a third party.

You once felt that you were different from other third parties, they were all for money, but you weren't, you were for love. But so what, whatever your reason, you are a third party.

As a third party, whether you are married or unmarried, meddling in other people's families is immoral after all, and it will be condemned and spurned by society! If you are married, your actions will cause harm to your parents and children! You let them be pointed at, and they can't hold their heads up and behave!

An extramarital affair is tantamount to drinking a donkey to quench your thirst, but drinking a donkey to quench your thirst will eventually come at a price, either "love and hate, start over", or "be obsessed with grievances, don't leave it at that", or maybe there are other ways and results, but no matter which path you choose, it will always be painful, entangled, contradictory, and struggling, and you will have to bear the pressure and bear the unpredictable consequences, and in the end you can't escape the worldly eyes and the discussion behind it.

In love, I have never been a third party, and the so-called third party is a junior. Then I think it's an immoral act, spurned in love. So I'd rather not pursue this kind of love, and I don't want to be someone else's third party and be a little bit of my own.

In love, I am a person with principles and bottom lines, and when I love each other deeply, I also hope that the other person can be happy, when he has his own belonging. I don't disturb his feelings.

I don't, because I think it's very immoral to have a third party in a relationship, I don't want to disturb other people's love, and I don't want others to disturb my love, this is my personal opinion.

In the relationship, I have always respected the other party, and I will not meddle in other people's feelings, let alone be a third party, because I think that if I love someone, I must be single-minded, not betrayal, and loyal to the relationship.

In love, of course, I have never been a third party, because the third party will not be blessed, so I will not choose to be someone else's junior, and I should pursue my own happiness.

This problem is not easy to define, everyone has their own opinion on the word third party, I personally think that knowing that others have boyfriends, have families, and still go up, destroy other people's feelings, this is the third party, individuals are very disdainful of this, and I don't understand other people's behavior.

I will not be a third party in love, because the appearance of a third party will disrupt the relationship between the parties, hurt the love of the parties, and will also hurt myself.

Never, because I really hate such a woman, and I feel that such a person is really destroying the happiness of others, so I don't want to be such a person.

I have never been a third party at all, mainly because I myself think that third parties are particularly excessive. In addition, those who do third parties must be morally corrupt people.

Hello, I haven't, because I won't ruin someone else's love for my own sake. I won't ruin other people's love for myself.

It is an unfortunate thing to meet a third party in love, so how to deal with it, let's find out together.

a. Unscrupulous means, insist on keeping this by your side

If you want to get love by any means, you have a deep sense of control and self-awareness of love. In love, you have extremely low self-esteem, extreme insecurity, and fear of losing the other person. But you are too self-centered, so you don't want to be rejected and you can't lose to others.

You may not love each other like this, but for the sake of face and winning or losing, you will do whatever it takes to keep him by your side. You have a very strong willpower, you rarely take into account the thoughts and opinions of others, and you are desperate to get the other person, but you usually get the opposite result.

b. Let him choose, and he will not take the initiative to fight for it

Let him choose you think you are a gentleman, and he is in charge of his love. You are indeed a gentleman, and you also love and respect each other, and you are the complete opposite type of unscrupulous person. You don't want your love to be wishful thinking, and if he's gone, then love is gone.

You will have no regrets, bless him, and be able to afford to let go of love. However, if you don't take the initiative to fight for it, he will think that you are cold, ruthless, and don't care about him. Therefore, we must also change ourselves appropriately in order to hold on to happiness.

c. Give up on your own initiative

Do you not have enough confidence in yourself when you give up? Why did you abandon your armor and flee before the war began? In fact, not only do you have no confidence in yourself, but you also have no confidence in love.

You want to accept a passive, casual love, and the ancient marriage is best for you. You are a love pessimist and always think in the bad direction of love. If you are so pessimistic all the time, it will be difficult to find the right person, and passivity will make you lose love completely.

d. Don't care about the result, show your sincerity like the other party, and actively strive for it

Love is a matter of two people, and you who choose this answer know the meaning of love. In fact, for you, you may have a very thorough understanding of love. You actively strive for it, because happiness can only be obtained by striving for yourself.

You don't care about the outcome because you know that feelings can't be forced. You are not a person without confidence, you are responsible enough for your own feelings and the feelings of others, and even if you fail, you will not regret it. Put love in a transcendent angle, don't use love to trap each other, you are a woman who is definitely worthy of love.

Believe that your love must be ahead, and happiness will eventually come to you.