Since I gave up my crush for 5 years, I haven t had the urge to fall in love until now, what should

It's time for you to try to change yourself, you've given up once, you can't give up now, you should cheer up, true happiness is still waiting for you.

Slowly you will meet good people to bring you out.

Your damage is too great, and feelings need to be sparked by the impact of the heart.

If you still like this crush, go and confess to her and see the results.

Habit of having to be alone with you to get by.

One day you will understand that in the past we lost our first love, and thought that the whole world had lost color. Thinking that I will never meet love again in this life, who can give me such a subtle warmth that cannot be known to outsiders? However, nothing in this world can be absolute.

One day you will know that there is actually a person who has been waiting for your arrival at a certain intersection in the future for a long time... Whether this time is happy or sad, whether it will be good or bad in the future, we have already realized that some people are hard to forget, they are all in the past. There are still so many people in this world to love, why bother with an impossible answer?

You haven't met someone who catches your heart yet.

It's because you haven't seen someone you like to talk to, and when the time comes, you'll have the confidence to have the urge to fall in love.

Try to forget him, or get her back again.

Ah, I'm just like you, I'm just getting cold.

But I think since we don't have the impulse, let's wait for others to chase after us, hehe, fate will always come!

I can't get it back. But maybe you should be brave and give it a try!

It means that you haven't given up yet.

Hehe, just wait for the appearance of your favorite.

It may be that you have a crush for five years or still think that the previous one is good.

It would be nice to see you more attractive in the future.

Why did you give up? So far, I haven't had the urge to fall in love because I can't forget it? If not, then you probably haven't met someone you feel it yet. Wait, it's better to have less than to overuse.

Hello, although I don't know what the reason for wanting to give up is, but the types of reasons are nothing more than two, one is emotional contradictions, the other is subject to resistance from all sides, I think yours should be the first one, I want to tell you, first, four years of feelings are not easy to come by, a person's life is not a few four years, second, there can be no perfect person in this world, marriage is composed of two people with different personalities, and the long-term husband and wife are not born to be harmonious, they are all after a period of running-in, The so-called run-in is to learn to think from each other's point of view during this period, tolerate each other more, understand more, as long as it is not a matter of principle, you can be tolerant, no one is perfect, you love a person to love her all, advantages or shortcomings, when you fell in love with each other, it was nothing more than the advantages of the other party that attracted you, then you also have to accept each other's shortcomings, think about your original intention, don't you want to live happily with each other forever? What about today? Third, the so-called tolerance and understanding, are the first to see each other frankly, communication is the bridge of emotion, if each other is not hidden, when there is a disagreement, you can sit down calmly and talk about each other's views, as well as the reasons why each other have such views, then you also know her thoughts, she also knows your thoughts, there will be no contradictions and estrangement, think about the other party is the person you love, how can you be willing to hurt?

No two people are born compatible, they are both tolerant and understanding, why do they learn to tolerate and understand? Because I don't want the other party to be sad, I don't want the other party to be disheartened with me, so I learn to start from the perspective of my lover, and the person who learns it first is the one who knows how to cherish my lover more!

If the other party is a person worthy of entrusting his life, resolutely do not give up! Why do you want to give up? 4 years of relationship, is it true love or dependence?

Why do you want to give up but are reluctant! If the other person's love for you hasn't changed, don't give up!

Hold on, four years is not a short time after all, you already know each other, but only if you still love him.

If I want to give up, I will first separate myself for a while, and then look at the relationship foundation.

Then it depends on the long-term whether it is suitable for marriage and suitable for being together for a lifetime.

You have met a new love, how can you give up after 4 years.

Hello! I can cherish it and be together well.

If you can't be together, why be together.

Time will dilute everything!!

Can be waived.

Here's how to give up.

Restrain your heart. Like a person, used to thinking about him, to pay attention to him, then now to stop liking him, you must restrain your heart, stop paying attention to any of his movements, and stop thinking about other people regardless of time.

Maybe it's a little difficult, but when you realize that you think about him, you can immediately shift your mind, think about what you want to do tomorrow, and think about what your recent small goals are, just can't let yourself Mo Yan miss him.

Keep yourself busy.

In the wound period of feelings, there can be no time for cranky thoughts. So let's keep ourselves busy, let the busyness of work repeat the wound of the exhibition, so that we have no time to take care of the wound. Then it is good medicine to relieve the pain for a little time, and if you are busy and add good medicine, you will use it and fade away, and you will gradually stop liking it, and your heart can be relieved as soon as possible.

After his infinite enthusiasm has not been reciprocated, when you know that there is a more important person in his heart, and when you find that his eyes will also shine, but only to others, you can only give up. No matter how hard you try, you can only be friends, or even passers-by, so that's fine. Everyone is well.

If you leave, there will be no time.

Give up, crush, if you have a partner, then you can also find a partner. Because everyone knows that being a junior is not right, it is the best thing to do to withdraw silently, even if the other party does not know that he exists.

Knowing that your crush has a partner, then please don't get involved. When the mistress of love is hateful, it is hateful to meddle in other people's love. Be a loving and civilized person, and resolutely do not destroy the happiness of others.

It is possible to wait. If they don't love each other that much, then you can still wait, wait for the good opportunity to come, don't miss it.

When the crush has a partner, then bless him! Everyone wants to have a happy love, so from the perspective of TA, looking at TS happiness is the best result.

If the crush has a partner, but he can't accept it, then he can give up. A person can't face the person he likes and has an object, and his heart is like a knife, but he still can't hold on, so give up.

Answer Hello, the boy who has a crush has a partner, of course don't give up, she's only been friends for a while and not married, maybe after a while he and his current object will be separated because of personality or other reasons? Then you don't have a chance, the best way in this situation is to wait for the rabbit to stand still, and then wait until you see the right opportunity to take the initiative, you like him to show that he must have something you appreciate so good, boy, you don't want to miss it, right, don't be in a hurry, take your time.

Question: He gave her the object that they had been together for almost a year.

Answer questions. I met him at work, and now that we're all back to our respective homes, he also resigned, so I shouldn't have a chance to meet him, but I've been chatting with him since I got home recently, and I think it's not good, because his girlfriend will call **, and I'll feel a little uncomfortable, so I'm thinking about whether to keep my distance and slowly break off.

He and her girlfriend are also in a different place.

He and I are also away from each other now.

In this case, do I suggest that you still cut off contact? It's a long place, and then you don't have a formal relationship with him now, it's just an ordinary friend, and he has an object in his heart that has been in touch, and it's not appropriate to go down, so it's better to spend this time on something meaningful, right?

Asking questions is just trying to break off, but it will be a little uncomfortable in my heart.

If you are really reluctant, then keep in touch normally first, but don't behave more than friends should have, contact for a long time, if you find that you can't see the hope that you will quit yourself, at that time you didn't have it, and now it's sad.

Don't give up. I'm sure he's going to break up, and I'm the best choice for him in the end.

Give up, since you don't have the courage to confess to him, then don't continue to hurt yourself.

Give it up. There is already someone closer to him than you to take care of him, so what's the use of you not giving up?

Give up, if you have time to wait for him, it is better to pack up your mood and wait for the next right person.

Give up, he already has his beloved, don't like him anymore.

Don't give up, try to confess, but don't force it.

Give it up. Everyone has a partner, so you don't have to insist on it anymore.

Give it up and bless her. Such a crush is the most painful.

It is one who should give up and then wish the person all the best in the future.

Give up, people have found someone they like.

Give up, the other party has an object, and there is no result if you insist here.

Crush, if you have a partner, then you can also find a partner.

Do you want me to tell you: Although the famous flower has a master, the hoe is the most ruthless. As long as the hoe is swung well, there is no corner that cannot be dug down.

I grew up listening to Lu Qiaoyin's "Triangle", and the corners that can be dug by you are also easy to be dug by others.

Triangle lyrics for you:

I liked you at the beginning, and then you had someone else.

It was all because of me that I ended up throwing her down.

The next one is just to take my place that day.

Don't be too surprised.

Without her, there will be someone else, and you and I can't avoid it.

Chaos will miss each other There are a few more stories at the end.

The lover remains the same to see clearly.

Everybody has betrayed and who's been deceived.

Don't think that if you are always by his side, people will definitely understand your thoughts, after all, you didn't say it, and maybe you hide your emotions well, and you haven't leaked any feelings for him. Even if he really wants to confess to you, but looking at your attitude, he is afraid that you will reject him after confessing to you.

I will definitely choose to give up, because two years is a long time, and since there is no result, it means that there is really no fate.

Since my crush has no results, I will choose to pursue it boldly. Maybe I can get the love I want. I won't be left with regrets either.

If the two years of crush don't work out, in fact, I will choose to be brave and confess, and if I am rejected, I will start a new life.

I will choose to give up, after all, this relationship has made me pay too much, but I can't get the result I want.

Then confess to him. How many decades can there be in life, love can be spoken, even if it is rejected in the end, at least you have made an effort. Be brave enough to say it, and the result will be enough for you to regret it for the rest of your life.

Confession is the beginning of a love, you don't even dare to take the step of starting, how do you go so long in the future? It's good to succeed, you can stay with the person you like for the rest of your life, and if you fail, it's an explanation for your ten-year crush, isn't it?

But before you confess, you need to be sure of your heart. Ten years of tepid crush, and then silently get used to it, silently accept the current tangled self, is it really because of love for him. Because you didn't take that step, in fact, it tells you from the side that in fact, your heart has not reached the point where you have to be him, otherwise most people will not be able to endure not confessing for ten years.

If it's just because you're used to it, there's really no need to misunderstand your love for your ten years or unwillingness.

But if you are sure that it is really because of love, then let go of your reserve and take the initiative to attack. Love is not waiting to come, there are many people in the world, even if there is really a moon old one by one in the world, you don't know how long it will be when it is your turn. It's better to take the initiative and create opportunities.

After all, your love belongs to you, and it is better to hold it in your hands than to God and fate. At least in your own hands, you can still decide the direction of love.

Your future is up to you, and it's up to you who is with you. Whether or not he exists in your future depends on whether your reserve is important or whether he is more important to you. No matter which one you choose, as long as you don't regret it.

In fact, if it is possible for both parties, you might as well give yourself a chance, but if there is really no chance, then you need to look at it correctly and give yourself a chance to meet your fate.

It's been a secret love for ten years, and this painful and tangled process should not continue. Be brave enough to speak up, give yourself a chance, and give yourself an account for your youth in the past ten years, and don't stop and deceive yourself. Speak up and live with a new attitude.