When you grow up, do you want to get married and have children? 5

The Bible tells us that marriage is the last thing in God's creation, and that the most important thing is often done last. God's creation is a series of combinations, the sun, the moon, and the stars are combined into the seasons of day and night, the birds and the air, the fish and the sea, the insects, animals, plants, and the land, and finally a woman is created from a man, and they are put together, and then all things in the heavens and the earth are made, and God's work of creation is complete. In this work, God has set up a system for man, which is very simple, "A man will leave his father and mother, and he will be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh."

The most important purpose of this system is that a person has a spouse to help him.

I can't eat hot tofu in a hurry. Fate is something that sometimes has to be believed. When you arrive, it comes naturally.

Men should marry women when they get married, this is the mainstream of Chinese thinking, and it can't be changed, and if they don't get married, there will be a certain amount of social pressure (mainly from parents and colleagues and friends). I feel that it is better to have someone to accompany me on the long road of life.

It's exactly the same as my situation, and I'm still having trouble with my mother for such a thing today.

But your mom is just worried about you. We can also talk and share the burden, hehe.

Today's young people are under a lot of pressure in society. I'm also busy at work, and I don't have time to fall in love at all. However, it is still advisable to get married early.

If it's late, the good ones won't have your share. Just like going to the street to buy groceries, the morning is fresh. The afternoon must not be as good as the morning.

Even if there were, it was rarely expensive.

...Why don't you have a boyfriend, is it because you can't find a suitable one, or because others don't look down on you?Or is it for some other reason?

Uh: How old are you... Am I suitable...

This pressure is destined to be borne when some of your actions are not the prevailing social current, when your desires are not the mainstream ones, when your situation is not that of the majority.

Your friends get married, like you said, most of them are two people who are rushing to get married from the beginning, and this has a premise, that is, they are psychologically prepared to get married, whether they are naked or materially ready for marriage, they have this purpose in the first place. But you're different, although you can love freely and hope to enter the marriage hall in the end, but when you were together, you didn't have such a strong purpose. This is where you are different from most of the people around you who make you anxious, so most of the others are preparing to get married in about a year, but you are not, you still have a lot to prepare, whether it is psychological or material.

As long as we choose to be different from others, this part of the pressure will be there, and you don't have to worry too much, just like many unmarried people, they are also destined to bear a lot of eyes that most people don't understand because their choices are different from most of them. But if this choice is what you want, of course you can only bear this part of the pressure to continue to pursue.

If you feel that this part of the pressure is too much to bear, you can also make a fuss and abandon your desire to be ready to get married, and directly start to force marriage and prepare for marriage. But I think it's hard for you.

How can you have both? Can one person take advantage of the benefits? So, take responsibility for your choices.

If you really want to insist on yourself, but you are too anxious, go to a counselor to talk to it, this kind of conflict is not simply comforting or reasoning can be solved. After all, you know the truth.

You can marry and have children, there is no law that requires you to marry and have children. But once you have chosen, you have to accept all that that choice brings to you.

Haven't you heard a word? Children are the crystallization of love.

Human beings are a very complex social group, when we love a person very much, we will want to reproduce with him, children are the crystallization of love, with children, your mu He love can be regarded as perfect love.

Just imagine, if there is a little person who looks like your lover, do you think it is a very magical thing? It is for this reason that many people want to have children with each other.

Love is great, when your love heats up to the extreme, you will want to give each other a child to reproduce and continue to pass it on.

What is the meaning of life? This is the ultimate question. Many people want to ask one thing when doing things, what is the meaning?

In other words, in a long-distance run, these people pay more attention to the fact that I can get there, rather than the ** I can pass through, which ignores the scenery along the way. Sometimes doing something too purposeful is not good, only by following your own heart, not understanding what you want and what you don't want, can you make a relatively correct decision. Many people are urged to get married, to get married and have children.

Some people can't help but ask, why do people get married and have children? Can I not get married and have children? The answer is yes, it depends on whether you rush to practice it or not.

1. Do people have to get married and have children?

People don't have to get married and have children, they have the right to choose.

Why do you want to get married and have children, there are mainly the following four reasons for ruining the key surface.

1. The customs that have been passed down since ancient times.

Marriage and childbirth are customs that have been handed down since ancient times, and the concept of "men should marry and women should marry" was widely spread in ancient times, which shows the necessity of marriage. In modern times, many of these red tapes have been omitted, but when young men and women reach a certain age, the family will still urge marriage, which is one of the customs that cannot be ignored!

2. Reduce personal loneliness.

It is inevitable that you will encounter difficulties in life, and finding a partner to accompany you and bear with you at this time can alleviate the worries caused by these difficulties and make life more warm. At the same time, having someone around you to accompany you and take care of you in old age can make your life happier in your later years!

3. Inherit for future generations.

Marriage and childbirth represent the continuation of family incense, although many middle-aged people do not care about this problem now, but the older generation still attaches great importance to the issue of having children. So getting married can make the family prosperous and pass it on from generation to generation.

4. Promote social development.

At present, many areas are showing the problem of aging population, so the national policy is to encourage marriage and childbearing. The formation of a family when you get married can make the society more harmonious and progressive, thus promoting the development of the country, so the benefits of getting married and having children are still countless!

2. What is the meaning of getting married and having children?

The meaning of marriage is love and companionship, and the meaning of having children is to let love continue. In my opinion, marriage should never be a compromise. Everyone has different requirements for their significant other.

As far as my husband and I are concerned, we both have the same request: we want to find someone to talk to. Many people think that this requirement is not too low, but after a slender brother starts to live, you will find that this requirement is not low at all.

No matter how vigorous two people are together, after returning to a long life, they will return to dullness. It is rare for everyone to be able to talk about firewood, rice, oil and salt in life without getting bored. My husband and I have been together for almost 10 years.

At first, I couldn't understand why he chose me, an ordinary girl, because he had better suitors. He said he had something to talk to me. Indeed, from the moment we met him, we talked a lot, mostly nonsense, to the fact that we could always have a good conversation.

Now that I think about it, but it is precisely this nonsense that sustains our feelings and lives.

In my opinion, marriage and childbearing are a necessary thing.

For me, born in the 80s, the education I have been exposed to since I was a child is to start a family, and getting married and having children is a complete life. The same is true of the environment in which everyone has been living since childhood, where everyone will find a suitable or unsuitable partner and form a new family. So in my concept, if you don't get married or don't have children, life is incomplete and incomplete.

If you don't get married or don't have children, you will become an outlier in the eyes of many people. Especially living in the countryside, if a young man does not get married, people will speculate whether the young man has a physical problem, or some gossip about the young man's bad character, everyone will think that the young man can't find a partner, not that he is not willing to find a partner. What's more, people will use this young man as a negative teaching material to educate their children, "Don't learn from him, you can't find a daughter-in-law when you're so old."

If a little girl doesn't get married, then everyone will laugh at her, saying that no one wants her, and she will be an old girl for the rest of her life. So in such an environment, I think marriage and childbearing are an inevitable thing, unless you are strong enough to care about the ridicule of others.

Getting married and having children is actually not scary, but it is a happy thing. Find a person who loves each other, from acquaintance to acquaintance and finally promises, enters the marriage hall, and gives birth to the crystallization of love. It's a beautiful thing.

Don't resist this too much. A soul-compatible partner, a lovely child, can bring earth-shaking changes to your life and can make you experience a sense of happiness like never before. This sense of accomplishment is something that nothing else can bring you.

Marriage and having children are the natural laws of society. Only when people get married and have children can human beings multiply and grow. If everyone resists marriage and childbearing, then there will be fewer and fewer human beings until they become extinct.

I think it's better for people not to go against the laws of nature, but to go with the flow.

To sum up, I think getting married and having children is a necessary thing.