Miss but don t connect, miss but don t connect, most of these reasons

Updated on psychology 2024-05-29
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Good friends are mutual, and no matter how good friends are, there is an appropriate distance between them, so let's not let people misunderstand; And good friends have no gender, especially between people of the same sex, and they are just "buddy" relationships, so don't care about other people's jokes, cherish friendship is important. It's rare to have a confidant in your life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The mouth grows on someone else, what do you care about him!

    If you cherish your friendship and contact him, it turns out that I also have a good friend of the same sex, and the situation is similar to yours, but because I didn't make it clear to him, it faded after that. I haven't been in touch yet. Cough.

    The reality is so cruel! It doesn't have to be formal, you can write to him.

    Friendship is in your hands!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Why are there always these foolish things in the world, even gays can't take their turn to point fingers. Even so, it's hard to do.

    I do that sometimes, too, and think too much. Sometimes I want to send a text message to a friend, but I'm afraid that he will be annoying, I don't like to take the initiative to approach, I hope that others will approach me first, but sometimes I think that people who are good friends are not very enthusiastic, especially on holidays, this is a very annoying thing, because how can we see through other people's hearts?

    Maybe he's waiting for you to hang out with him, but he's just as considerate of your feelings.

    Sometimes things fail in our hesitation.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You look like this, I'm afraid that if you contact him, others will say that you are gay, and you are really a bit like this, why can't you be yourself? ? Is it called homosexuality if you have a good relationship with a friend of the same sex, no, a friend is not temporary, it is a lifetime, a lifetime, you think you are very good friends and take the initiative to contact him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    What's wrong with having a good relationship? I don't know if you're a girl or a boy. What's wrong with being intimate if it's a girl?

    My female friends and I are also super close, often sticking together, and solving everything together, what's wrong with that? How nice it is to have a close friend! Don't care what others say, the most important thing is to cherish your friendship!

    Right! If you're a boy, that's okay, that's fine!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Friends go together for a lifetime, what's wrong with this, real friends can be with each other for a lifetime, but they are as light as a glass of water, and the friendship of gentlemen is as light as water. Don't care about people's stupid eyes.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's not a question that should be distressed, friends are for life, cherish your friendship and take the initiative to find him if you miss him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's nothing. That's how much you think. You can continue to contact him, you can make it clear to him, you can talk to him well.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you miss it, you will connect, and don't miss out on true friendship.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You really feel like you're gay when you ask that.

    Be your own and let others say go!!

    If you're a friend, don't care what others say. Just feel good!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It is difficult to show off your personality and let others say it, just because others say this, it is not worth it to have a friend.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's good to be sure of what you think, why worry so much.

    Good luck!!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Big brother, it's good to be innocent. Do you lose a good friend because someone else says?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Send you a famous quote, do your own thing and let others say it.

    If you're afraid of being told by others even if you make friends, what else can you do in the future?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    He talks a lot about the knowledge of the opposite sex, haha.

    Naturally, it is not difficult to solve.

    The method is in the works.

    It's not about good or bad.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hehe, actually, nothing. Don't overthink it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Maybe you're really unwilling, maybe you're really in love and can't extricate yourself, but that's the case, it's impossible for you to contact him anymore, so let yourself go completely! If you don't think about it, if you don't love, you won't be so uncomfortable. Let go of this relationship, and you won't be so painful and entangled.

    It's really not a big deal. Life is like a journey, some people are just passers-by in your life, and as soon as the destination arrives, he gets off halfway. And you are still stubbornly waiting for him to come back, refusing to continue on the road and not letting others get in the car.

    The scenery along the way is so beautiful, and the people in the car are so hilarious, but you completely ignore it, only thinking about the passenger who has already gotten off the bus.

    <> to miss it is to miss it. No amount of remorse will help. Many people are just a glimpse of a passerby in your life, but you have always insisted that he is your end.

    So you must learn to let go, there are many better people and things in life waiting for you to discover. There is more than one him in your life, maybe you are blinded and don't want to see, maybe the person who really belongs to you is silently guarding you by your side. So open your eyes and embrace life to the fullest!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The best thing to do is to use work to numb yourself and allow time to dilute your thoughts about him, or to go on a trip to open your heart.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You can divert your attention, you can work well, you can travel, you can eat good food, you must let yourself have something to do, and do not let yourself be idle.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Writing poetry. Reading.

    Go out into the wilderness and see the scenery.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I miss someone very much, but I don't want to connect, so just keep this in my heart, don't contact, and maybe keep it beautiful. Maybe connected, the good will be shattered by the cruel realization.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Study hard, work hard, stand out technically, or get promoted, and then if you contact him, he will be respected. You won't let him down in you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Those who should stay will not leave, those who should go will not stay, some things will fade away, don't miss it! If you read it again, your heart will hurt, and some people will leave when they leave! Don't be nostalgic! If you love again, your heart will hurt! When the love is strong, there is only hurt left, and love is deep and only pain is left!

    I can't forget my thoughts, so I will collect them in my heart! If the heart is close, then see it or not, the mind will always be on the way, if the love is true, then the connection is not connected, and the warmth will always be in the heart. If the heart is far away, then no matter how much you toss and turn, in the end it will be in vain and worrying about yourself.

    I miss a person too much and can't contact him, so I put him in my heart to collect, the most beautiful scenery in life is that you are there, I am here, the warmth is long, the thoughts are long, the silent waiting, the warmth is dependent on each other......

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Ostensibly missing someone, in fact it may be missing the good feelings and emotions that have arisen because of that person, and at the same time feeling remorse or powerlessness because you have lost those feelings or because you can't get more of them. You have a good wish in your heart, but at the same time you are limiting yourself to suppress this wish. It seems to be troubled because you miss someone, but it is actually troubled because your emotions and reason are fighting.

    There's no one in the world you can't connect with. What you say about not being able to connect often stems from self-denial and isolation. The chances of us encountering good feelings are reduced by self-bondage, so that the beauty we encounter by chance becomes more and more rare, and then we become more and more persistent and refuse to let go, which is a cycle that binds us more and more.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    When you miss someone a lot and can't reach out to them, you might as well try to do this.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You miss someone so much and you can't get in touch, there must be a reason, it could be yours or her. Since you can't get in touch, you don't have this fate, so you have to forget about her completely. Let go of the baggage in your heart and move on to a new life.

    If you keep thinking about her, how do you accept the love that really belongs to you, or how do you face your current wife. There is a kind of love called letting go, for her happiness, the most perfect thing you can do for her is to let go of your feelings for her, send your most sincere wishes, and wish her a happy life and sweet love. My point of view is that the only way to do this is to give up feelings that don't belong to you and love the people you deserve.

    Finally, I wish my friends a happy life and sweet love.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Missing a person who can't be contacted, is a kind of unspeakable pain, every time the thoughts of missing arise, how much I want to see the person I miss, but I can't do what I want, even the connection can't, that's the most painful sadness in love, love a person can be separated, can also be done can not be together, but if you can't contact when you miss, it is an indescribable pain in your heart.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You can write down your true feelings, and if you have the opportunity, you can show it to the people you miss. The most wonderful language in the world is always in the midst of thoughts. If you don't say it, maybe they don't understand, between love and non-love, you can try to use words to ease your mood.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you can't get in touch, forget it, after all, this is unrequited love, and you will feel very helpless for yourself.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    "First, it's better not to see each other, so that you don't fall in love, and second, it's better not to know each other, so you can't fall in love. "There is someone in life to miss, it is painful and happy. If you miss someone too much and can't get in touch, the best thing to do is to pretend that you don't have a heart.

    People who don't care about you, if you say it hurts, he won't feel anything, and people who feel sorry for you, if you don't say anything, he can also feel how much your heart hurts.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    We all say that if the relationship between the two is long, how can it be in the morning and twilight? But what I am most afraid of is unrequited love, I can only miss but not see each other. There is no reason for love, there is no excuse for liking, missing someone, missing her face, contacting, afraid of disturbing each other, thus affecting her living state, not contacting, thinking day and night, making people haggard.

    I think, if it's really the kind of person who doesn't connect, everyone understands, then you have to control yourself and be careful, of course, it can be very difficult, it takes a long process, we don't want to hurt each other, then we can only wronged ourselves.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Sometimes, initiative leads to a story. The world is wonderful, and there are not so many reasons for feelings. I don't know what to do, and I love deeply. But it is easy to love in the heart, and it is difficult to open the mouth. Hopefully you can take the initiative in everything.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    In the current era of social networks, it should be impossible to go where there is no signal! If it's because of the signal, then take the initiative to pursue her. Either because you broke up, you are still clinging to her, and you still want to rekindle your old relationship with him, then I think you are boring, since people don't love you anymore, why do you have to go to the contact house so cheaply?

    Find a new one. And then there are your own reasons, you are doing a confidential thing, and you can't contact her, then you shouldn't think so much, since you have chosen this path, you should cry and go on, thinking too much is useless!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It is said that if you don't forget, there will be an echo. Maybe the person you miss is also waiting for you to pierce that layer of window paper, so you should be brave with the person you like.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Does that mean that you are in love with someone you shouldn't love, then please give up as soon as possible, the sea of bitterness is boundless, don't give up the whole forest for a tree, you have the right to get love that you like each other.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Missing a person, indicating that this person is very important to themselves, in life, maybe everyone has their own secrets, when a heart misses a person, I want to tell him what I miss, it is a kind of painful and concerned feelings, I miss can not tell, my heart will ache faintly, that is an indescribable experience. I miss a person very much, and I can't contact what to do, I personally feel that love can't get, I can't see each other if I want to, I can't even contact it, this is the most bitter miss in the world, I can't contact him, I can't put it down, I can only taste the taste of missing alone, there is too much helplessness in life, some love can only be experienced and not owned, this is a love with a deep and shallow relationship.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Is there such a person who you obviously miss very much, but you have never contacted him.

    Why don't you want to, when you think about him, you go to meet him, stay by his side, send him a message, chat with him, but all this, you only think about it, you don't do it at all, you really do that.

    There are always some people who can only miss and can't contact, so they can only keep him in their hearts.

    Everyone who just misses, but never touches, often has their own reasons.

    Love is too humble to contact.

    When you like someone, but you are not confident at all, or you know that person does not like you, your liking will be low to the dust, and you don't have the courage to contact that person.

    You will always be the same to that person, standing far away in a ** posture, and you dare not really get close.

    Afraid of himself, it will disturb him.

    Like is presumptuous, but love is restraint. When you really have someone in your heart, you will inevitably become cautious, think about that person everywhere, and even pay great attention to this kind of thing.

    Whenever you want to contact him, you are afraid that you are looking for him at the wrong time and will disturb his work and life.

    Because of the connection, it no longer makes sense.

    When you and someone are separated and each has started a new life, then you may still miss that person very often, but even if you miss it again, of course you will not contact him again.

    Because you know very well that such a connection has no meaning in the slightest except to make yourself uncomfortable.

    I want to wait for him and take the initiative to contact myself.

    People are really strange sometimes, always hoping that the person they care about has a relationship with them, hoping that when they miss that person, that person also misses themselves. Always more eager, that person takes the initiative first.

    So even if you miss it again, you will endure it, and then wait with all your heart, and that person will find you first.

    Just think about it, there's no need to contact.

    Not every time you miss it, you need to be connected, you need to tell that person. Sometimes, in your free time, you think of that person, but it's just to smile, to pass the time, to make yourself happy.

    This kind of missing, as long as your own purpose has been achieved, that person, you don't need to know.

    If you miss it but don't contact it, you either don't dare to contact it, or you don't want to bother, or it's meaningless, you're waiting, or you just want to simply miss it.

    This miss is sometimes sweet, sometimes bitter, sometimes sad, and sometimes blessed.

    Every miss has its meaning, but not every miss is worth it.

    It's good and happy to miss someone you should miss, but if it's someone you shouldn't miss, then you'd better forget it as soon as possible.

    Text: Tan Meng.

Related questions
40 answers2024-05-29

Yes, former friends. There is no big conflict between us, but we are gradually estranged because of time, distance and so on. I often miss and want to connect, but I am afraid that there will be no dialogue between two people.

17 answers2024-05-29

How do you know that the other person loves you very much? He doesn't contact you, so how does he express his love for you, in action? Or sweet talk? >>>More

22 answers2024-05-29

Because she knows your emotions in her heart.

It is normal for a married woman to be emotionally attracted to you, and how do you find out that she treats you differently is your emotional cognition, and if she doesn't contact you, she doesn't need to contact you. >>>More

19 answers2024-05-29

After all, people are emotional animals, whether you or me, everyone can't help but miss the love that has never happened or look forward to the love that may happen. >>>More

21 answers2024-05-29

Hello landlord! The Maple Wither team will be happy to answer your questions! Love, it's mostly up to you to deal with it, I think >>>More