I can t speak, and I m always caught by others.10

Don't think so, why do people speak, just to express their opinions, and others to communicate more is good, you can also exercise your language ability, you feel that you can't speak, in fact, speaking is a university question, speaking not only shows their attitude but also makes others happy is not easy, when you speak, you should also pay attention to the position and feelings of others. In fact, it is better to start by praising others, everyone loves to hear good words. Have a little more confidence in yourself, dare to communicate with others, and believe that you are great.

I tried my best to escape, and I was very nervous in the process of escaping, and I was afraid of being caught. Sometimes, you should like to socialize with people or be forced to socialize with people (such as business, salesman, businessman, etc.).

It's time to talk when you're ready to think about it, or try to smile instead of talking, hehe, I mean, sometimes.

I'm pretty much the same as you.

How to speak, how to say well is very knowledgeable, not to say that you can do it all at once in a day or two, you should listen more and say less, say what should be said, say as little as possible about what you are not sure about, learn to praise others, but don't exaggerate too much, so that others will feel that it is very fake and against their own medical wishes. I've learned to praise people a lot, and it really works! I hope to share it with you!

No matter who you don't say bad things about others in front of you, you can't say anything about each other's shortcomings bluntly, you have to leave room for yourself in what you say and do, don't say things to death, like"It must be like this, you are just not right. "This kind of talk.

Everyone likes to be amazed, and they will be happy if you compliment them.

The greatest man is himself, and the one who saves himself is himself.

Say what people love to hear! Be kind to it.

The more this is the case, the more you have to talk more Don't be afraid of other people's jokes Learn some lessons from it Think more Learn more about the good points of others, and take your time to get better

A true friend wants you to be strong, no matter what aspect you are, you have to know that your circle of friends determines your personality and orientation, and don't be swayed by the people around you.

When you don't care about people saying you're a kid, you'll be mature.

Don't be afraid, the more you are afraid, the more wrong you are, the main thing is that you are not confident.

Psychological problems, I care too much about other people's eyes, I will be like this, in fact, the fact is that we are neurotic, others don't pay so much attention at all, and don't treat other people's smiles as ridicule

Go to the street and shake hands with strangers, 20 a day for 100 days.

Say it boldly, it's nothing, I used to be very talkative, and then I also liked to chat, and I became cheerful and confident, and now I can talk to anyone, don't be afraid or nervous, no one has malicious intentions, you have to trust others, so that others will trust you

It's because you don't have a lot of self-confidence, but everybody's great, as long as you dare to speak up, and you get used to it, but it's up to you to get over it.

Lack of self-confidence, if you are talking to others about business, or communicating business or something, don't worry so much, just say what you should say, just do it, don't worry about what others say about you, mainly on yourself, don't care too much about what others think of you, everyone should see you different, if everyone cares about it, then you will live very tired, you can also say that you are completely living for others. You just care too much about what others think of you, so you lose a lot of self-confidence, people can't be without self-confidence, so you have to look at what others think of you in the future What is desirable and what is not desirable, and don't be afraid of others laughing. Nothing.

It's going to get better.

！！！You know? No one is born to speak, and those who can speak are trained by speaking regularly.

You say too little, you should double down on your ability to communicate with others and let yourself speak, only in this way can you reach a higher level of language skills.!!

There is no self-confidence.

Method 1: Talk to your parents so they don't laugh at you.

2. Talk to yourself, record it, listen to your own voice 3, enhance self-confidence, and always believe that you are the best.

This is mainly due to your own lack of self-confidence, too much concern about other people's eyes, let go of a little, maybe you will do a good job.

Being able to talk is actually a dual nature of character and knowledge!

Be able to grasp the personalities and needs of others! Speak to be good! Learn to empathize!

Why is LZ's personality so similar to me?,I think it's really my own lack of self-confidence.。

You have low self-esteem, what is it, if you love to talk, you can laugh if you love to laugh.

You're laughing at me, I can't miss anything, can I?

You have to report this thought.

If a person talks about it, he will talk about it.

What's your business, if you talk about it, it's going to be about you.

Whoever doesn't talk behind their backs doesn't talk about people behind their backs.

You said no? If you think you're too tired, you just relax for a day, and you want to love, why don't you look at it?

Because you're too egoistic.

Think that other people care about you.

Think that your words and actions are the focus of others.

Just take yourself lightly and you'll be fine.

Think of yourself as an insignificant little character.

No one cares what you say.

It's easy that way.

Don't care what others think.

You yourself think that you can't speak, and let others judge you.

One situation is that you are super confident.

Another situation is that you have super low self-esteem.

You should know exactly what to do.

No one else can help you.

You don't have self-confidence, so in that case, build up your self-confidence.

Because you care too much about your so-called "can't speak", the more you care, the heavier your subconscious "can't speak" autosuggestion, causing you to be more "can't speak".

There are a lot of people who can't speak, and you're not the one who can't speak the least. And people's personalities are introverted and extroverted, and introverts usually don't talk much.

And your inability to speak may be related to the environment in which you grew up, and in the process of growing up, you may not have much contact with outsiders, resulting in the current situation that you are not good at speaking.

You can develop your self-confidence first, give yourself more positive cues, think more about your good aspects, and then exercise your ability to speak.

When others talk together, sometimes they may be talking about you, but most of the time it doesn't seem to be, as long as you are not the kind of person who is particularly annoying, others will not have so much energy to talk about you.

It is recommended that you can cultivate your self-confidence first, and then participate in more activities to speak in public, try to be more cheerful, I believe it will have a good effect.

The formative period of personality and subjective behavioral consciousness, psychological suggestion!!

If others really think you're bad, it's even better to criticize you directly in person, so why hide and point fingers at others. Don't fantasize about it yourself, everything will be so scary!!

Communicate with others.

There is an evolution in everything!

No, I've never seen anyone like that. ,.

People, let's talk more, it doesn't matter, otherwise, you go buy a "humor book" to read, it's very good, and it has a great enlightening ,.. for your life

I've got obsessive-compulsive disorder.

Scare yourself yourself

Be willing to learn "Zonghengjia".

First of all, you must know that your parents are for your good, and they want you to establish a good relationship! So the most important thing to do is to reflect on yourself every time. You can ask questions that show that you are aware.

What others say may be really wrong, or it may really hurt you, etc., but if you say the other thing the other way, then what do they feel? If you are kind to retort or agree, the result of the matter will be that the other person thinks that you are really a person to get along with, such as this matter, and will also help you when you are not talking. People are emotional, and too many people will use perceptual cognition, and sometimes ignore rational concepts.

It does not matter. Remember one sentence: take a step back and open the sky.

Maybe you're wronged, and it's okay to justify a little, but don't go too far. People's perspectives are different, don't always think that you are right, think more empathy, you will suddenly become clear, things are not a big deal. You can know in your heart that you are disgusted with a person, but don't show it.

If you annoy someone, it's best to "pretend" to treat ordinary people like ordinary people. Also, think to yourself: How did you feel after the fire, no matter how big or small?

Isn't it good to be happy, or disdainful, to be angry--- think about yourself, and use the way of protecting others to protect yourself? As long as you want to open up, there is nothing - respecting others is accumulating the respect of others for yourself! You're going to be in your first year of high school, and you should be older than me, so please allow me to say

Sister, I believe you can, a new school, a new starting point, you can also change into a new girl, a girl who satisfies parents, others, and especially yourself! You can do it! It's really important to learn how to be healthy and social.

I wish you all the best. Welcome yourself to a new version of yourself! I believe you can!

You are awesome! I'm a girl, too).

The following remarks are a summary of my experience in making friends:

Make a dog meat friend vote.

It is beneficial to treat it widely.

Make ordinary friends and vote for virtue and treat them peacefully.

Make close friends and treat them with sincerity and courtesy.

Finally, I would like to send you a sentence, "being able to detach and be able to merge is a great virtue." (Make friends, life, and do things according to their intentions, taste it carefully!) ）

Make close friends and treat them with sincerity and courtesy. Remember this sentence! I think that's the kind of friend you're going to make.

You're actually a straightforward girl, and your parents may just think you're so easy to lose. Outside is no better than at home, where everything you show on your face is easy to be taken advantage of. If someone says something you don't like to hear, then what do you want, if it hurts your self-esteem, I think you should fight back.

The premise is that what he said is right or not, if people just bring up your shortcomings, you should accept them and correct them.

Not being able to speak is saying things that shouldn't be said.

Learn restraint, learn to be patient, learn to be silent in moderation, and learn to cater to your will.

You don't have to prove it! Prove too much work. It's good to follow fate, filial piety and blessing are the king.

It's hard to change this estimate! My boyfriend too, he doesn't talk much, and he doesn't know how to entertain my family when he goes to my house. I think it is necessary for you to communicate, tell her about your troubles now because of what she said, you can tell her, I am such a person, honest people have the benefits of honest people, down-to-earth, will not go out to mess around, I dare not guarantee that you will get your ideal happiness if you marry me, but I will do my best to make you happy, if you can't accept me like this, I can't help it, or find someone who meets your requirements!

Two ways, buddy:

Clause. 1. You can't have this kind of girlfriend. This kind of girlfriend is not the kind of person who is dead to you, and judging from the fact that she accuses you, your personality may not be suitable.

Clause. 2. Accept yourself, don't think how bad you are, everyone has their own characteristics, strengths and weaknesses, everyone's personality and concerns are different, don't deliberately change yourself, learn to accept yourself. Of course, if there are some things that you feel you really need to change, you can change them, which is called progress, but if something is ingrained, let it be.

People have their own aspirations, and sometimes talking less doesn't necessarily mean they can't communicate. In the future, as long as you want to say anything, talk more, go to more entertainment occasions, and expand your circle of friends.

To make up for it in other ways, human personality is innate, and if you feel unhappy together just because you can't socialize, this reason is not valid. Try to have a cheerful and sunny relationship.

Reading more literary books will help No one is born to be very eloquent and learn to be stupid and not so serious Many people are not unable to speak but are timid Many words dare not be played like others Haha Say it out loud Read more literary books There is enough ink in your stomach Are you afraid that there will be no saliva in your mouth?

If you are a self-respecting person, say to her:

Yes, I'm like this, I can't give you happiness, you go find someone else!

It is enough to insist on practicing an hour of communicative study articles every day, especially be sure to practice early in the morning for better results.

Also, read some humorous joke books to make sure you get better.

If you say it's just because you can't make friends or anything like that. Said that it would not be happy to marry me in the future.

I'd rather not have this kind of girlfriend.

Talk to people a lot, whether you say it well or not, the most important thing is to open your mouth. There is a good saying, "Good eloquence is practiced from the heap of nonsense." "Also, read more books, the more you know, the more you naturally talk.

Eloquence is naturally good......Haha, it doesn't need to be said that the ability to express oneself is good!

Read books on this subject, then apply what you have learned, and practice as you learn.

Doing sales is the best exercise.