Who should I take care of my sick mother and confinement wife?

I think both of them must be taken care of, these two women are the most important women in your life, I really can't take a break, so I must put my work aside first. <>

Whether the mother is sick or the wife is in confinement, their bodies must be very weak at this time, so they must get enough care. I think that as the head of the family, the man must take on some responsibilities, if the mother is sick, then we must take care of it, and of course, the wife who is in confinement also needs to receive more care. If you take into account the lack of energy, then I think you can find a nanny or find some confinement nannies.

For example, you can ask the confinement lady to take care of the confinement wife for the time being, and then spend more time taking care of your mother, and then we will take care of your wife ourselves when the mother has improved a little. I believe that if your wife is very reasonable, she should not particularly care about these things. <>

We can also find an aunt to come home and help out, and we can take care of our mothers from Monday to Wednesday, and from Thursday to Saturday, we can take care of our daughter-in-law. Of course, this is just my personal idea, if you personally feel that there is really no way to part with both sides, then you might as well follow the method I said. At least in a sense, this method is a more fair and just method, of course, I think since they are all a family, there is no need to be so clear.

As your wife, you will definitely not be prevented from taking care of your mother, otherwise I think there are still some problems with your wife's ideas. <>

In addition, if the mother is sick, then you must take the mother to the hospital in time to see if the condition is serious, if the condition is serious, then you must follow the doctor's instructions to recuperate, do not feel that the elderly are not in good health, just rest at home for a period of time.

I think you can take your sick mother into your own home and take care of your confinement wife so that it doesn't distract you too much and doesn't make you too embarrassed.

I think you should take care of your sick mother, because when your mother is sick, what she needs most is the company of her children.

Both mothers and wives should be taken care of. One is the mother who gave birth to you and raised you, and the other is the wife who gave birth to children for you, both of them are important. It depends on the specific situation, it depends on who needs to be taken care of more, it is best to take care of both, and don't let either party feel cold.

No, do you have to choose one or the other, is this a deformation of the problem of who to save first when the mother and wife fall into the water at the same time? Of course, both are taken care of, the mother is hospitalized and the nurse takes turns to take care of it, the wife just gave birth to the child and needs to take care of the child, if you don't get enough care, it is easy to get postpartum depression, you can let the father-in-law and mother-in-law come to accompany you, and explain to the wife that her children and mothers are very important, and they will not give up. How can you be tired, the mother who gave birth to you and raised you, the wife who gave birth to children, and gave up the other for one is not a thing.

Except for terminal illnesses.

I'm a woman, I think you should take care of your mother, your wife can ask her mother-in-law to help or ask a nanny, and your wife will understand you.

If you are an only child and your father is gone, I will understand and sympathize with you when you come to ask this question, and I suggest that you ask your father-in-law and mother-in-law for help, after all, you can't cope with such a situation alone. However, if your dad is fine, or if you have siblings, you are here to ask this question.

Actually, I think it would be fairer that you should take care of both sides and hire a babysitter for both of them.

If you are in a city, hire a nurse for your mother, and a confinement lady for your wife, and you can run by yourself. If you don't get a city, you get a city.

Find a confinement lady to take care of your wife, find a nurse to take care of your mother, and free up your energy to take care of your family's emotional needs and emotions and make money to support your family.

An only child?

If you have siblings, you can let them take care of your mother for a while and visit them often.

As long as you have money, you can hire a nanny for your mother and a confinement nanny for your wife.

The daughter-in-law of confinement still needs to ask.

Men who can't figure it out are suitable for singles.

Everyone should take care of their wives. What's more, there is your baby.

Did your dad run away with someone? Why can't your dad take care of his wife.

Weakly asked, what about your father.

Boring question, this question is the same as which one to save first when the wife falls into the river and the mother falls into the river.

I think you can take care of both of them at the same time, even if you can't be separated, the two of them won't blame you, if you give up one of them, the other person will definitely be sad.

Why can't you take care of both, both mother and wife are very important people. If they don't live together, then take them in together and take care of them together.

Two people can take care of it together, so that there will be no favoritism, and there will be no complaints on both sides. You just need to work harder.

Of course, it's to take care of your wife, because your wife is only you, and your mother and your father can take care of her, so you can focus on your wife.

I think it's better for my wife's mother to take care of her, because my wife's mother is closer to my wife and can take better care of my wife.

I think it's better for the wife to be confined and the husband to take care of it, this is because the two of them have lived together for a long time, they are used to the existence of both parties, and they never feel that they are bothering each other when they let each other do things, they feel that it is taken for granted, etc.

I think it's better for the wife to be confined or the husband to take care of it, because the parents of both parties are not obliged to help the wife during the confinement, and it is better to spend more time on their own.

I think it's best to have your own mother take care of her, because she understands her daughter best.

<> I am a rural woman, my husband and I have a son, my son is the only child in the family, the economic conditions of our family are not very good, my husband and I have to work hard to make money for our son to study alone, so we dare not have a second child, my son has a good school performance since he was a child, and finally he was admitted to university, there is no way for my son to be admitted to college, no matter how hard my husband and I have to send him to study.

My son worked in the city after graduating from college, and now the monthly salary is quite high, after my son joined the work, my husband and I did not do farm work anymore, and now my husband and I are also old, and my husband began to be either this disease or that disease, and his health is getting worse and worse, after his son worked for a month, he bought me a mobile phone, and then my husband and I drove ** with my son every day, I didn't know how to use it at first, I was not used to it, I would play a lot after half a year, and my son met his daughter-in-law after working for two years.

The son and daughter-in-law dated for a year and they got married, after getting married, because the daughter-in-law didn't want to live in the countryside, so they rented a house in the city after getting married, and the son also said that he wanted to find more money to buy a house in the city, and then pick me up and my husband to live in the city, the son and daughter-in-law married for a year and the daughter-in-law was also pregnant, and when the daughter-in-law was pregnant, I was taking care of it, and usually the daughter-in-law would have some conflicts with me, saying that I couldn't do this or that, but I endured it, I think the temper of the pregnant person is not good, and sometimes I let the daughter-in-law.

After her daughter-in-law was pregnant for ten months, she gave birth to a son, and I also gave my daughter-in-law 5,000 yuan at that time, when my daughter-in-law was confined, my husband was seriously ill, and there were only a few people in the family, and my son had to go to work, so my husband had no one to take care of her, and in the end there was no way for me to call my mother-in-law to take care of my daughter-in-law, and then I would take care of my husband, and I couldn't let my mother-in-law take care of my husband, so my daughter-in-law was confined, because my husband was sick, I didn't take care of her.

That day I cooked for my daughter-in-law in the morning, cleaned the house, and washed the clothes, and then I went out to the hospital to take care of my husband, and at night, I couldn't sleep because I had been playing, and then I was playing in the circle of friends, when I saw my daughter-in-law's circle of friends, I was angry, I recalled that I went out at about nine o'clock in the morning, and my daughter-in-law posted in the circle of friends at ten o'clock that "good mother-in-law is someone else's family".

When I saw my daughter-in-law's circle of friends, I knew what she meant, and I didn't mean to take care of her, don't you want to be taken care of by my husband now that I'm hospitalized, anyway, my mother is idle and has nothing to do, and it's not unusual to take care of my daughter, I really don't understand what my daughter-in-law thinks, and now it's making us both unhappy!

Later, the daughter-in-law's mother came to take care of it herself. But my daughter-in-law chose to divorce my son after the confinement.

Later, the daughter-in-law kept saying that she had not fulfilled her responsibilities as a mother-in-law, and it also affected the relationship between the two people, causing some estrangement between the two people.

Later, the daughter-in-law was very inconsiderate of her mother-in-law, which made the conflict between the daughter-in-law and her mother-in-law even more serious.

Later, in order to alleviate the conflict between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I took out my own private money and hired a sister-in-law for my daughter-in-law for a month.