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I think it's better to be true to yourself, not to cater to other people's ideas or concepts, and to change your own principles of life; Don't work hard to tie up others, don't put yourself in an embarrassing dilemma; Don't hypocritically let yourself live in an illusory interpersonal relationship; If you don't live your life truly, but do things or live against your personality or conscience, then you will live a little longer, and your heart will be too tired and painful. With such a result, why bother yourself?
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Your question is actually very complicated, everyone wants to live true, that is our original intention, but no one should be able to live really true, unless isolated from the world, in this world everyone has to behave in the world, like our daily work is indispensable to communicate with people, then if it is really just not what to say, I think it is difficult to survive in the unit, in fact, the real performance in today's society is more understood as low emotional intelligence, and people with high emotional intelligence are real antonyms sleek, Therefore, no one in modern society can really live their true self, don't care too much about this, as long as you live comfortably, after all, it is not easy for people to live a lifetime.
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In the face of yourself, of course, you must be a real person, so that your heart can be like water. Society has taught us to pretend and deceive, and everyone puts on a mask of hypocrisy from the moment they go out, and when they see people they don't want to deal with, they say insincere things. If it were possible, I really don't want to grow up, and if I can keep the pure heart of my childhood, I would like to give away all my money, but there is no if.
Only by living authentically can we live a real life!
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I think we should be a real person, only truth is the most touching quality, do everything worthy of our conscience, not deceitful.
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Of course, if a person doesn't even dare to do it himself, and blindly wears a mask to live, won't he feel tired? It's scary to think about.
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Of course not, it is a great loss to be a real person in this complex society, do you dare to tell the truth to the leader and say that he has gained a lot of weight? Sometimes a white lie can get you to do a lot of things.
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Personally, I think that a person does not need to show a certain character too obviously, but the positive side must be more than the negative side, so that it will not appear out of place in society, and the so-called lies are also good.
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I firmly believe that even if it is ugly or even suffering, I must live truly, because truth is like climbing a muddy mountain road, maybe rugged and bumpy, but you feel it down-to-earth, and lies are like a road in the clouds, I don't know which day I may fall down, and there is no place to die!
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Life is all about being your truest self. Because it's so tiring to pretend.
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Human nature is good, people are watching the sky, and we must be on our conscience when we are doing things!
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As for whether you want to be yourself, I want to say that you can do it, but you can't! With a normal heart, everything will be fine.
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The more real a person is, the more free and down-to-earth he is, we just need to be ourselves and don't have to care about the eyes of others.
But in this society, many people live with masks, and there are different appearances and inconsistencies, so what is rare is to be true and down-to-earth.
A person can listen to his own heart, understand his own affairs, not delicate, not pretentious, not aggressive, not complaining, and have a real inner idea to make himself understand what he wants, so that he will not live so tired, live so fake, and seek truth from facts, in fact, it is a very difficult thing for Wang Zhuyun. There are many reasons for this, the reasons for your own cognition, the reasons for your own thinking, the reasons for your own circle, no matter what, you need a real attitude to face the real voice of your heart, otherwise you will live a very tired and depressed life, and you will inevitably miss a lot of beautiful things.
From our own point of view, the more real, the simpler, the more practical, the more objective, the more we can see our own face. How many people have been deceived by themselves, do not understand their true inner thoughts and what they love and like, are only confused by laziness and playfulness, and then directly delay their lives.
The reason why many people are reluctant to face the truth is because they dare not face the truth, how ridiculous. Running away from reality because of fear is the most cowardly, even incompetent. So hypocritical and arrogant!
Many people can face a lot of people on the surface, go through a lot of things, and then you will find that you can't face yourself at all, face your real voice, don't know why, so, indifferent.
Give yourself a little space and time, let yourself feel your inner voice and dynamics, lie down and listen to the sound of the rain and your own heartbeat, it is communicating with you.
Let yourself know yourself more clearly, you will not be confused, and you will truly recognize your own shortcomings and improve them.
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The real self is the happiest.
Now living as your true self has become a luxury. We all think that people may like such people, so we are always trying to make ourselves like that. In the end, I don't even know what I look like.
Girls go through that kind of period.
At a very young age, parents told girls that you have to be obedient, you have to listen to your parents, you can't do this, you can't do that.
So when we were children, if we were not rebellious, we would become good girls, and if we were rebellious, we would become bad children, and many people would educate you, turn you into negative teaching materials, not let you be yourself, and set so many rules for you, and in the end, there was no way, there were so many ideas in my heart, and I still had to be a good girl.
The economic base determines the superstructure, and after you become financially independent, you find that you are an independent person. You can start to have a lot of options and ideas that you can put into practice.
For example, you really want to go somewhere, but your parents think that girls should not go so far and it is not safe, so you don't go, and suppress your desire to go out. Later, when you became financially independent, you still wanted to go, so you bought a ticket and went over. It's not that unsafe.
In the process, you face a strange city, and you can find your true self more. You'll find out you're like this.
The world just has a lot of rules and regulations.
However, if we want to be happy, we still have to be true to ourselves.
When you still have your own ideas, you have to work hard to realize them. However, you can't be yourself without culture, it's just rude and uneducated, not your true self.
The true self mentioned here is to choose the way you like to live without delaying others. Like said above, if you want to travel, then go. Don't let outside opinions hinder your choice.
Don't let outside opinions influence your choices. Everyone thinks that stability is good, but it may be that they don't see how fun life is when it's unstable, and they tell you that it's a good life.
You have to choose the life you like. Everyone has this right. Do what you want to do, live the life you want to live, and don't let other people's ideas affect your choices and your life.
Life is your own. Don't waste a second.
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Standing in the crowd, I was inconspicuous, an ordinary and ordinary me;
Living in the world, I don't play with my heart, a simple and clear me.
Even if I tolerate and let me look mediocre, I don't try to please people who don't like me, I only smile in front of people who like me;
Even if I live in poverty, I won't talk to people who look down on me, I just want people who value me to be proud of me.
I don't want to wear a mask of disguise, it's too tiring to live like that;
I don't want to wear a groomed coat and suffer like that.
Those who understand you don't have to explain, and those who don't understand you don't have to explain;
Those who love you will not give up, and those who do not will leave sooner or later.
Be yourself wholeheartedly, even if it's not perfect, it's the most beautiful!
I like to laugh when I'm happy, even if I lose my image;
I like to cry when I'm sad, even if I don't have a face.
To be a man, what you want is your true appearance!
I'm used to being straight when I have a word, and I haven't learned to be tactful;
I'm used to doing my best when I do things, and fooling is not my principle.
In the world, it is based on true temperament!
I pour my heart into my friends, because people's hearts can change people's hearts;
I give my whole heart to my feelings, because hypocrisy will lose to seriousness.
I hate calculations between men, because I am never cunning;
I despise heart-to-heart perfunctory, because I have never been false.
Keeping the original innocence, if the heart is pure, people will be happy;
Along the final bottom line, if people don't offend me, I won't offend people.
No matter what you do or how you say it, there will always be people who will talk about it, why not be the real me!
A lifetime is not long, how happy we can live!
Fate is not forced, what should come will always come, and what you want to go will always go.
What cares about me, I will take my life and wait;
Don't care about me, I let it go.
Feelings are not extravagant, and I cherish those who love me;
People who don't love me, I bravely give up.
Do it as an irreplaceable one, or you need to be as deep as the sea of the Frank Letter Bureau.
No matter how difficult life is, you have to live it seriously.
Tiredness is nothing, sweating doesn't matter.
Self-improvement can be self-reliant, relying on others is better than relying on yourself!
To deal with people, learn to bow your head and know how to hold your head high.
People's hearts for people's hearts, I use sincerity to buy shares;
Dedicated and trying, I have a worthy investment, and to be a man is to be my true self.
The mood is precious, don't be moldy, you must smile the most truly and beautifully;
Life is precious, don't waste it, you must have a good time!
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