What are some stupid things that women do that will make your in laws not take you seriously?

Bottomless compromise and concession in family relationships will make women more and more humble.

has no financial income of her own, and is completely dependent on her husband to earn money to support the family.

I don't have my own opinions in life, and I listen to others about everything.

Women who often do these stupid things will have less and less status in their in-laws' family.

Accommodate them in everything, follow them, and over time they will feel that they are used to it for granted, and as a daughter-in-law, they must have their own bottom line. If you don't want a bride price in terms of marriage, your in-laws will think that you are upside down, but you will appear to be worthless, and they will not be grateful to you if you are too sensible, but will despise you and not take you seriously.

First, the in-laws are too accommodating, even if they do things that are disrespectful to themselves, they will choose to back down and accommodate, second, they marry their sons, which is the easiest for people to see themselves, and third, naked marriages, don't want a bride price, which will make the in-laws feel that you are worthless, if a woman does the above three stupid things, it will make the in-laws not take you seriously.

First of all, if she is very obedient and does housework without complaint, and then obeys her husband and does not take charge of the family's finances, this will make her in-laws not take her seriously.

If a woman doesn't work at home and doesn't cook much, these things are actually very stupid things, and then your in-laws won't take you seriously and think that you don't have any ability.

The first stupid thing is to often reprimand your husband in front of your mother-in-law, so that your mother-in-law won't take you seriously, and the second stupid thing is to give up your job as a yellow-faced mother-in-law, so that your mother-in-law won't take you seriously.

The weakness of human nature is to bully the weak and not be afraid of difficulties, so you must keep improving, and a woman must be a considerate and assertive person in marriage. An attitude and principled approach can balance many relationships. Whether it is a big or small thing in the family, you need to have your own attitude and never lose your dignity as a hostess in your marriage.

In order to be respected, people need to have an attitude and get along with each other in principle. A woman who is too soft-hearted and kind is actually doing herself a disservice. In marriage, if you want to have a certain place in your husband's family, the woman should place herself in the position of the mistress.

Only if you clarify your principles and bottom line will your in-laws think highly of you. In marriage, if a woman does the following two "stupid things", don't blame your in-laws for not taking you seriously. In order to take care of the family and quit their jobs, people are independent individuals.

Whether they are married or friends, they can't rely on anyone. Women may not give up their jobs because of their families. If you give up your job and come home to be a stay-at-home wife, then you will lose confidence.

Even if the job can easily sustain its own expenses, don't give it up, or you can say that you have nothing left once the relationship is in crisis. It is also possible to hide in a hotel**, where married women must be financially independent so that their in-laws do not underestimate them. The heart is too soft to understand rejection. It is true that family members are considerate and accommodating each other, but accommodation is not a compromise.

If you find that your tolerance and devotion to your family ends up being indifferent to your husband's family, then don't be afraid. Don't think that patience and compromise in everything is the secret to maintaining family harmony. When a woman's heart is ungrateful, she hurts herself.

Especially when dealing with some unreasonable mothers-in-law, when a woman should be strong, not soft-hearted, not just give in and compromise, otherwise they won't take you seriously. As a daughter-in-law, no matter how kind she is, she must have her own principles, and no matter how soft-hearted she is, she must have a bottom line. When I met my in-laws who were not serious, I was really unyielding.

A woman must have a sense of proportion in front of her in-laws. Any relationship is mutual, and in marriage, a woman must also have her own principles and bottom line. A woman should know to say no when she refuses, not to hit ** when she is in pain, and to stop when she is tired.

Instead of caring about the betrayal and unfriendliness of others, it is better to manage your own dignity and beauty.

If your in-laws are nice to you, you should be nice to them, but if your in-laws don't take you seriously or don't even respect you at all。Then you don't have to be polite to them, weak and unintentional women are the most susceptible to suffering. You will suffer for the rest of your life.

You've done these "stupid things" in your marriage. Don't blame your in-laws for taking you seriously. Because some mothers-in-law are like this, the more you endure it, the better you will become, and the more you will be bullied.

In the face of a powerful and domineering mother-in-law, it is useless to rely on resignation to move. In short, if you want to get to know your in-laws, you have to learn to be a woman who "doesn't get into trouble easily".

First of all, you should regard yourself as the mistress of this family, and don't be too soft-hearted, too weak, and you should also explain your bottom line and principles, and you should also have your own work and career, don't give up your career for the sake of your family, and you must have a certain degree of financial independence, and you should also be strong, and don't compromise and give in on some principled issues, and you should also compare your heart to your heart, but don't stammer and flatter.

Don't be a person without assertiveness, as a daughter-in-law, you must know how to respect your elders, but you also have a certain bottom line, and don't say bad things about your mother-in-law, you must be honest and have a certain amount of capital, this kind of words will be upset if your husband hears too much, and finally don't use your mother-in-law's money to supplement your mother's family, if you have the ability, use your own money to help, your mother-in-law has no obligation to help you support your mother's family, you have to put yourself in the right position and be responsible for your own small family.

Don't quarrel with your husband in front of your parents-in-law. Don't blindly please your in-laws and make yourself have no status at home. Don't speak ill of your own family. Don't be too unassertive.

Don't quarrel over trivial matters, don't worry about it, only in this way will you be taken seriously by your in-laws.

These girls must treat their in-laws moderately, don't please each other too much, don't meddle in the affairs of their in-laws, and live their own lives.

A woman is in her mother-in-law's house, and her mother-in-law's family doesn't take herself seriously.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a very difficult relationship to handle, and there are many couples who even quarrel all day long because of the poor handling of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and even divorce in the end. In fact, there is no difficulty in handling the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there is always a process of mutual understanding between people, as long as you are sincerely good to her and treat her sincerely, then I believe that she will one day be moved by your sincerity and really treat you as a family. In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, mother-in-law does not treat you as her own mountain ant, and often treats you in these ways.