For a married woman, which is her home, her in laws or her mother s family?

After a woman gets married, she has her own small family, she is an outsider in her in-law's house, and she is a guest when she returns to her parents' house. Before you got married, you were a girl, a baby daughter of your parents, living freely in the home that your parents supported you, and belonging to the family members who were dependent on your parents. After getting married, you become the housewife of your own small family, and you have to support your own small family with your husband, from a supporting role in the family to a protagonist, and with a child, you are promoted to a mother, and the family responsibility becomes greater.

A married woman with a family of origin.

Although there is inseparable blood and family affection, they already belong to two different families, and they are financially independent of each other and independent of internal affairs, which is destined to be different from before marriage. If you are the only daughter in the family, this difference is not obvious, but if you have a sister-in-law or sister-in-law in the family, the difference is obvious. If you are financially wealthy after marriage and can help your mother's family, you will be very popular when you return to your parents' home, and if you live a poor life, you will be looked down upon when you return to your parents' home.

It's not easy for everyone to live, and everyone is afraid of being dragged down, which is human nature.

As the parents get older and older, the original mother's family supported by the parents is supported by the brother or brother and their partner, and you go back to your parents' house is already going to relatives instead of going home, if you do it as casually as before, it will let the parents be caught in the middle and be wronged, bringing contradictions to the family of the elder brother or younger brother, as the saying goes: the poor no one asks on the street, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains.

The married woman is in her mother-in-law's house, this family is the husband's original family, and the previous decades have nothing to do with you.

You will feel like an outsider. If you run in with each other well in the future, but you are a foreign surname after all, don't take things too seriously; If the run-in is not good, you are the enemy and you will be sad. The pressure on women is never less than that of men, especially married women, when their in-laws don't want to go back, and when their mothers can't go back, it's too important to have a home of their own.

Therefore, women must have a skill, can not be attached to others to live, now the society provides women with a lot of different positions, integration into the society, have their own career, is essential, always self-improvement, self-reliance, self-esteem, self-confidence.

Her mother's house is her home, because in her mother-in-law's house, you will always feel that you are an outsider, and this feeling is particularly awkward.

In fact, those married women think that their in-laws' family is their home, because they are already married, but many in-laws do not bring this feeling to married women.

For a married woman, I think that her in-law's house and her mother's house are his home, one is the place where he once lived, and the other is the place where he will live for the rest of his life, and the two are inseparable.

Of course, it's my mother's family, because after all, married women are married, so it's my mother's family.

Her mother's home is her home. Because the talents of the mother's family really think about their children, and always pay silently for their children.

Personally, I think it's still my own mother's home, that's where I really grew up, and it's also a place where I can be willful at will.

Summary. Hello dear, there has been a saying in China since ancient times, the water spilled by a married daughter cannot be recovered. It shows that in people's minds, daughters are not the roots of the family, and only boys have a share of the inheritance of family property.

Hello dear, there has been a saying in China since ancient times, the water spilled by a married daughter cannot be recovered. It shows that in people's minds, daughters are not the roots of the family, and only boys have a share of the inheritance of family property.

If the elder brother or younger brother has already started a family, and the parents are old and have no ability to protect themselves, the mother's family will become the home of the brother and sister-in-law or the younger siblings, of course, the mother's family is not her own home, divorced, and the in-law's family is not her own home, and her own home can only be created through her own efforts. It's something that can never be changed.

For a married woman, where is home? This is a major problem that has plagued married women since ancient times. Personally, I think that home is a place that can give you a sense of security, if this place gives you a sense of security, then your in-law's house and mother's house can be your home, and vice versa, **neither.

Not to mention the mother-in-law's house. I didn't have any relationship with their family before, I didn't have any contact, and the reason why I had contact with them was because of my other half. But this kind of family does seem to be a family with them on the surface, but in fact it feels like an outsider in front of themAlthough everyone is very kind, it is actually just a superficial effort.

We can't be ourselves in front of them. Therefore, in my opinion, the in-laws and mother-in-law's family are not their real homes for women who have been married.

For women, neither their in-laws nor their mother's homes are their real homes. The small home of yourself and your husband and children is your real home, and for your in-laws and mother-in-law, you are all outsiders.

It must be that only the mother's family can let you act recklessly and do what you want to do, which your in-laws can't bring.

In fact, the real home should be the in-law's family, after all, it is the in-law's family when you get married, but sometimes you will feel that your mother's family is your home, because only when you return to your mother's house will you be very down-to-earth.

It should be said that my mother's house is the real home, because I grew up in my mother's house, and my blood is thicker than water.

I think that for women, their mother's home is their real home, and only when they go back to their parents' home can they truly relax.

In fact, these two homes are their own homes. But after getting married, my in-laws' family is my own home.

Don't dream, how can your in-laws' family be your own home. You will always be a person with a foreign surname. If you don't get divorced, it's fine, but if you get divorced, who knows anyone if you walk on the street! And your own parents are the closest people.

My husband and I are our own home, my husband and I buy the house by ourselves, earn the money by ourselves, and bring the children by ourselves, and my family of three is the closest family. My mother-in-law's family has never been my family, it is my in-laws' home, and my mother's family is the former home, not the current home.

It's not your own home, work hard to make money, and buy a set before marriage is the key.

In the future, I will buy a house for my daughter and I will not make him feel homeless.

Not at all! Your true home is your own home! It's not called my mother's house, it's not called my mother's house, it's not called my mother's house

The place with her husband and children is her home. The in-law's family is the face, and the mother's family is the responsibility.

An only child, her mother's home will always be home.

It's not a real home, only the home with her husband is her own home, but her mother's house has always been a safe haven for women.

After I got married, my mother-in-law's house was not home, and I was an outsider.

No, only your and your husband's home is your own home.

After getting married, your home is the real home, your mother's family is the backer, and your mother-in-law's family is a relative.

actually compared his mother-in-law's family with his own mother's family. Sinister intentions!

Her mother's home will always be her home, and it's hard to say about her mother-in-law's family.

If life is good, the mother-in-law's family and the mother's family are her type of noisy home, if you have a bad time, prepare for divorce and other circumstances, such as the man's accidental death, etc., so the mother's family is her home, but one thing is clear, the mother's family will always be the home of a married woman, and the mother-in-law's family will never be easy to say.

Men and women in today's society are very realistic, there is no love and very, men marry wives, women marry husbands, is to run to live together, when they were single before, there was a person to feed the whole family without hungry ideas, after marriage this idea should be thrown into the trash in time, now there is a husband, wife and children, there should also be corresponding responsibilities, if at this time men or women lack their respective responsibilities and obligations, It is bound to produce negative or dissatisfied feelings to the responsible other party, which will cause a great blow to the other party in the long run, once the other party has an aversion to family life, the family will disintegrate sooner or later, so a family man must have a man's sense of responsibility, and a woman must have a woman's love, so that the family can go on healthily and energetically.

Therefore, for a married woman, her mother's home will always be her home for Bu Cover, and it is not so certain whether her mother-in-law's home is her home.

Are you kidding me? The mother's family is the mother's family, and the mother-in-law's family is the mother-in-law's family, how can this be considered a family?

A powerful woman behaves as follows in her in-laws' house:

1. Listen to your own ideas in doing things.

If a woman marries into an unhappy family, then her status must be very low, whether she speaks or acts, she will consider the thoughts of her mother-in-law and husband, rather than acting according to her own wishes. But people who do things according to their own ideas and don't need to think too much about them should have a high status in their in-laws.

2. Be financially independent and have the ability to live sufficiently.

A financially independent woman can truly have her own capital and confidence, and she will not be looked down upon by others at any time. Therefore, after getting married, it is best for a woman to maintain financial independence, and only by holding the money in her own hands can you have a real sense of security. You need to have your own job, have your own income**, and you don't have to reach out to men to ask for money, this is your dignity.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship

The mother-in-law is the mother of the husband. Traditionally, the mother-in-law was the highest status among the women in the family and had considerable power to decide on the distribution of household work, manage the household finances, and so on. The husband and wife's family have many economic and labor obligations to the mother-in-law's family, and the wife is a daughter-in-law with a lower status to the mother-in-law.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are prone to disputes. Such disputes** include differences between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in terms of age, experience, education, health, personality, habits, language, ethnicity, etc. In addition to personal factors, a large part of the dispute comes from the conflict between the in-laws and the couple's respective development goals.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a major issue in the family.