How I overcame my psychological emotional barriers

To be honest, I think that if you think like this, it proves that you are a very good man, and if you are afraid that you will not be able to give her a happy life, it proves that you are a man who knows how to be responsible, and you don't want to drag down your parents, it proves that you are a filial man, and such a man is rare.

The biggest reason for your lack of confidence is your income. To tell the biggest truth, the economic foundation of marriage is necessary, but what kind of economic foundation is suitable for marriage Everyone has different standards, maybe your income is not as good as those rich second generation, but in fact, we just need to live the life of ordinary people, although the economic foundation is very important, but a family is not happy because of money, as long as you are a man who is responsible for the family and knows how to pay for the family, then I believe that your married life will also be very happy.

As for the house, to be honest, although you don't want to tire your parents, sometimes they do feel that they can help you with their happiness, and since they bought it for you, you can accept it, as long as you can be filial as always.

And the problem that your parents brought you through, I think first of all, you don't need to be so unconfident in your own work and income, look at your career you said, I personally think that although the income will not be very high, it is not the kind of life that cannot live, after all, you should not let your wife work, two people work together, and it is no problem to raise a family together and live an ordinary life. Secondly, if your parents have a good business and want to take you to live, I think it is acceptable, provided that "taking you" does not mean that you don't work and depend on them to support you, but if their business is good enough, you can help them do business together, and treat business as your job.

Actually, I think your conditions and character are still good, and you have no reason not to be confident.

People, be confident, there are a lot of people who are worse than you, at least you have a house now, the family economy is good, and you have a fixed job, so you have nothing to worry about, of course, if you want to worship the golden girl, then I can only say that you deserve to be alone. If you don't raise your head and hold your chest high, face everything confidently, take out your courage to work (you can be a supervisor without the courage to bluff who, you), and apply it to your feelings.

People are forced out." Everyone has potential, born in peace, died in sorrow, so, when facing pressure, don't be anxious, maybe this is just a little test of life for you, believe in yourself, everything can be dealt with, forcing a hero to go to Liangshan, the times create heroes, the poor think about change, people only have pressure to have motivation.

Isn't it because you don't see your own shining point, and you don't have bad habits or shining points?

Isn't it a shining point for you to honor your parents?

Isn't it a shining point that you think about others?

Isn't it a shining point that you are serious and honest?

Happiness is not only material, you have to be a spiritual strongman, believe that everything will be fine.

Listening to you say that, I think you're a good person. Don't always live in your own world, you have to be brave enough to try many things that you haven't done before, why can't you give others happiness, do you feel that your salary is less? The technical director of the computer company should be good, how do you know that others are not happy with you!

So, be brave enough to take this step and wish you happiness!

Dude, shoot when it's time to shoot, you're so afraid of this and that bitter or your last, but don't be too anxious, my goal is to get married at the age of thirty, men are more attractive when they have a career, don't be pessimistic, cheer up, work hard, fate is everywhere, maybe it's tomorrow!

You have to be confident, if you don't mind money, follow your parents to learn to do business, let go of your inner shackles, and work hard, it will definitely be very good. Ha ha.

A happy life is created by two people together, and now machismo is no longer popular, as long as you work hard and be self-motivated, your she will definitely live with you and Meimei.

I don't have your questions. It's hard now! Moreover, in this world, nothing can be said for sure. I think you should be bold and don't worry about the future. Just look for one with your eyes.

I'm afraid I can't give her a happy life! Because you are directly dealing with marriage, you want your marriage to be full of love. Both parties in a loving marriage are happy. Are you still looking for love? What is the essence of love?

If you haven't experienced it, how will you know the result, there will always be someone who belongs to you in this world, be brave.

The premise of being able to establish an intimate relationship with others is whether you can accept yourself.

Do you have no confidence in your previous love experience?

If you like her, if you love her, she will be happy, ......

First of all, we must overcome our lack of attention to emotions, it is because we don't feel that we don't need these emotions, so we don't feel these emotions, so we must pay attention to these emotions, and have an impulse to look forward to these beautiful emotions, so that we can be enthusiastic.

The first is to open one's heart, the second is to accept others, and the third is to get along with others. Many people do not open their inner world in the first step, and if others can't get in and go out themselves, they can't communicate.

Try to open your heart, express your inner thoughts more, and accept others, don't always be high-minded and defensive of others, in fact, not everyone comes with harm, some people are really good to you.