What are some of your most troubled life experiences?

When I was in college, we would have a school-enterprise cooperation in my sophomore year, and I would go to the off-campus internship in the company for a semester.

We went to a teaching and auxiliary materials sales company. When we went there during the summer vacation, and then the training was completed just in time for the start of school in September, because I was a college student, so I basically didn't feel big, so every time I carried a big school bag, which contained teaching materials to sell to the teacher, I went to the school to find the teacher, and then recommended him. However, the school will be particularly difficult to enter, and it is basically not allowed to enter.

So every time I pretended to be a student to go in, and then I pretended to be a student to ask someone which teacher was in which office, and sometimes I would meet a very good security guard, or an enthusiastic classmate, and I was actually very entangled, knowing that I shouldn't lie to them, but my job had to do it.

And the teaching materials are also divided into several kinds, elementary, junior and senior high schools, and the last thing I want to do is high school materials. Sometimes you will meet a very good teacher, they will look at your college internship and think of their own children or students, and basically if they can, they will consider choosing to order materials from you. Every time in my heart, I want him to order and I don't want him to order, because I myself came from the college entrance examination, I know the importance of the college entrance examination to a student, and it is not cheap to buy a set of college entrance examination materials, I know that my company's materials are not good, many knowledge points are actually very old, and the company can not be changed, and I think that the teacher trusts you so much, and the student has to spend time and money to do this information, it will be particularly tangled and sad.

I will feel guilty, and I will be said to be sad by the company, so I have been very unhappy during that time, and finally applied for transfer to other departments, and I don't want to do this anymore.

There must be a lot of tangled things in life, and it can only be said that if it can be solved, it will be solved, and if it can't be solved, it is useless to be entangled.

The most tangled life experience is the work problem some time ago, and the family and me had a huge conflict, which made me screw to death! I blame myself for not having a good career plan and entering the workplace without being ready, but if you want to change jobs, you will find that there is a lot of resistance, which makes me waste my most precious time.

Before graduating from university, he passed the national examination and was admitted to the civil service, but it was not local, it was from other places. I haven't been to this place before, and when I came to this place, I regretted it, a small broken county, 100,000 people, and no place to play.

The poor place is also tolerable, the key is that this office environment is even more desperate, there are more than 30 people in a unit, 6 are young, and the rest are all old men in their 50s. There are three people in his office, one 56 and one 50, all of whom are stubborn old men. One smokes all day and makes the office smoky, and the other likes to drink, and after drinking, he trains people everywhere, which really makes him angry.

Staying in such an environment makes people live in depression all day long. I want to quit my job but I don't know what kind of job to look for, and I told my family, and my family said that getting an iron job is better than anything else, but the salary is really not high. Because of the low standard of living in the local area, 4,000 yuan a month, there is no additional income.

I thought that if I had found a company, it would have been better than this.

Uprooted from home and under the pressure of work, I chose to quit my job after more than two years of work, and it was much more comfortable to leave this ghost place.

Tangled, I am a tangled body myself, I face a lot of problems every day, and I spend every day in the entanglement, let's talk about the things I struggled with this day.

I got up in the morning, brushed my teeth and washed my face, and started to put on makeup, for me, who has a lot of lipstick, the first thing I need to do is to apply that color of lipstick, and then I start to struggle with the rows of lipstick, and finally choose one.

Go out, how to go to work in the company, whether to ride a bicycle or drive, and start the second time of the day, look at the watch, it's over, don't be entangled, it's almost late, decisively choose to drive, to the company to start work.

When it came to the lunch break, I began to struggle with the question of whether to eat lunch again, and finally I was entangled in choosing to have lunch, so I began to worry about what to eat, ordering takeout, or the cafeteria, okay, the time is almost up, stop eating, get ready for work, but I'm glad.

You don't have to worry about what to eat at night, what to do and what to eat at home, such a tangled question is left to mother, and this day after eating at night, I began to worry about what to do before going to bed.

Personally, I feel that I am a little entangled, every time I buy something, I can't make up my mind, I have to go to many stores to decide which one to buy when I buy clothes, and I am still hesitating after buying.

I've had a lot of struggles, especially emotionally.

What you lack is communication, long-term non-communication and speculation will cause distrust, introversion is not necessarily self-righteous or conceited, it may be that you don't know how to speak, or, he is waiting for you to speak, you have been with him for 10 years, do you know his personality and some small habits and hobbies very well? Do you remember when you first met? Do you remember the ups and downs you've been through over the years?

It is not easy to become a husband and wife, tolerate each other, and then go through the test of time, and finally stay together is what every couple expects.

Oh, when you approach the palace of marriage, you have to bear the consequences of marriage. Because this is your original choice, you can't part without being happy. Maybe after you leave, you will find that when you are with him, it is the happiest time in your life.

Of course, I'm only talking about maybe.

I feel the same way, but also in the entanglement...

Many friends are persuading them to live well, and at that time, they also made up their minds to do what they didn't look like in reality, and when they saw a lot of things they didn't recognize, they would swallow their tears in their stomachs every day, what are you insisting on?

Sometimes I think about my life in the past few decades, and I have been forgotten by the god of happiness, and divorce is a very heavy topic, and I dare not open it.

The body deteriorates sharply in the entanglement, and it feels like a lot of things are out of order...

Relationships are managed, so treat your marriage with heart and get along with your family.

Change yourself first, then change others.

Yes, we should all look to.

The days of the moment.

The past is gone.

No matter how tangled you are, you can't change it.

The future is yet to come.

Thinking too much will only give it to yourself.

Increase the burden. So we have to cherish the present.

Live your life well.

When I found that the scenery in front of me was different from the past, I had actually entered another stage of my life, learned to see through the world of life, and learned to let go.

1. First of all, you have to figure out what the nature of the entanglement is, why do you dare not make decisions and choices about many things? In fact, most of them have this problem, and the main reason for such a problem is that they are afraid to take responsibility, why do you say that? Because the entanglement is that you don't want to decide to do something, or you don't know what is right to do, it's because you're afraid that you'll choose, or when you decide to do something, you're afraid that you'll go the wrong way and make the wrong choice, and you don't want to regret it or other people's complaints.

2. In fact, in life, no one can attribute their own destiny, life is inherently uncertain, if it is all determined, it is equivalent to a spoiler life, what fun is there? Therefore, there is no need to be entangled in things, what should be done, and the choice that should be chosen, as long as it is an ordinary normal person, there is no choice that you can't bear the responsibility for.

3. From another point of view, although life is indispensable, each of your scattered choices will not have any impact on life, no matter what school you choose to go to or who you marry, the general trend of life will not change. Because no matter how you choose, the road of life will eventually develop in a certain direction, and life is ultimately determined by people's congenital factors and growth environment, as well as the outlook on life, world view, and values formed by ordinary experience.

4. In short, there is no need to be entangled in life.

No one has no lungs and no one is entangled in the slightest. What has been experienced, what experience and lessons have been learned, are all gains. The successful experience of others must not be copied by others, but the lessons of their failures can be used for reference.

Optimistically. Make more friends and experience more things. Effort pays off.

I thought about it carefully, it seems that there are quite a lot of such things, but to be exact, it is not moving, it should be admiration!

I remember that after the college entrance examination, when it was time to fill in the volunteer application, I chose the major I wanted to study without too much entanglement, because I had the idea of career development since junior high school. In the first column of each of my volunteers, I filled in the same major, and they all disobeyed the assignment. Now I don't know where I got so much courage to be so unhesitating, I didn't think about what to do if I wasn't admitted, I was always inexplicably confident that there would be a school that wanted me, and it turned out to be true.

When I was an intern in college, because I liked photography, I went to Hangzhou alone to interview for a job as a photographer's assistant, refused everything arranged by my family, and went to a completely unfamiliar city with my schoolbag and suitcase. I started to submit resumes to my father-in-law, and made an appointment for an interview every dayBecause I was afraid of being scammed, I sent my details and address to my friends before every interview. In less than a week, he successfully entered a high-end photo studio as an intern.

It was a really hard time, and I didn't have any time off for the whole day, but I still felt happy doing what I loved.

I picked up an Apple mobile phone in June this year, I only recognize the Apple brand, I don't understand the others, it's very heavy, he is looking for a mobile phone to contact me, I won't pick up someone to pick up and can't pick up, after a while I thought of the original to wait for him, on the way to the ** He asked me to wait for him, and when he came to say do you bring a mobile phone, I said I didn't bring it, your relative's Yuji is also OK, I called you 500 yuan, if that is not the case, but he stubbornly did not go, I said so, you buy two boxes of cigarettes, he bought two boxes'Twenty yuan a pack of Yuxi, I said to go and get busy, he thanked him and left, because this mobile phone is worth a lot, I didn't covet other people's good things, I thought about it later, I felt that I was not tall, my heart was proud, in the future, I will do this kind of good person to feel happy others also moved themselves.

Yes! When I just graduated from high school, my family was poor, so I wanted to go outside. Of course, my travel expenses are also very tight!

At this time, a friend gave me dozens of yuan for free. At that time. It's not a lot of money, but it's a blessing in disguise!

So I will never forget it!

There are not many times in life when I can feel by myself, once I made a large table of dishes, and the whole family ate very well, almost all of the discs, I was proud of the recognition of my labor, and I was touched by myself.

Once I met an old man in his 60s at the train station, holding 12 yuan in his hand and planning to buy a 20 yuan bus ticket, which was obviously not enough, so I took the initiative to give him 10 yuan, and the extra two yuan could take the bus.

Lend money or a tram to a stranger.

In the third year of high school, there was a pile of books.

It's nothing if you quit, the important thing is whether you have the confidence to find a better job than this, and you can only work there. It's not that being fired is bad, the world is so big, there is always a job for you, cheer up.

Yes! Depressed, aggrieved, world-weary, who can judge you, no one. Drink some wine intensely, borrow wine, and cry!

Then, and then start anew! At that time, I didn't understand, the world was bustling for profit, and the world was bustling for profit, was it wrong to be selfish? No!

It's not that you're doing something wrong, it's because your use value is too small!

First of all, see if there is a contract, if there is a dismissal, according to the provisions of the contract, to compensate.

It's going to be unhappy, and anyone who gets fired is going to be unhappy, unless they're not happy with the job in the first place, but since it's happened, the compensation that should be paid is going to be, and then it's a good life to start over.

At first, you will be very frustrated, because the society will push you away, and you will stand up in the end, don't be discouraged because you have been fired, it's a big deal, we start all over again, the key is to have confidence in yourself.

Hope to be adopted, thank you.

The workplace doesn't believe in tears! There are many reasons for this, so it's just a matter of being bearish.

Dismissal is not anyone's fault, the first is the dismissal with competition, choose 1 out of 2, you want a person, this is the reality, work hard in the future!

The second is that because the company doesn't make money, there is no way to support so many people, some unimportant positions or people with a general relationship with the leader, these people must be the first choice for dismissal, but don't be discouraged, because this can show that you still have the opportunity to go to a better place, the company is not making money and has no future, what is the use of you getting a dead salary here? Maybe it will close one day.