My little one is not interested in learning, what should I do?

Parents in my country are probably the ones who worry about their children the most, and many people are exhausted and painstakingly for the growth of their children. Many parents often complain in front of friends and colleagues that "today's children are too difficult to educate", "my children are too uncompetitive", "my children are really unable to educate", etc., but few parents reflect on the problems of their own educational concepts and methods.

Parents should always reflect on their own behavior, especially when there are conflicts and disagreements with their children, and reflect on whether they have made mistakes and improprieties in the education process. As the old saying goes, "If you are not right, you can be righteous".

For example, some parents always complain that their children have no perseverance, but they themselves are typical of lack of perseverance. Some parents complain that their children have not developed good living habits, and there are many bad habits in themselves. Some parents complain that their children are procrastinating in learning and doing things sloppily, but they have no plan to do things and get by.

For example, some parents do not let their children watch TV, saying that watching TV is not conducive to physical health and learning, but they do not have a fulfilling spare time, so they turn on the TV whenever they are free. If such parents reflect, they will find problems in their education, and after discovering the problems, the whole family will work together to get rid of bad habits, which will definitely be a great boost to the children.

Children are born different, but every child has the potential to develop.

Research has proved that affirmation and appreciation of children is an important magic weapon for the healthy development of children, and obtaining appreciation is the strongest requirement in the depths of children's hearts, and the essence of appreciation is love for children, and love can make children grow up healthier. Psychological and pedagogical research has proven that appreciation can motivate children to correct their deficiencies and encourage them to achieve higher goals, and the younger the child, the more appreciation and motivation are needed.

Excerpt from <<4th grade determines a child's life".

I hope you read it.

There are a lot of educational methods in it.

I've heard a story like this before (it's true).

A child, he was also not interested in studying, so his parents let him drop out of school for a month and let him do whatever he wanted at home. If you want to watch TV, you don't have to hide it from your parents, just turn on the TV and watch it. At the end of the month, the child also got bored and told his parents that he wanted to study.

So the parents continued to let him learn, and the child's academic performance was significantly improved compared to the original!

I don't know if this trick will work for every child, but it sounds quite "cruel"!

It is a good habit to take responsibility for and accompany children.

Giving him material rewards, and when he reaches a certain goal, giving him something he wants, may stimulate his interest in learning.

The child's lack of interest in learning should be adjusted as follows:

1. Stimulate interest in learning, such as letting children have more desire for knowledge, asking why for everything, or taking children to visit exhibition halls, cultural centers, museums, etc., or going to aquariums, animal museums, etc., so that children can have a sense of curiosity about the world, and at the same time maintain a strong desire to learn in order to be interested in learning.

2. Do a good job of encouragement, because many children may encounter setbacks and failures in the learning process, and may become inferior or even painful, so we must encourage and tolerate more, so that children know that their parents are the biggest support, and the problems encountered in learning are not the most terrible, so that they can enjoy the fun of the learning process.

3. Let children have more experience in learning success, such as setting easy-to-achieve learning goals, so that children have more opportunities to succeed in learning, and gradually accumulate experience in late work and gain self-confidence to be interested in learning.

Encourage your child to try different things until they find something interested.

The cultivation of learning interests should first observe what the child's interests are, start with the things he is interested in, and then turn the interests into a part of his life. And for those children who don't know where their interests are, try different things until they discover what they are interested in. They'll also be learning along the way, and once they've discovered what they're interested in, they'll accelerate their progress.

Guide children to take the initiative to experience the joy of learning.

Only when children experience the joy of learning can they develop a good habit of loving learning. You can ask, "How do you feel, are you happy to memorize this poem?"

Take the initiative to guide him in this way, so that he can take the initiative to feel the joy of learning. He learned a poem that made him feel that sense of accomplishment, of worth.

The key to guiding children to experience the joy of learning is to let him take the initiative to experience it, so that he will feel that learning is a happy thing. In the end, even if you don't guide, he himself has formed such a thinking pattern of actively experiencing the joy of learning, then his progress in learning will continue to be highlighted.