22 What is life like for you at the age of 24?

My daughter, in 1994, 23 years old this year, a graduate student of a 985 university, her living state is poor and poor, and she doesn't know what her direction is all day long.

When I was in college, I had a lot of expectations for my life, and I attributed the reason why I was so mediocre to the fact that my undergraduate school was too poor, and the people around me were not very powerful, and the teacher could not say that it brought great guidance to my life. After three years in the student union, I barely became a minister, but the actual effect is not very much, maybe I just think too much, maybe a person himself will not improve himself too much through the student union. Later, I worked hard to take the graduate school entrance examination, which is actually something I thought about after I didn't do well in the college entrance examination.

The postgraduate entrance examination is not very smooth all the way, reluctantly emphasizing the agent to the current school, I don't know if I am too bad, I feel that I am still very confused, the teacher is not very good, many times I am thinking about whether I want to drop out, because in addition to being confused or confused, the school has subsidies but not much, the boss is very picky, do not give living allowances, I am also very helpless, the boss is relatively slow, and there is no academic ambition, may also be disappointed after so many years without progress.

23 years old, the family is not a very good family, want to earn money and want a lot of material things, very dissatisfied with their current state, if there is a big pie in the academic world I don't pick it up is my fault, but I really can't see anything, I don't know if I'm wasting time. But the people around me are also in this state, maybe this is a common problem of people who are in the first place. So sometimes I also think that I am suitable for someone to give some stimulants, even if it is confusing me that I am not real, at least I will not be as helpless as I am now.

Hopefully it'll be okay.

I calculated it, the years when I was 22-24 years old belonged to the years when I just graduated and mixed into the society, and I really want to recall those times with my heart, I have to nag:

At the age of 22, I was full of fighting spirit, I could take an hour's bus every day to go to the newspaper in the city for an internship for a dream that I identified - the dream of being a reporter, every time I saw the stack of thick bus tickets, I particularly admired and envied the simple me at that time, the one who was desperate for the dream, I liked me very much at that time, and the life was as simple as clear water, that is, a tendon insisted on the original idea in my heart.

But reality is reality after all, no matter how plump the dream is, it can't compare to the skinny feeling of reality, I finally stopped asking my parents for money to live, I stopped the reporter internship with no zero income, returned to the town to find a good job, and started a rookie career in the workplace.

Without big dreams, I can always embrace my little dreams! In addition to work in my life, I also began to draw those cities on the map of China that I had not been to, and I planned to at least let myself go out once a year, not to lose time, let alone treat myself, the work would be boring, not to go out for a walk, I was afraid that my impetuous heart would make me lose myself.

Maybe when I was 22-24 years old, I was really living a relatively easy life, work and life were walking according to my own life trajectory, and my parents did not have a strong urge to marry at that time, no children were annoying around, and I didn't have to live a fireworks life on a budget, after all, I was still relatively young at that time, and I had not yet reached the age of an old leftover girl.

After graduating last year, I happened to be in this range, and it was too early to get married at this age, and it was too difficult to start a business. Therefore, choosing a job is not high, I feel that I am a college graduate, and the job needs a higher education, and the bad job feels that my college diploma is wasted. So now I work as a simple financial clerk in an environmental protection company, from 9 to 5 in the morning, with plenty of time, just enough money to earn and spend no savings.

There is no emotional life in college life, and I don't talk much about feelings, so I haven't had a good love experience, and even if I do, it won't be too long. Then I got used to one person, and now I feel that in the future, I don't know if I am used to the life of two people. Chat with friends on WeChat every day.

Thinking about saving some money to find two friends to travel, I usually send a circle of friends when I come back from traveling, thinking about what to wear and eat today. The same way of life, not a single rain can make a ripple.

Sometimes I feel like I'm a robot, because the model has been designed, I feel that this kind of life has no meaning, and I often talk to my friends about wanting to start my own business and want to go out. But because I don't have any money in my hand, I don't have time to go to work, and I can't make an appointment with my friends. As a result, this series of plans has been put on hold.

Recently, I have a lot of words in my heart, because it is really embarrassing at this age. We think it's too early to get married, but the family has not gone to school and has been married early, my mother often says, younger than you have been married and have children, you still don't have a boyfriend, so now the general young people are reluctant to go home on holidays, and they will be arranged to go on a blind date when they go home. I don't want to go home either.

Now I just want to have a little color in my life in the future, and I don't want the black-and-white interface to keep making me less and less energetic about life.

The years of youth are always so short, but what should we do at the best age? Twenty-two to twenty-four years old, this age is the best year for the harvest of study, career and love, because we are still young at this time, we are not afraid of failure, so we only have one word from twenty-two to twenty-four years old, that is, to fight. Spell out our wonderful life in the future.

Fighting for school, this is what every young person should do. As a twenty-three-year-old me, I deeply understand the importance of this matter, if we compare our life's studies to a raging flame, then ten years of hard study can only be regarded as the stage of finding dry firewood, the university needs us to talk about this fire ignited, continuous learning is the fire to hold the wind, the university stage is to use all the knowledge learned before for our current major, because the university is the stage of specialization, we must work hard to learn our professional knowledge, not only for our future livelihood planning, You also have to work hard to make a career for yourself, so that you can start your twenty-three years old, the best years of your life.

Go and find a love, although you are no longer a child at the age of twenty-three, but your heart is still pure, you have not experienced the baptism of society, you can use your innocence to pursue a true love. If you meet the opposite sex you like, you must pursue it boldly, youth needs a love affair, no matter how beautiful the age is, meet the most beautiful you, and spend the most beautiful time with the person you love the most. When you are old, you will have no regrets.

When we find a partner at the age of twenty-three, not only are we young, but the people we like are also young, so that we may have a better chance of success.

Twenty-two to twenty-four years old is the best stage of our lives, and in the best stage, we must seize the time to complete our studies and pursue happiness.

At this age, I am still on the campus of the university, I have not graduated, and the other half has not been settled, everything is stable and unstable, and I am busy every day.

The stability is because I am still in school, and the living expenses and tuition fees are very unproductive, and I have to go out at home, and I go to class step by step every day, and class is the most important thing. I have nothing to do and sit in the library and prepare for my own papers. Shopping with my roommates during the holidays, singing together, celebrating my roommate's birthday, and now it's all stable, because there are still classes to be attended.

The instability is that you are about to graduate, the future is uncertain, you are about to leave school, you are not in classes, your job is unknown, and your salary is unknown. I don't know anything when I leave school, and sometimes I am very confused and don't know what to do at this age. I am a little afraid, afraid that my life will not be good in the future, and I will have to rely on my family.

I didn't go out of school at this age, and I felt that I was very old. I'm too young at this age after leaving school, and I don't have any work experience or social experience, so I'm still a little distressed.

At the age of 22, I have just graduated from junior college. When I resolutely decided to develop in my hometown, it was decided that my path would be more difficult.

When I tried hard to get a civil service exam and didn't succeed, when I tried hard to find a job for half a year without any results, I was really desperate at that time. I don't want to be one of the many supermarket cashiers, I'm really unwilling.

When I begged my grandfather and grandmother to ask for help at home, I finally found a job in the seventh month. Although the salary was only 800, I still agreed. In this way, I finally found my first job after graduation, and I finally didn't have to sit idle at home every day.

At the age of twenty-three, I was so busy with work that I didn't have time for myself. I was the only one left at home to go back and forth for work every day, and I had to learn to take care of myself.

The tram ran out of gas on the road, and I had to push it to the place where the tram was repaired by myself. I don't have anything to eat, so I have to go to the supermarket to buy food by myself. If you don't know how to cook, you have to slowly start learning to cook by yourself.

I have grown up and should be able to take good care of myself, so I should start to be able to do my own laundry, cooking, and housework.

When you are usually free, you can also go shopping with your girlfriends to buy clothes. Overall, I learned a lot and I am very satisfied. Although that kind of life is relatively busy, I can still feel the happiness that I have not seen for a long time, and this is life.

At the age of twenty-four, I met my current husband and got married. We actually got married very quickly, and I can only say that I feel that he is a very reliable person, so I will marry him.

After marriage, it was proved that my choice was not wrong, and he spoiled me from a female man to a little princess. The life skills I had just learned were useless, and all aspects of my life were taken care of by him.

A person's life is roughly divided into three stages, youth, youth, and old age. Young and frivolous, ignorance is not an exaggeration, and the young Top Gun is a good story; Young people are mediocre and confused, young and courageous, quite fearless and fearless; The old age suddenly woke up to the accumulation of thick hair, the old age and the decay, and the return to the heart should be a lifetime.

Countless times I have thought about what I have become when I am twenty-two years old, and I have asked myself countless times what I will become, and I woke up, so I began to work hard and began to make breakthroughs in stages, and the dream in my heart was so lofty that I was ambitious.

After thinking about it like a soldier on paper, he said sour words to comfort himself and persuade his heart.

I think I'm precocious.,Slowly understand what you need.,But sometimes I often can't say it sincerely.,Go against your heart.。

A few days ago, I had a drink with the head teacher of the high school, and I really felt the words of the people who came over. Like a teacher, like an old friend, talking about his feelings, experience, and now I can empathize. When I was in high school, I pursued a girl, and he was against it in every way, but now that I think about it, I am very grateful.

I have always taken my feelings very seriously, but I always go to waste, constantly reflecting on myself, but I also know that after all, it is a matter of two people. But what has been experienced and worthy of one's heart is serious.

For love, as a kind of happiness, for me it should be positive and full of energy, cherish the moment, cherish everyone around me, every cherished feeling, give without reservation, but just want to get a companion. When you get along deeply, you will think of the other party's good when you are in conflict, comfort yourself, and fall into a deeper state, but you don't know that once you make a mistake, there is no way back, and you will be hurt deeply. Knowing that their own mentality and thoughts will sometimes hurt the other party, they would rather bury it in their hearts, self-denial, and in the end, be too confident in their feelings.

Think it's far-reaching.

When I am ideal, I am often very distressed, but I can't tell the origin, I am twenty-two years old, an unspeakable feeling, and a withdrawn heart. Maybe it's full of self-reproach and shame, maybe I shouldn't be like that. This is not the life I want!

Positive, upward, there is a head, there is a direction, return to myself, twenty-two years old, I should live like this, even if I can't tell what the road is, I must go forward with my head on my head, and then I am not afraid of the tail, I believe in myself, it is mine, I will not go, worthy of my own heart, worthy of my own seriousness. From now on, that's it. Come on!

I thought I was free and happy.

But here's the thing:

I was free, but not so happy.

I finally did all the things that the Internet would have thought this person was lonely. But it doesn't seem like much.

Parting ways with someone who thought they had a good relationship. But for now, we're all doing well.

I don't like to be boisterous anymore.

I think every hilarity is scary. Especially at the end of the show. Everyone was calm and terrible. However, it's good. The AA system is not a bad thing.

There is always a mountain and sea. It's a scenery I've never seen before. I'm finally free. Maybe it's very dazed and bitter. Really, I've never been so free. Never. No matter what you think, it always comes sooner or later.